Hard to digest so much

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Posted: 14 years ago
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fiction. I understand that these shows are fictional stories and are written and enacted for our enjoyment but sometimes if it is too far from reality, one is left to wonder. I would not say that US soaps are great but atleast they stay within limits of the original idea. This show started late night and on a good note as it felt to be watched by very regular mature audience becaus e of its concept. But soon, I forced myself not to switch on this channel as for me the weeks of romance of wooing between Aditya and Priya was boring. Then, there was a stop and marriage plans were shown. How many times would we think that a girl' s family in Haryana, would go along with all without meeting with the boy's father. Even if the SSP played clever, in a time zone of digital cameras and face book, how much would be possibl e for the future bride not to meet the prospective FIL before wedding. In real lives, no matter how so ever you would stretch the reality towards fiction, how many FIL's would play cat and mous e with DILs. It is amazing to watch the kind of talk between the DIL and FIl under the same roof. If I am Aditya, and one day the truth opens up, I would be angry at my wife for hiding this bitter truth and would not be able to trust her ever again. To me it is Priya who is at fault for not letting the truth out whether it was rape or attempt to rape.
If I am Priya, in reality, no girl sensitive as Priya, would hide the truth from my husband. I know the outcome could be breaking of my marriage wows but its better done now than later on after estabilishing the physical relation with my husband.
So in short it is hard for me to digest the game play between Priya and SSP.
I understand the concept is to outlay the hypocrisy going in our society but the way it is being enacted is vulgar for me, Adi Priya trying to consummate and the dad trying to stop it- oh come on. It doesn't have to happen only during the night, it doesn't have to happen in a planned way, it could be instant between the two loving creatures- that i s the reality. And how many nights is SSP going to be keeping Adi away, why Priya has to fight it out. She can definitely be more modest in not competing with a man like SSP and then be a winner when the cat takes it easy. Why the women have to be shown dumb and suffering when in reality they are not.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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You are right .. But the best thing is ..Today there is no show on Indian TV which is showing reality .We should be thankful to Maryada that it is still close to reality ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Looks like either I am the only one who feels the above or all of us relate to it. I was expecting to hear from the regulars on this forum.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lotus...have not seen you posting here before so welcome to the forum. 😊

I understand what you are trying to say but Maryaada is one of two or three watchable shows on Indian telly currently. I could not agree more with you about the whole Priya - Aditya consummation track...it is boring and irritating to watch for me. But they are only one of many parallel story tracks that are, for most part, being shown quite well. When you compare it to Western television shows, are you comparing it to the dailies or the weeklies? Big difference between the two. The weeklies have a fixed number of episodes per season and they start the season with shooting well underway and a fairly tight story arc. Shows like Maryaada or most of those on Indian television are far more comparable to the dailies like the Bold and the Beautiful which also have fairly exaggerated style of storytelling. At least the writers here are doing a fairly good job of not getting too caught up in the "romance" to drive TRPs etc.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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lotus 1st of all Welcome to M-forum 🤗 !
n 2nd Agree wid u ! if i was Priya i wont even care wat adi or any1 else will think about me ! buh im gona give a tight slap on SSPs INFRNT of Every1 for wat he did ! n if Adi Actually loves me ! he would support me !

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks for the warm welcome. I have been a silent visitor to the forum but yes I have been visiting now and then. I did like the Uttara track as it again in my words close to reality. Good points made to my post- appreciate the reponse.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lotus every positive post is welcome here 🤗 ! as we love participatin in such meaning ful post !
n Uttara's track is reality as i have seen many such people like SSP who flirts wid their sister in laws .-. !*puke* !

buh people like Devyani r encouraging thm !! im not sayin she is rong as i have seen Such PATI wrata type of Wife .-. ! who shall die buh wont go against their husbands ! buh hello now its not onli abt u buh ur stupid innocent sista also !
u knw Uttara is very innocent !! cuz of her innocense once Rishab used her n now same wid SSP 😡 !

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome to the forum Lotus.
If you look at other serials Maryada is one which is the most close to reality. Hey they even wear nightclothes in bed instead of being decked to the nines in bed 😆
And Priya has tried many times to tell Aditya the truth but either Adi stops her or something comes up. We just have to wait until Adi finds out the truth ( cant wait). I think the creatives are first making a strong bond between the four women before they break their maryada. Only then will they be able to support each other. But who supports who is what we have to wait and find out.
Wow we're patient viewers 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Fiz we r patient untill we see wat punishment SSP is gona get :) !
i dnt want this to be like GEET 😡 ! where i xpected Dev to get punished ! where everythin changed n the guy is positive now 😡 ! i dnt want SSP positive 😡 I want All females To beat him wid chapals 😡 !

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Manal, Dev wasn't as negative as SSP. I dont think SSP will ever turn positive.

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