Aham 'The Headless Chicken'

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choti_rani

@choti_rani

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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

I guess we will have to send you to give him that swift kick in the rear end then because I for one am with Shelly here. His looks will have me 😍☺️

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tellyaddict

@Telly_Addict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: WintersBloom
Well I have already said, he is attracted to Gopi, he does find her lovely, but he closes his mind to the attraction, he will not acknowledge emotional attachments to her, practically he is thinking I should have a wife that is uneducated what will my business associates think of me, that my social skills are not up to par that my mother needs to find an uneducated girl to arrange a marriage for me, as all the educated ones are finding me lacking in somewhere!!!

That's why he needs to see the difference of having a educated wife and uneducated wife. Is it better with or without a gawar wife. His temper and arguments he will have with a new wife will tell him No it isn't.

He also feels suffocated because he never gave the marriage a chance to begin with, it's a burden to have a wife like his socially, his not proud of her. Also as she was forced on him when he thinks he had a better alternative that matched him better.

@bold....thats all we want him to understand and as soon he understands it....it will be better for everyone...he, gopi, whole Modi family and we too....

@red...thats again what Aham is......he never attached himself Emotionally to anyone except his mom....not even Anita and not Kinjal too......
coz when he was telling Anita to forget him there was not a glimpse of Emotions in his eyes.....at that moment "His Mom" and "His Faith" in his mom's choice was everything for him.....
and till now he what ever he is doing is again only for mom...........
but at the same time he cant change his nature to keep Emotional Attachment to anyone under his heart deep down so that it wont hurt him back at any cost..........I can understand his this feel.....

but still he needs to open his eyes, his heart so that it wont be too late for him to realize what he has lost "As Gopi".....

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tellyaddict

@Telly_Addict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Eesha2

I understand that when someone is pretending they will do anything to win his affection and won't stop until he or she does, but I mean he has noticed Gopi working like a servant even with no on around to see. He has stolen glances at her doing work even with no one to gloat to. Why hasn't he ever stopped to think why is she doing this when no one is around to win over. I'm sorry, but Ahem to me is stubborn and is wearing rose colored glasses. He sees the way Rashi and Urmi act and he sees the way Gopi acts and his ego just refuses to believe his eyes or his heart. He's stubborn. And Sadhli is right Gopi has never forced herself onto Ahem or demanded anything from him that is legally hers. Why doesn't he stop to think that hey if she was after my money why did she take those reverse vows and promise to leave the house after Kinjal's wedding. If I was really a gold digger and my husband was treating me like that I would say the hell with you I'm leaving right now and I'm dragging you to court to get what is legally mine. I understand what is going on in his mind but Ahem is educated. He can tell the difference and can think between what is right and what is wrong. He just doesn't want to admit he was wrong. He is stubborn.

@bold...thats the most confusing thing in Aham's case....
in one very fine epi..he stares at her...with a look that can melt her.....with a gaze that shows "what he has in his heart" and very next moment he opens his mouth just to Discard what all was evident in his looks.......
that he thinks she is attractive enough for my gaze but not Worth enough for my concern......
not intelligent enough to be my wife.....
not good enough to be with me whole life......

so still she is lacking something except being attractive as far as his mind set is concerned...but he can observe all those things only when he wont be "A Giddy Headed Adamant Kid"........

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br2499

@br2499

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#34

Sadhli! you must be really angry with Aham! People stay clear of Sadhli till the next GoHam scene.

I feel that we are overanalysing Aham's character looking for nonexistent things. he is behaving so randomly that I dont think there is any meaning to his actions. My take is that the CV's some how messed his characterisation and cannot figure out how to resolve it. Or they think that the TRP ratings increase if Gopi suffers and so do all this stuff.

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tellyaddict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: WintersBloom
Gopi has tried to win over by throwing herself at him, she tried decorating his room, also she tried preparing food he would like (not fatty food but health concious food), she made green tea for him, recognising he was health concious made kadha for him. Also that Modi house you don't know who might see you and repeat that work you were doing in Aham's hearing, one or more of the Modi's are always around the place. He cannot trust her...Also he never gave the relationship a chance right from the outset...He vowed to not soften his attitude to her, in the beginning episodes when he was dating Anita and was unable to turn Kokila to accept Anita as a Bahu. He is cynical and stubborn (his made up his mind) and will not be swayed.

ok..here i do agree she did try to force herself on him but only once thats room decoration instance as all other were before Kinjal's Necklace Karnama and he almost acknowledge her for few moments....
but when Koki pleaded in front of Gopi to not to anything like she did "decorating the room"....Gopi dint do it again....
what she is doing is....just trying to be A DIL for Modis and fulfilling all her duties as a DIL but not as a wife..........

again with exceptions.....when he was sneezing badly she did help him in getting steam....
when he was hurt she unknowingly felt his pain when he too observed the same....
and when he asked her to help him in hiding Kinjal's runaway secret from mom.....

but here what my point is....this can be the situation with any one in the house and Gopi would have helped them in Exactly same manner......
if instead of Aham...Jigar would have sneezed that badly (and we know Rashi...her sleep is most imp for her than anything else) then m sure Gopi would have been the person to help jigar.....

if instead of Aham...Mani got hurt and while dressing she gets same pain.....m sure Gopi would have been felt it in the same way as it was for Aham....coz we know Gopi, she is so sensitive can feel the pain of Mute Snake then why not a living being ir-respective of who is he/she.....

also if it would have been Parag asking her to help her in keeping the things secret to Koki...she would have done it happily as for her "Kokila's life" is most important thing on this earth even from Aham's Concern.......

So why Aham thinks or feels that she did all this for him (as far as i read his stares)on terrace walking back after taking the steam, observing her through mirror, and worrying abt her how she is managing the things on her own...

@bold....completely agree......and he needs A Big Big Hit on his head to get his heart working to convince is "So called sleeping brain"

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tellyaddict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: br2499
Sadhli! you must be really angry with Aham! People stay clear of Sadhli till the next GoHam scene.

I feel that we are overanalysing Aham's character looking for nonexistent things. he is behaving so randomly that I dont think there is any meaning to his actions. My take is that the CV's some how messed his characterisation and cannot figure out how to resolve it. Or they think that the TRP ratings increase if Gopi suffers and so do all this stuff.

yes bee m angry...not just angry...I just cant figure whats happening to me...
why m so engrossed in analyzing mere a character......may be coz m now feeling so much about Gopi....

being so selfless and purehearted, naive, innocent...what she is getting in return just anger, haterd...
and nothing else.......

just canr imagine if a gal like her will get a jerk like aham in real life what would have been the situation,...and yes i know i should keep real and reel thing separate but i could not here as m keeping myself in Gopi's shoes everytime she gets a scolding or shouting...
and this time its more than anything else....so u'll see my anger may be in much more worst condition.......