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Hi Girls,
I don't think it is just the matter of Ego, arrogance or stubbornness with Aham. He is all those but in this instance he honestly believes that she is a thief, she is greedy, and is playing games so that she doesn't have to leave the MM. All the evidence of her doing all the good taht she does, makes him stop and think but not enough to overturn his fundamental believes after her.He finds her beautiful and is attracted to her but again he wholeheartedly believes that she is not his equal. So it is easy to ignore his attraction.It's like this...all of us have preconceived ideas of what qualities our husband or wife must have and it is very hard for us to change our mind when people don't fit what we want. Aham wanted a strong, modern, educated woman, someone of the same status and wealth as him. Someone who he considers his equal or worthy of himself. Gopi just doesn't fit that model and on top of that he doesn't trust her. No matter how much his heart tells him that Gopi is okay his brain is not ready to accept her.It is going to take a big kick or event for him to change his mind. I think Kinjal is going to be the catalyst for the change we want!
Oh Shelly I hope you are right. Maybe all us girls should get together and give him that big kick we all so desperately are waiting for. He's sooo frustrating though. But I totally see your point. He's stubborn.
