Aham 'The Headless Chicken'

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sorry frnds another ranting session.
M still could nt recover from the shock that i got from precap.

Why aham is behaving like 'a headless chicken'
why he does nt admit wt he is observing
why he is so adamant to get rid of Gopi
why he deliberately ignoring Gopi's qualities

why why why n many more why in my brain.

Also there is a saying
If someone is Sleeping You can wake him up, bt if someone is Pretending to sleep you can't wake him up.

And same is Aham's condition he is pretending to be blind folded enuf to see what Gopi is.
Bt what big thing he needs to remove those blind folds,

just cant believe the precap still in shock.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Headless chicken ROFL Sadhli. Too funny but you are quite on the mark with that one. Vent away dear. I'm sure everyone is in this state after watching that heart-wrenching precap. 😡
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Thanx eesha for agreeing with me. M just cnt resist my frustration n anger, so has to vent out.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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With Aham it's a Trust issue. He feels he knows enough of the world to not let some poor girl from the slums wrap him around her little finger. He feels she is trying to manipulate him, he thinks the way she works hard for everyone, being nice is an act for her to stay in the MM and have a wealthy husband and everything that wealth brings.

Remember the beginning, his relationship with Anita, he made a vow to care only about working and nothing else if his mum put him through this marriage, and as Gopi didn't know much of the world she let a lot of his attitude slide. Wedding night after speaking to Anita (she phoned remember) he made a vow to not give Gopi a chance and his trying everything not to weaken his stance.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: WintersBloom

With Aham it's a Trust issue. He feels he knows enough of the world to not let some poor girl from the slums wrap him around her little finger. He feels she is trying to manipulate him, he thinks the way she works hard for everyone, being nice is an act for her to stay in the MM and have a wealthy husband and everything that wealth brings.


Remember the beginning, his relationship with Anita, he made a vow to care only about working and nothing else if his mum put him through this marriage, and as Gopi didn't know much of the world she let a lot of his attitude slide. Wedding night after speaking to Anita (she phoned remember) he made a vow to not give Gopi a chance and his trying everything not to weaken his stance.



You are quite right Nafisa, but for someone who claims to be quite smart he is rather stupid if i do say so myself. I mean granted Gopi is a Bahu of the Modi family and is living in luxury or so he seems to think, to us she's treated more like a servant and he sees that whether he wants to accept it or not he sees it. She works day and night for that family. Any other girl would have run being in those circumstances. He claims to be smart, but he's just as blind and stupid as Gopi when it comes to judging characters.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I understan ur point nafisa that he doesnt want her to overpower him n his ego,
bt what wil be situation to realize all wt gopi is doing is nt a show off bt reality.
She is nt a drama queen doing al this just to get his eye balls

when his heart wil convince his egoistic brain to open his eyes
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Posted: 14 years ago
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he is thinking about a pride of a man. he is thinking that why should I? I am a man. I think that is what he is trying to get in his brain and trying to ignore the feelings for Gopi.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-


I understan ur point nafisa that he doesnt want her to overpower him n his ego,
bt what wil be situation to realize all wt gopi is doing is nt a show off bt reality.
She is nt a drama queen doing al this just to get his eye balls

when his heart wil convince his egoistic brain to open his eyes


Sadhli you have asked what in Aham will change his mind that Gopi is not acting nice but is nice. Well Gopi has earned some brownie points towards this cause by leaving without being pushed by Kokila or Aham out of the MM. She fulfilled the promise Kokila made to Aham without Kokila having to ask her. To Aham this shows, okay she is willing to leave my money to face poverty. Also she is leaving without insulting his mother or him for ruining her life or using her, another thing she didn't request a pay off to leave/divorce (monetary settlement). Nothing minimum fuss she left.

When he relises she left with only the sari she is wearing that will also prove she was not after his money but rather after his love and to be part of a family.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eesha2


You are quite right Nafisa, but for someone who claims to be quite smart he is rather stupid if i do say so myself. I mean granted Gopi is a Bahu of the Modi family and is living in luxury or so he seems to think, to us she's treated more like a servant and he sees that whether he wants to accept it or not he sees it. She works day and night for that family. Any other girl would have run being in those circumstances. He claims to be smart, but he's just as blind and stupid as Gopi when it comes to judging characters.


When a person is pretending doing some play, she will stay in character right to win the affection of the husband, he is thinking that. He thinks she is going to act like a servant, serving everyone, cooking etc, all to win me over, when i'm nicely in her clutches she will then start demanding get me an imported new car, open a spa account for me, bank account for easy access to funds, educate Panna for me, give me a gift everytime i fast for you etc...........lol😆 everything that Urmila and Rashi would do, he thinks Gopi is like that, and before she shows her true colours she is playing to be nice to him and his family.

Because once he opens his heart to trust and love her, he doesn't want to backtrack or regret softening.

For Aham Kokila miscalculated he would have preferred someone of equal stature, educated and wealthy, he could trust her from the get go and he would have given that person a chance in their marriage, not married below him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bt do u think just that thing wil big enuf to break his everest ego.
May be he wil be more angry that 'why she is nt reacting as per his expectation' like money minded and all.
He can show more anger rather than being convinced with her good side.

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