what kind of parents..?

what kind of parents are antima and sujit? they have zilch idea about the lives of their kids 😕 is feeding and providing education the only two responsibilities of parents? I was sad, to say the least, to see how ignored and sidelined kids were in that house. the place reeked of sujit's overpowering aura. it was all about him, him and him.

I loved Zehra Merchant today......... awesome lady...... mai to uski fan ban gayee..... real wala pankha........... 😃 Only thing I didnt like abt her was the swearing and she was feeding kids on bed..... rest everything is awesome abt her.......... Great lady!!!

I liked her too specially the way she was swearing.. too cute..

Originally posted by: CZ..

what kind of parents are antima and sujit? they have zilch idea about the lives of their kids 😕 is feeding and providing education the only two responsibilities of parents? I was sad, to say the least, to see how ignored and sidelined kids were in that house. the place reeked of sujit's overpowering aura. it was all about him, him and him.

zaihra was quite a dynamic person - she adjusted herself quite well, and pointed out the important and necessary corrections that need to be done in that house.

what do you all think?

Anima and Sujit may have faults but that like anyone else.. They are not as bad as the host presented them to be..

Originally posted by: akash08

Anima and Sujit may have faults but that like anyone else.. They are not as bad as the host presented them to be..

They do not torture their kids etc.. may be they can improve the way they handle..but what is the big deal!! I have seen 1000 tims worse parents and from the clip when Zehra is saying that her daughter was born in golden spoon and will remain like that.. I do not think she is a good mother either..Why her daughter feel so much tortured to just help someone in own kitchen? what kind of mother is she, what did she teach her daughter that she is ashamed of doing house works!!

i watched Apara and Saritas epi in bits.... But this one was nice and entertaining 😆.. Antima's girl is really cute and Zehra was so loving towards her.. kids and Zehra bonded so nicely and quickly which i did not get to see with any other family... about her swearing.. even i was swearing looking at that man.. wt* .. he brings home 35k and behaves as if he is doing them a big favor.. cant buy a bucket worth 40rs.. seriously wish Zehra gives him one tight slap

Originally posted by: samFan

@bold...... I am not sure...... but personally I dont like young girls of 15 to enter kitchen to cook because they may get burned..... as aint too strong physically they might not be able to handle utensils with boiling food etc...... Its not abt shame but for safety....... secondly, most mother's treat thr daughters special born with golden spoon.... that's normal..... ab parents pamper nahi karenge to kaun karega...... 😃

Zehra as a Maa Exchange mother was good.. whatever she did as a mother for those kids was good only. Children seem so much happy with her.

As a mother to her daughter, as some mothers don't let their children do anything she is one of them but it backfires later on for those children. Children can be requested to help out in small activities or chores around the house. That will make them independent and learn in the process. It will help and prepare them to handle the responsibility when their time comes.

I feel Antima intention were good in making Zehra daughter do the things in the house but she just push her to the limit. As the girl was not so used to it.. she may have told her to do tea once or twice, help in making a dish or two and lay the table every time. But by calling her for each and every meal was just too much especially when the girl was clearly ill.

Antima do not have her way at her home as Sujit don't think from her angle at all. I was surprised that he went to the beach with his kids for the first time ever. How Antima must have felt after seeing the clip where Zehra and her family were at the beach enjoying, she would have wished her to be there instead of Zehra.

Sujit attitude was totally wrong during Zehra's stay.. Hopefully after seeing the last few scenes of ME today, feel like there may be a change in Sujit attitude towards his wife and kids and this ME would benefit their family. Hope so.

There is no point in thinking that Sujit's attitute towards Zehra is same as his attitute towards his wife. He was probably showing off his manlyness infront of someone else's wife.. and not to mention.. he not going to bitch and instead sending his friend.. is scripted to add masala..what kinf od husband would allow that!! and why did not Zehra's daughter protest if she does not want to do work!! she was not forced.. was she?? Zehra's behaviour with kids can not be compared with Anima's behaviour towards Zehra's daughter. Zehra was handling kids whereas she was managing a matured girl who are the most difficult to handle at that age..

Antima saying wo karte ya sunte hi nahi hai indicates that Suji[t's word is final in their house. Plus Sujit himself admitted in the final conversation that he will look from his wife pov too. All these are. no actors that they can change their attitude and behaviour overnight just to show off. And showing male chauvinist attitude infront of someone else's wife is good??? Farookh and his family were trying to adjust to Antima rule and trying to follow it.. they at least tried and followed it too.. Whereas Sujit was adamant and not willingly to do anything.. Ultimately when he must have felt hungry he started doing it.

About that friend meeting at the beach.. It was totally weird.. I mean seriously who does that.

Younger kids are more moody and hence difficult to handle. Antima kids genuinely seem happy with Zehra. Agreed teenagers are difficult to handle but matured enough to understand the exchange and Zehhra daughter did follow all the rules.. she may be late in coming so what.. she is not used to that lifestyle and so was not able to get up early first few days which is understandable. But she did get up and went each. day of Antima rule. On the last day she got up early too. Except for few resistance few times and then doing it.. she did it. Nobody will do it willingly when not used to it. That much is ok I guess. Over all she did follow Antima rule inspite of not liking them which any other teenager would have rebel.