Episode Opinion in General
I had no issues with today's episode, IF (a big IF) they continue their talk tomorrow, otherwise I have serious issues. We wanted an apology session first and then a mature talk between the 2. We got an apology session today. Tomorrow we need to see them talking like Opti said, Geet should tell him to confide in her next time and not assume that she wont be able to handle shocks and Maan should accept that he should have handled this issue more delicately than outright ignoring her.
Doc issue
Cvs did mess up with 1 thing and that is the real baby issue. Initially, during doc-MSK convo, we were told that baby has to be aborted. And later on, during convo between doc-Geet, it seemed like abortion was not even an issue, doc just asked MSK to stay away from any physical relationship with Geet. There was no consistency in MSK-doc and Geet-doc convo. So MSK not telling her about abortion issue made sense to us, but if the issue was just to refrain from physical relationship for baby sake, till reports came, then I dont know what prob Maan had in telling the truth to Geet. Yes she would feel a little guilty, so what, its not like breaking news or something. So this cvs did mess up. Now we know that refraining physical relationship was the main issue, and not inevitable abortion, which doc told maan.
Geet worshiping Maan - I think NOT
By the way, where was Geet worshiping Maan today. She was hurt by his words before she came to know the truth. She was not worshiping him then, but was sad as to why he behaved so rudely with her. You could blame her for worshiping him had she forgiven MSK without knowing the truth. Before knowing the truth, she was sad, probably angry at MSK, but definitely not in one of those forgiving moods. It is only after learning the truth that Geet, a clear pure hearted girl, looked at the bigger picture of her man, the greater good, and laid absolutely no importance to that 1 harshful line. She realized that he did not mean it, he never did, and he took so much pain only for her. When you realize how much sacrifice your partner did for you, would you pin-point him on 1 line he said, which you already know he never meant. So yes, I dont think so Geet was worshiping him today. She felt she was at fault so she apologized. And she did not want Maan to apologize coz from her POV, he was not at fault. He did all this only for her.
But she does need to tell him tomorrow to confide in her and not hide stuff from her in the future.
When Geet thinks MSK is wrong, I dont think so she ever shies away from letting him know that. In fact she is the only one who bluntly tells him he is wrong. That is why MSK could become from Maan Singh Khurana to Maan's Geet for Geet's sake. But from Geet's POV this time, she did not think he was wrong after learning the truth, hence she did not want him to apologize. Just because she did not think he was wrong this time, does not mean she always thinks he is right. She knows MSK's weaknesses more than anyone, and loves him despite his weaknesses. She never ignored his faults. She may have worshiped him earlier, but now she loves and respects her man immensely, which I dont think so is similar to worshiping him. She is still aware of his imperfections and will not hesitate to tell him that he is wrong in the future, if she feels so.
"Aap itne ache kyun hain"
she uses the line "aap itne ache kyun hain" only when she feels overwhelmed by his actions and his love for her. She does not use that line on daily basis. I would call it worshiping if she made it a point on daily basis to let him know how good he is. Today, she was overwhelmed by his actions, by his love for her, so that line came out from her heart. From our POV it may be worshiping, but from Geet's POV, she was just feeling grateful after learning the truth and wanted to express her feelings, so she spoke that line. Again, had she been worshiping him, trust me she would have never let him touch her feet today to put the medicine there. Wives who worship their husband wont let them touch their feet ever.
MSK is NOT mahaan and Geet knows that
What I dont understand is why does everybody think MSK is being shown as a mahaan person. He has so many imperfections which Geet as well as all of us here are aware of. If MSK bows his head in front of Geet during varmala, we love it to the core, and if Geet apologizes to MSK, thinking he is not at fault, we think she is worshiping him.
He is not a mahaan person, but his love for Geet is definitely praiseworthy and out of the world. And what overwhelms Geet is his love for her. Everytime she feels MSK went out of his way to do something for her, she feels awed by him. Isn't this a natural reaction. I would be awed too. But that does not mean, she will do his pooja or overlook his mistakes in the future.
MSK was never mahaan, not for Geet, not for us, but his love for his Geet is definitely dreamy, for Geet as well as for us. 😊
Situation from Geet's POV, not our POV
I agree, both are at fault, but this is our POV. Are you looking at the situation from Geet's POV. According to her, MSK was doing something for her, she MU him, accused him and hence she needs to apologize. Out here, she is looking at his intentions, not his words. She also knows that he spoke those words only for her sake, he never meant it. So why should he apologize. That does not mean he should not, he did apologize, which is great. But from her POV, AFTER learning the truth, not BEFORE, he does not need to apologize, as his intentions way overpowers his fake words for her. But still she should tell him to confide in her in the future.
Now ok, Geet does not want MSK to apologize, does not see his faults this time, does not remember his harsh words, so that means, she is worshiping him. Now look at the whole situation from MSK's POV, regarding Geet's behaviour. Did MSK ever hold any grudge against Geet for accusing his love, did he expect or want an apology from Geet for accusing him. Does he see any fault in Geet in this situation. The answer is NO. Geet is dying to apologize, MSK never told her or wanted her to do so. So does that mean, he worships her, NO. He realizes the reason behind why Geet behaved so, same way Geet realizes the reason behind why Maan behaved so. Both are asking for forgiveness for their own deeds, but neither of them expect an apology from the other in this situation.
Geet is emotional and expressive, so she told him, "aap itne ache kyun ho." And we think thats worshiping. Maan already through his actions, bowing his head in varmala scene, touching her feet to put medicine, praising Geet, etc, has shown how much he respects her. We never called his actions as an act of worship, so why call Geet's words as her worshiping him. Geet shows her respect through words and MSK through action. There is no worshiping business here, not now at least.
I cant blame her for feeling overwhelmed seeing MSK's love for her, as even I feel the same. lol. If she feels he kept up with his promise, sacrificed his desires for her sake, wanted to keep her away from pain and trouble, how can she not feel overwhelmed. After all, it is MSK's undying and unconditional love for Geet that not only helped her get over her past trauma, but also made her fall deeply in love with him. I just cant find inequality in their relationship any longer. To me, MSK too respects Geet immensely. Their relationship is both ways, its equal.
Dadi's concern for Geet
I liked dadi's concern for Geet today. To me, dadi always treated geet like a toy to keep her grandson happy. She never cared for Geet as an individual, as long as she kept MSK happy. I am glad that finally she is treating Geet like another human being who has feelings of pain, anger, joy.
Geet's next plan of action
Geet needs to tell him to stop assuming and confide in her. She has faced a lot in these 18 years and can take the harshest of the truths if MSK is with her. If there is anything worrying him, he has to share it with her, in the future also. MSK has a habit of inflicting self-punishment on himself or going on deep guilt-trips without sharing the problem with Geet. This is how he has always been. But now Geet needs to tell him that she is his wife, he has to learn to share not only joys but also pains with her. They cant avoid problems, but they can always face it together na.
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