On D's physical/mental treatment of Naku & MESSAGE - Page 5

Originally posted by: ccolaco

Parul, I am now able to understand from where ur tis "dont like" feeling or harsh feeling for Naku is cuming from

Btw everyone has explained their thoughts very well....great job girls👏

Originally posted by: ZubyDutta

Hey Parul! How u doing? You pressed the like button on my previous post but didn't speak to me on that thread 😔 Hope all's well.

These were my thoughts exactly but during the first wedding. I was pulling my hair out seeing this woman simply stand there & take all that punishment mutely.Illiterate or not no girl will simply go through that sham of a marriage without even a token protest..That's how I lost respect for this character. Letting herself be trampled like that was really low. I have always felt Dutta's awful but justified reaction during the first wedding was in part due to Nakusha's maddening silence.In her "mahaanta" & "Saab-ko-dukh-pahunchega" attitude she gladly chose to become a sacrificial goat.

But not now,Parul. Now when I saw her getting hurt yet keeping quiet I thought "But then what else can she do?" This time its not "Mahaanta" or "sacrifice" its purely self-interest.Now hear me out, please.She & no one else stands to lose if she doesn't calms D down & make him hear her out. Now Nakusha is not a greedy girl but then since we have seen her meet D she has thought of only herself & her love.Since day one she's had eyes only for her love, Dutta. Many a times she barely notices anybody else in PN.I haven't seen her make a cup of tea for her love's mother. 😆Then where did the sacrifice for others issue come in? So in order to win back her love she has to bear with the shoving & yelling, no other go. I'd be the last person to condone such behaviour by D but that's matter for another discussion. As far as Nakusha is concerned at this time if she wishes to salvage anything of her relationship & love keeping mum is the way to go.

As for TV serials aiming to garner TRPs by displaying abuse of women its really a shame. Watching women being tortured in myriad ways has sadly become a national pastime. As I wait for LTL to begin I watch a few scenes of Balika Vadhu as it ends. A few weeks ago I saw Gehna give it to her MIL.Loads. Made me so glad but then yesterday I saw her grovelling at her feet asking maafi.🤢Yuck!

Hmmm.....but parul our society is changing for the better surely but gradually....Present times are quite unlike the past and things are not like what they used to be,like 20 or 30 years ago.There is a visible and a much-needed change in the society's -- both urban and rural- attitude towards women and their predicaments and plight... Although the 'preferences' and the 'likings' are still there but there is a definite change in the perspective and for the betterment and a sense of what is right and what is wrong, what is appropriate and what is not.

This momentum has to be continued and maintained and not confined to a certain level because only through awareness at all levels one can really expect to see any 'real' change and development and not only superficially i.e continuous and dedicated and sincere action and efforts and not words will bring about this transformation.

And yes, i think serials,movies have definitely an important and major role to play in all this. It would be great if they show both sides of the coin, fairly and without any biases, and continue to aware the masses and help them understand and sympathize with the situation..But in such competitive times, i think they often overlook this and concentrate only on the monetary aspect. 😊