Married with kids and Maan obsessed

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gulgulfam

@gulgulfam

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

It was refreshing to see this thread to know that I am still sane. My husband has become envious of the serial so I just record it and see it later when he is not home.... such slyness.
Hope I am cured of this fever, I have been watching the reruns so many times that I can tell you the dialogues.Ha SO MUCH FOR FANTASY.

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cxw1065

@cxw1065

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

I'm in a similar position-- though not married, I have the most important exam of my life coming up in 9 weeks time-- its the culmination of my career; if I pass it, I never need to take another exam.

I can't revise, I don't really care-- I keep telling everyone I'll resit.

I've never been like this before.

I need to snap out of it, otherwise I'll fail-- I feel like I'm going to let myself and everyone down if I don't give up this GEET obsession.

We'll get there, dear lady, we'll get there-- something will happen, something will break this obsession. Lets just hope that it happens soon, and allows us to get on with out lives.

I don't know enough about marital relations to advise properly-- but i don't think that its a good idea to tell your husband about this-- maybe your mum or sister could help you talk it out??

Good luck-- I'll be praying for us all.

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Nisha

@KyunkiImafan

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Chalo yaha pe hum sabhi sirf ladkiya hai...(lets just hope ke hamare bf/hubby yeh na padhe) so we all are sharing our obsession with the character "Maan".

I agree this obsession coming in between our professional life and day-to-day activity is handleable...the part which worries is def. our personal life ie relationship with our special someone.

What Maan does is make all of us feel the time we first fell in love, times we spent as teenager fantasizing our dream man. He makes all of us slip into our so called teenager time..we all have it even if we are so called old. We all want sweetness..love..teasing...from our hubby/bf so all Maan does is make all those thoughts of ours, which we kept in back of our mind because of our responsibilities and age..he brings them out in us and we end up thinking that we are going insane..we all have one way or other where we take care of our stress...we all give priority to our hubby's/kids/bfs/parents needs and our wants are suppressed. To its okay to be obsessed with Maan...and its even okay to tell your bf/hubby about it as long as you aren't exactly trying to find what you see in Maan into your real man. As long as your "want" of your hubby/bf isn't taken over by "want" of Maan. Cause then we have to get ourself together..which is possible with some hard work :)

So don't stress over the fact that you are gone insane, cause I too have gone crazy...have watched these Epi. so many times that I dont ever remember seeing any other serial so much dedication...I wait for 12 pm everyday at work to read the update and see the video while pretending to be doing work for 25 mins. And I fear the same thing about Maan coming between my relationship with my bf. But the good thing is Maan ko dekh kar mei smile karti hu..all my work stress lightens and theres nothing wrong in it..aur agar aapka..I mean to all of you...if your bf/hubby knows you well to mostly he will end up making fun of you for becoming so childish and thoda jealous ho to its good of us girls only...cause when men get a bit jealous they tend to show more aggression...haha which I def. enjoy from my man. lol

hmm i can write more but I don't think I need to...so all you females enjoy being crazy and when you do think you are going overboard...try replacing Maan with your bf/hubby..and let that add little more masti to your relationships.

And please if I said something that offends anyone in any way...I am sorry.

Thank you.

Edited by KyunkiImafan - 15 years ago

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@-SilverAngel-

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

We have all become besotted teenagers chatting and gossiping like Maan is our first crush..... when we know we are not that seedhi saadhi (straight). You are feeling perfectly normal...... that is how a hormonal female is supposed to react.... you are obsessed with the guy, not in love.... so chill. Your husband has nothing to worry, you are not slipping anywhere.... you are just being YOU!!!

Ladki ho toh ladki ki tarha hi react karogi na...... its normal..... yeh phase bhi jald guzur jaye ga when some one new will enter....btw unmarried here

Edited by mahi0809 - 15 years ago

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maan_is_hott

@maan_is_hott

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

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Hello dear Topic creator..Hatts off for writing ur inner feelings ..most of us feel that even by doing this somehow we are cheating someone..but aisa nahi hai i guess...i too am in the same boat..married for 6 years with 2 kids..and this Mann obsession hinders our day to day life...but chalta hai ..so chill....remember..theres no age limit for crushes .. 😳 ..and just njoy the phase and fanatasies....trust me it will go away ..abhi nahi to kuch din baad but it will go away...and whats the harm in giving ourselves some much needed stress relieve and happiness by oogling 😉 and daydreaming 😍 😍 😍 ....so thand pao ji..in geets words "Babaji sab accha karenge" 😛

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ravenheart

@ravenheart

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Hi there,

I think we are all sailing in the same boat. There is no age bar for Love!! Just yesterday I told my sis that I am in love and she asked me who it is now (she was like oh god not again bcoz just 3 months back I met this guy whom I thought was made for me, I thought he is interested in me too but as soon as he came to know that I was older to him by 3 years - wham, he stopped writing to me.. I went into real depression and it was my sis who helped to come out of it). So here I was again telling her that I am in love with Maan Singh Khurana and she says wow that it is quite a hi-fi name - who the hell is he?? (she was more concerned abt my mental health & breathed a sigh of relief when she came to know that he is a character in TV show).

I am sharing the above for the original poster. Believe me when I say that I was really in love 3 months back & couldn't stop crying when the guy acted distinerested - I guess you have to be very lucky to meet this special person who is just made for you. I spent my last weekend watching Geet episode from 25th May to 6 th July. My eyes were aching and it was way bed time but I just couldn't close my laptop!!

I saw Gurmeet's interview recently & I was not attracted to him as a person. Found him to be very young and a bit immature - so there....Maan is a dream man for each of us. Hence our obsession with him.

I would suggest that you divert your mind to some other things like going out for walks/shopping (this will ensure that you keep away from laptops/TV) etc. Probably, discuss your romantic whims with hubby dearest - maybe he will be able to help.

Last but not least, do not forget, YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS OBSESSION!!

Cheers,

Savvy

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Laizu Khan

@smiley_lizi

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Please don't feel worried about it. We become obsessed about something when we see something too good. These types of shows are based on fiction. They want to show us something unreal to real world. In real world we don't get music around us or gentle brezze around us in particular times. So, it is normal to getting obsessed about this. Me too get obsessed about some shows and characters and think about those all day. But do not feel ashamed. But love to love those.

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Muskan

@muskanp

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#28

don't fall in love rise in love...

thats the mantra...I love MAAN he is such a perfect fictional character & guru just brought life into it ...I feel there is nothing wrong in rising in love..I feel he just brings the best out in me..I love u all here...u guys all are lovely bunch on MAANEETians...so plz don't let ur heart feel let down just rise & rise & try to divert all ur passion towards the right direction...trust me u will love it maan even more..the way I do..my guys knows how much

I freak out on maan...& he admires geet GGGRRRRR😡(i actually get irritated)

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reea88

@reea88

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#29

meri life me bohut change aye maan ko dekh ne ki baad.. i m suffering a lot like u.. well i m not married, but still there r some prob. everybody say that my behaivior is changing.. after seing maan i cant take decision about my real life.. i m confused to get married some one..

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gharkiaankh

@gharkiaankh

Beginner

Posted: 15 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: maan_is_hott

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Hello dear Topic creator..Hatts off for writing ur inner feelings ..most of us feel that even by doing this somehow we are cheating someone.. that is what I thought too because it took me days to gather my wits and write this post. I had even looked up on the internet to see if this happened to others and to my surprise I found others in my situation though am not sure how many were married as long or had kids. Finally thought, Maaniacs and Maaneetians seem to be a nice understanding bunch after reading "my husband found out" and posted here and was it the best thing I ever did. Opening up my feelings brought me so much peace- like when the bubbles in a champagne bottle under pressure are released so did I feel the inner turmoil quieten a little.

but aisa nahi hai i guess...i too am in the same boat..married for 6 years with 2 kids..and this Mann obsession hinders our day to day life...but chalta hai ..so chill....remember..theres no age limit for crushes .. 😳 ..and just njoy the phase and fanatasies....trust me it will go away ..abhi nahi to kuch din baad but it will go away...and whats the harm in giving ourselves some much needed stress relieve and happiness by oogling 😉 and daydreaming 😍 😍 😍 ....so thand pao ji..in geets words "Babaji sab accha karenge" 😛I really hope so yaar. Babaji mai yahan hoon. mere upar bhi meherbani karna.

[SIZE=6][/SIZE]Take a chill pill
WE MANIACS ROCK 👍🏼 👍🏼 😎

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