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Posted: 15 years ago
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That's the typical story of many being addicted to their computer like a body part to see and read about Maan everytime.
Well, i don't know about the rest, but i sure do that.
The only difference remains that i'm a 17 year old girl and not married still waiting for Maan to propose to me 😍 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: chullbulli

hey is that u minni bhabhi...cos meri babhi bilkul aisi hi baaten karti hai....anyways if it is not u then no worries...meri shadi nahin hui hai par meri babhi maaniac hai to i can understand ur haalat...so sweet of u to share this .. and beleive me she was so attached to sujal once upon a time.. i think this is a phase and as soon as the cv's goof up with the story life will be normal again....though i don't want that to happen but eventually it will and then u'll be free..



Absolutely right! I used to like Milind from Kayamath.....but wasn't obessed as much. But sure enough, there came a point in the show when the CV's made him react or nor react as the case may be, to a situation in such a way, I was totally put off by the character. There and then the honeymoon was over.

So, leave it to the CV's.....they'll do something sooner or later to put an end to the obessession.

But we have to give Gurmeet his due. If he wasn't doing such a great job, none of use would be watching the show so regularly.....Dhrasti's great too, but speaking as a woman, she wouldn't keep me glued to the TV as Gurmeet/Maan does.

Your not alone, Toipc Starter....there are loads of us here. Just ask yourself why you don't have the same feelings for countless other lead characters on TV...(with the exception of Iqbal Khan...can't wait for his show to start!!) None of the others fall into the prototype we have in our minds. This character does.....not Gurmeet as you rightly pointed out but the character.
Cheers!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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awww.... 🤗 !
this is absolutely normal and you dont have to feel guilty about it one bit... seriously!! we are all like you...if you feel guilty around your hubby, i feel guilty about wanting to start working and getting no work done thanks to this maddness...
so just chill and enjoy the show cos, at the end of the day the show may end and so will this phase..
take is from me, cos, i never thought i cud ever like a show more than DMG ... but then Geet came along...!! so just enjoy and indulge yourself!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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OH MY GOD!U R TELLING MY STORY THROUGH UR POST.I AM A 29 YEAR OLD MARRIED WOMAN WITH THREE KIDS.I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT SINCE THE DAY I STARTED WATCHING GEET ,AFTER MAAN'S ENTRY,SLOWLY AND GRADUALLY I STARTED FALLING FOR THIS CHARACTER.NOW I AM IN A SITUATION THAT I M TOTALLY CRAZY FOR HIM NOW.IT'S NOT GURMEET BUT IT'S THIS MAAN I AM STUCK UP WITH.IT'S AFFECTING MY LIFE.I FEEL I AM A TOTAL DIFFERENT PERSON.SOMEHOW I DO THE HOUSE CHORES WITH MAAN IN MY MIND THE WHOLE TIME WHATEVER I DO.I M RUSHING BACK TO MY LAPTOP AS SOO AS POSSIBLE.I M NOT EATING WELL,I AM NOT SLEEPING WELL.I M IGNORING MY BELOVED HUBBY AND MY KIDS.I GO TO SLEEP 3 AT NIGHT I HAVE TO WATCH MANEET OVER N OVER AGAIN.THEIR VMS OR OLD EPISODES.IT'S TOTALLY INSANE.I HAVE STARTED LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD.MY HUSBAND HAS STARTED TO SENSE IT AND HE COMPLAINED ABOUT MY ATTITUDE.I CAN'T HELP IT.I FEEL GUILTY FOR BEING SO STUPID DESPITE OF BEING MARRIED WITH KIDS.I JUST CAN'T HELP IT.MY LIFE IS RUINED.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neetu2825

<font color="#0099ff">Its not just you, hun. I've been so affected by his character that I had to start a FF to release the countless ideas and scenarios in my head of possible Maan & Geet encounters😆

Writing is a healthy expression...maybe, you should try it.😉

We have all been hit with Maan fever...no shame in that girls...😍</font>



yupp thats why I wrote my FF too. I needed to vent all my insanity over Maan. But you shouldn't worry. You'll get over it after a while. 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi,
What a lovely post ! Don't blame yourself , in this world of maneetians there are many who are lost in Maan!
Maan personifies everything and everything any girl /woman can ever dream of ..
We know he isnt real , but fictional.... but thru Geet, he becomes a part of our lives...Dont blame yourself.... You cant help it , its too humanly irresistible ! Maan is not a man, he is a "super" man..the kind that can exist only in dreams ... and Maneet is that dream that we see everyday ...
I am married too and in real life, I doubt if there is any man in this world better than my husband (in my view and in my heart) -- I really love him .... just that Maan represents a perfection that just cannot exist in reality, God just doesnt make any of us like that.... if I am not that perfect perfect girl for my hubby, how can he be that perfect perfect man for me ...... we are both human and just right for each other.... we are blessed in our bond .... To me, Maneet just extend that bond into a magical world of fantasy...
Coming to reality, in real life , Gurmeet himself is not like Maan !! 🤣 he is very sweet , I like him , no offence at all , at all, but do you think he is like Maan ? So I wake up from my Maan dream not only when my husband comes up , but also when Gurmeet himself comes up !! And I say ooops, who is this , I better hide somehwere before he catches what I was thinking of Maan !🤣🤣
And I realise the magic is not created by only Gurmeet , he has been on TV earlier , I have seen him and never got affected-
In Geet he lends his form (and talent) to a majestic image created together by many talented CV's -and the beautiful Drashti who compliments Maan as Geet - and so many others behind the scenes...who all toil to bring us our dream man... no wonder Maan becomes so irresistible to us...dont blame only yourself, blame all these incredibly creative people too, who are so talented that they do this to us ! hats off to them !
lots of love, Hope you continue to ENJOY Maan and LOVE your husband...I feel somehwhere in every husband lies a hidden Maan that we have forgotten to see in the midst of life's cruel demands, atleast in parts and Geet makes me see that in flashes!
oooooo, as I write this I am missing my husband and feel soooo senti... he is not in town and I look forward to seeing him ...more than I look forward to tomorrow's Geet episode (tho i am sure once he's back I'll ignore him again and get immersed in Geet😉, such is the power of dreams over reality)
Cheers !
VJ
Edited by VJ-LNMDJ - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Youre not alone ........... i am in the same boat.. thinking and maan and geet........ i even got to the stage of thinking of them being married and three kids..... now who is jumping ahead of time.... so dont worry it' NORMAL anyway in this FORUM...😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wow...nice topic....yaar I too am sinking.....

I am student fresh out of 12th. I have been enrolled into a college and am taking coaching to get into MBBS for one year.

This show is too addictive...Early morn I get up thinking about it and even though my books are open I can't study.

It is adversely affecting me....I seriously want to stop it but can't seem to do anything about this growing addiction.

I too need help😔

Someone suggested writing FFs to vent out the madness...But now I am so hooked to writing that even that had bcum an obsession.🤣

I too could do with some advice
pallo😕


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Aww, don't worry dear Ghar. Everybody is in the same boat. This show is an obsession with all of us, but it's just a phase and a stress reliever. Don't take it so much to heart and worry.

Maan is everyone's fantasy man, whether the lady is married or not ! We can all dream and there is no harm in that, but we all have our own real lives too. When the dream interferes with reality, that's when it becomes an obsession.

Please try to do other activities that you enjoy, maybe walking, listening to music or some crafts. That might help you to cut down the time you spend admiring Maan😊
Edited by Mallika113 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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thank you so much to you all for replying back. it was so good to know that there are other married ladies with kids who are just as obsessed. I stressed on married with kids bec. somehow I felt that at this stage of my life my head should be screwed on tight and it almost felt like I was having an extra-marital affair thinking about Maan so much.

the thing is even when I was a teenager I was never obsessed about any character like this. and to top it all my marriage is a love marriage. My husband is a wonderful kind hearted soul who even though I am a housewife and am home all day helps me out with cooking or taking care of our kids. He even lets me watch the epis on the laptop while he may be cooking(and he is a very good cook).

The part I feel guilty about is I am so addicted to this show that I am superficially present wherever I am supposed to be but my heart is elsewhere. I even teach kids at a religious class and thank god during that time at least my mind is focused but in the end I just cant wait to get home and get back on my laptop and see Maan. I am trying to watch other things but even then Maan is there in my mind. I could not wait for my hubby to go out with his friends and my kids to go with theirs so I could again sit down to watch Maan.

I have skipped meals because I do not even feel hungry while watching the epis and also while talking about him to some of my friends on FB and the thing is I am a healthy eater - 3 meals to chahiye hi chahiye. the day I don't eat my hubby thinks I am sick and thats a fact but bec. he is not around during the day he does not know if I have eaten or not.

I did not even want to go to sleep and keep watching it even at 4 in the morn. The thing that tipped the iceberg for me was when my poor hubby call me to sleep I do not want to go with him if you get my drift. It feels like I am risking my marriage here with this Maan obsession and dont know how to or maybe even don't want to stop it.

I was actually hiding in our bathroom and even in our car and crying bec. I want to keep it in check. I keep thinking about Maan's features, his expressions or his intense looks. I don't even like to see Maan's smilng pics when he smiles as GC. For gods sake, I am a 39year old and behaving like a teenager. Feels like a midlife crisis to me like some men have.

Now I almost wish that the rumours about GC leaving the show had been true, maybe that might have helped but then again I would have repeatedly watched all the VM's and youtube vids of old epis. For my sanity now I have begun to wish that DevTara come back and I don't get so much exposure to Maan. 😕

I don't know if I should just confess to my hubby(bec. I tell him everything and don't lie to him) but then again don't want him to feel helpless because of my stupidity.

One thing is for sure though - everyone who replied to this post was wonderful and helpful. I had been going nuts thinking about what to do and was also worried that I would be made fun of but nope!! - My fellow Maaniacs and Maanetians did not let me down.

Thanks so much and bless you. God help us all get through this Maaniac phase and I promise not to watch any more hindi series.
Edited by gharkiaankh - 15 years ago

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