On the contrary i want Sugna to confront shayam before accepting him.
Shayam really thinks he is some sort of mahan person by being soo sacrificing (type) where as that is far from the truth.
Its really sad that people here always blame the women and that is why even to this date women are subjected to such cruelty everywhere specially in India. As its visibly seen here in this forum most of the people who are blaming sugna are women which is surprising and sad.
Both Sugna and Shayam are at fault , and I feel more shayam.
Sugna was fine with her life.
Yes she did have issues with her dadisa abotu child but her father was there he would have protected the child and would have never let his mom kill the child.
Then Shayam entered her life wanting to marry , knowing the truth etc.
he also accepted the fact that sugna was very much in love with pratap.
She could never forget him etc...
I understand about jealousy but to respect , someone and to give their last rites is not a crime. So she did what she thought was best by going to the barsi.
Also ,
Lets not forget what she did when tausa tried killing her and her baby soo many times.
She did not want him to leave even when all her family wanted that.
So one forgot how she always wanted the family together. This was also one of the main reasons why she didnt want to get married in the first place cause, she knew the family wouldn't accept.
Shayam fought for her child and so easily he left her and her child (varun)
if it was his own child would he do that?
So all his talk was just talk?
I know he is confused but, he is very much at fault so please stop blaming sugna. Poor girl , she was always the victim be that by pratap's parents ( who called her names) by her dadisa who wanted to kill her child,
By Tausa who wanted to kill her and her child
and now by shayam cause he apparently forgot all his promises and big words.
I know she shoudl not have mentioned pratap's name a lot but, when she did shayam didn't have an issue with it when he was in her house? but as soon as consummation was done he changed? I mean yes its human but please do not say sugna is at fault because she really didn't change much. The fact remains, her child will remind her ALWAYS of pratap.
So how can she forget him? can't she even pay respects to her child's father?
How fair is that? I expected shayam to understand so I am extremely disappointed in him. I wanted him to explain to her that you know what lets do our own puja so that his rites are fulfilled. To show support and to acknowledge that yes , those rites remain with the son.
And to not differentiate between varun and his would be child and since he did that, it really shows he is no better than madan singh and tausa cause they really cared for sugna ONLY after she got pregnant not before that.
This kinda proved that yes shayam is their son no doubt.
Now that he will come back I really want him to answer her questions?
Why act all Mahan when he really just wanted her and he should have been honest that hey I want to get married to you but I cannot love your son as my own. So she could have said yes or no. And we all know if that was the case she would have definitly said NO. cause no way she was going to give up varun.
So he did exactly what he did with his parents. Hid the fact just went with emotions.
He hid the fact that sugna was pregnant with his parents cause he knew they would never say yes.
and similarly he did not confront the real feelings he had about varun (or never realized the consequences about fathering someone else's child)
and just went with emotion.
So I disagree with all who say he should not accept sugna , rather they should now set the air clear and look at the facts more maturely. Shayam who was all mature should accept the fact that he is just a desire forced young man who is driven by his emotions and live up to being a man and a husband and ofcourse a father.
sorry about the long post
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