Originally posted by: pricey28
my feelings exactly, totally agree with you on this kirs š
as for those bringing up komal's general nature, let's just say, those of us who supported her behavior yesterday (may 20 episode), most of us don't really like her character in general, nor do we support her nature in general, how she behaves, her mannerisms, etc. etc. so i really don't see why her general nature was brought into the discussion...? š we were JUST talking about her behavior YESTERDAY, weren't we...?
and honestly, as much as i dislike komal, i really don't see how anyone can see her actions as "unjustified"...? yes, komal's way was unorthodox, but you know what, so was the conversation between rolly and adarsh. i'm so GLAD that komal didn't decide to just keep quiet, and cry silently. i'm SO SICK of seeing all these characters continuously on indian television. i'm NOT saying i hate characters like them in general, but i'm sick of constantly seeing the all-sacrificing, all-righteousness type bahus, who will endure every torture, every injustice, that may come their way...anyways. going back to komal. yes, some of the things she said was indeed a bit much, but honestly, which wife WOULDN'T feel the way, wouldn't think the thoughts komal was thinking, had they been in komal's shoes...? the difference, komal actually SAID what she was thinking, whereas most women don't. now look at the result: rolly will definitely think TWICE before messing with a MARRIED man's head like that, and adarsh will also definitely think twice if he ever tries to start an affair.
also, you guys have to remember: look at the conditions under which, she was married, to begin with...she was completely forced into this marriage, and the funny thing is, the husband who forced HER to marry him, is the one who refuses to even look at her. i admit, its very hard to like someone like komal, therefore, its very difficult to come close to her that way. but i have noticed, many times, komal was actually trying her hardest to please him, and tried to look all beautiful for him, yet, he still rejected her. plus, anyone who watches this show, can CLEARLY notice the huge, HUGE difference in komal that has happened already, since her marriage. she's now a lot more cooperative, and understanding. so my question is, if komal is willing to make the effort, why can't adarsh...??? especially when, again, HE was the one who forced her into this marriage...??? what did he think, that marriage is child's play...??? in order to secure his sister (which btw, did NOT happen, at all), he married a girl. well, guess what, ITS NOT THAT EASY. you can't just force a marriage upon someone, that too for your own benefits, and expect everything to be hunky-dory while you completely ignore her, and show nothing but distaste for her. nahin bachchu, its not so easy, and i'm GLAD adarsh is learning this the hard way. he should have NEVER forced komal to marry him, for whatever good intentions he had, for HIS SISTER (and ultimately himself). he had NO RIGHT to play with another girl's emotions, her LIFE, like that, and now that he has, aab bhugo, adarsh, BHUGO!!!!
Pricey , ...you are priceless ...ššš...loved your post