Komal is disgusting

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am amazed that Komal's disgusting behaviour has so much support.Whatever the reason,she has no right to create such a scene
What exactly did Adarsh do wrong..
We all know he has no affair with Roli
It was just a mutual feeling of liking and nothing more..
They were just expressing thoughts
Is that such a crime?
Let not forget that Komal created the whole event due to her perverse thinking..Anyone can be innocently trapped into such a situation if they dont have scheming minds like Komal in which she is an expert similar to her Mom.
Moreover Komal hasnt done a single thing to endear her self to Adarsh.She just does not understand his decency.She is ill mannered,abusive and very scheming.Till date she hasnt said a single decent word to anyone in the family How can she expect to find love from Adarsh if she does not care for his feelings.She threw his gift of bangles on the floor.
She is totally spoilt and vindictive
Its true she was forced into this marriage against her will
But Adarsh is decent and sensible person.She would never have found such a good husband if left to her thakur family to find a husband for her.They would have found someone like her brother Shakti who would beat her black and blue and illtreat her like Kesar.And they would find nothing wrong with that as beating women is their proud tradition.
Some one should knock some sense in her.
I am also curious to know why saxena family listens to so much nonsense from Komal.When she misbehaves then it is correct time to put her in place as she is not VIP..I wish they should stop being silent victims
Being good doesnt mean one should stay silent.Good people must fight to maintain their good qualities and decency..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Komal gets away with her rotten behavior because the Saxenas simply endure everything...especially Nainaji who keeps preaching her children all kinds of nonsense but in the same breathe lets Komal spew crap...

However, in today's episode Komal was not totally wrong as irrespective of what situation she created, Rolli has no business talking and behaving like that with a married man....Its not like Adarsh has been forced into that marriage...He got into it willingly and he better accept Komal in whatever the package she came in....Its so unfair for Komal to be dragged into such a marriage and on the top of it her husband giving more bhaav to another girl and totally neglecting her...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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The way she handled the situation was uncalled for, but I still think that Roli was more at fault than Komal and Adarsh. You just don't say all that to a married man.
I agree with you when you say that Komal gets away with everything in the Saxena house. I don't know why Nainajee tolerates her behavior all the while blasting slaps at her own children's behavior, which I think is less outracious than Komal's.
She keeps complaining that Adarsh doesn't give her his time of the day, but that's because of her own behavior. If she were to behave politely with his family, which is very important to him, then he would definately see her in a new light. Instead, what Komal does is ruin things even more. She doesn't get it. He doesn't try hard enough. It sorta reminds me of someone else.....😉 The apple does not in fact fall far from the tree.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree it was Roli fault .,She should not have said those thoughts specially in such a volatile situation.Specially selecting that saree was quite provoking..
Komal has right to be angry but not go over board and become abusive and violent.
That is exactly the problem with her.
Even if Komal is right, her bad behaviour and rudeness just dont help her cause..
There is no one who has guts to show her that unless she learns how to behave there no way she will be able to get her own way.
Why is she not made to do the duties of the household like pratigya is.Why is she treated like some haloed guest.it seems she is part of that house hold only to throw her weight around.
What ever the reasons from previous episodes,if pratigya inspite all the problems can think of thakur house as her own and shoulder responsibilites then why cant Komal.
I think some one in saksena gang should open their mouth and say something to protest at all this instead of giving mute silent shocked expressions.
Maybe Adarsh can take some lessons from Shakti..LOL
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am amazed how these days Nainaji has started slapping her kids! 😆
is it coz she can't beat up Krishna n Komal, so vents her anger on her kids??

ok, Komal can get mad n jealous that her hubby doesn't show any interest in a jaahil girl like her but is comfortable with a soft spoken n cultured girl like Roli... if we can't forgive Krishna for his bad behavior with Prats then how can we turn a blind eye towards what Komal does... not one day has she respected her in-laws not even for Nainaji who can now even murder some1 for her beloved bahu! 😆
the only time, I remember Komal behaving well is when she has a stupid scheme in her stupid head! She isn't a baby, I can't forget how she forced dadi1 n Aarushi out of the house by her tricks in the kitchen, the language by which she addresses the family members!
Komal's words are still 'ringing' in my head: that Aadarsh slept with roli 🤢 (is this coz Aadarsh doesn't respond to Komal??) does that give Komal the right to insult Roli? 😕
n I'm surprised how even Aadarsh just kept standing when Komal was pulling n pushing Roli, the actor must have felt stupid in that scene; coz I don't think any1 would just keep looking on when such tamasha was happening!

I had thought that the re-entry of Roli would help Komal understand the correct way to behave with people! She could atleast give it a thought that what if she had got married into a junglee family like hers!!! Would she have dared do these things there?

All in all, I sympathize with Aadarsh n Roli, if only Krishna wouldn't have stalked Prats, n she wouldn't hve decided to marry him; Aadarsh would have also not sacrificed his life... Komal has a long way to go before Aadarsh accepts her and such a stupid behavior won't help her at all!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Have to disagree with you NZ...Komal with her BG would have reacted precisely in that way ....although have to say that she was disrespectful towards her FIL [But when u are in a blazing righteous anger ,all respect,relationship will fly out of the window and here Komal was in a temper]


Komal did not create the whole event ...the event started much before her arrival in the life of Adarsh ...what she did was give them the benefit of doubt...and If Roli was really innocent and her remarks were innocuous then she could/should have said it in front of Komal and not waited for her to leave ..


A decent and sensible person would not encourage his past to saunter into his life ...neither would he provide any encouragement in any form [by giving rides,by chatting so happily {a thing which he hasn't done with Komal }]...In fact in todays episode I would say that Roli was at fault....She crossed her Boundary and interfered in a couple's Married life



She threw the Bangles on the floor ...When she realised that she was one of the package ...and not a special one ....She wants Adarsh to consider her and her alone and her ego took a beating when she came to know that gifts were bought for other member's also [ I am not supporting her ,but trying to see from her POV ]


Agreed Komal hasn't done a single thing to endear herself to Adarsh .,But the reverse holds good too and it was Adarsh who was bent upon marrying Komal ,So the Onus is on Adarsh to make this Marriage work ...But so far we have not seen any such effort from Adarsh ....while in all honesty one must say that ,Komal is trying [within her limited understanding 😊 ]
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: NZkiwi

I agree it was Roli fault .,She should not have said those thoughts specially in such a volatile situation.Specially selecting that saree was quite provoking..

Komal has right to be angry but not go over board and become abusive and violent.
That is exactly the problem with her.
Even if Komal is right, her bad behaviour and rudeness just dont help her cause..
There is no one who has guts to show her that unless she learns how to behave there no way she will be able to get her own way.
Why is she not made to do the duties of the household like pratigya is.Why is she treated like some haloed guest.it seems she is part of that house hold only to throw her weight around.
What ever the reasons from previous episodes,if pratigya inspite all the problems can think of thakur house as her own and shoulder responsibilites then why cant Komal.
I think some one in saksena gang should open their mouth and say something to protest at all this instead of giving mute silent shocked expressions.
Maybe Adarsh can take some lessons from Shakti..LOL


I feel that Aarushi is the only one who remembers why Aadarsh married Komal and to an extent Aadarsh too... the reason was that this will ensure that the Thakurs behave properly with Prats!

but here Nainaji n the Prof are not helping the cause! I'm not saying that they should torture Roli, but atleast they could make her understand that she isn't 'Queen Victoria', n anything stupid won't be tolerated.. I feel Komal would be a very good wife, if she takes the effort! Krishna has time and again told her to behave well, but just like Krishna isn't able to understand basic simple ways of behaving so does Komal
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dkmystery


I feel that Aarushi is the only one who remembers why Aadarsh married Komal and to an extent Aadarsh too... the reason was that this will ensure that the Thakurs behave properly with Prats!

but here Nainaji n the Prof are not helping the cause! I'm not saying that they should torture Roli, but atleast they could make her understand that she isn't 'Queen Victoria', n anything stupid won't be tolerated.. I feel Komal would be a very good wife, if she takes the effort! Krishna has time and again told her to behave well, but just like Krishna isn't able to understand basic simple ways of behaving so does Komal




That Is confusing DK ...Have you mixed up the Character's ???😕😃


Aarushi is the memory bank of the family ....it is her duty to provide reminder to her sibling's of all the ills done to them by their respective spouses ...so thet they may never lead a happy ,peaceful married life 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think u missed the sarcasm
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanthya


Have to disagree with you NZ...Komal with her BG would have reacted precisely in that way ....although have to say that she was disrespectful towards her FIL [But when u are in a blazing righteous anger ,all respect,relationship will fly out of the window and here Komal was in a temper]


Komal did not create the whole event ...the event started much before her arrival in the life of Adarsh ...what she did was give them the benefit of doubt...and If Roli was really innocent and her remarks were innocuous then she could/should have said it in front of Komal and not waited for her to leave ..


A decent and sensible person would not encourage his past to saunter into his life ...neither would he provide any encouragement in any form [by giving rides,by chatting so happily {a thing which he hasn't done with Komal }]...In fact in todays episode I would say that Roli was at fault....She crossed her Boundary and interfered in a couple's Married life



She threw the Bangles on the floor ...When she realised that she was one of the package ...and not a special one ....She wants Adarsh to consider her and her alone and her ego took a beating when she came to know that gifts were bought for other member's also [ I am not supporting her ,but trying to see from her POV ]


Agreed Komal hasn't done a single thing to endear herself to Adarsh .,But the reverse holds good too and it was Adarsh who was bent upon marrying Komal ,So the Onus is on Adarsh to make this Marriage work ...But so far we have not seen any such effort from Adarsh ....while in all honesty one must say that ,Komal is trying [within her limited understanding 😊 ]



@the highlight: That kind of behavior is totally unforgivable and disgusting, no matter from whose POV you see it...Adarsh was genuinely nice to her when he was handing those bangles to her....If she really wanted to be nice to him, that was her chance to grab at it...But she totally threw it off saying such disgusting things to him....Even the way she schemed against Pratigya attending the pooja was totally a sign of her slyness...She is not completely a doodh ki dhuli hui....Though I am sympathetic towards her being dragged into the midst of all this mess, there is no denying that she got the best deal here...Left to SS he would've got her another thakur like him or his son Shakti for her....

And if someone is disadvantaged because of his b/g and upbringing, he better overcome it cos no matter how much we try to justify their behavior cos of their upbringing, NONE of us would like to have such people in our lives....In all honesty I care two hoots about such people who refuse to grow up citing their upbringing as an excuse...

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