Reason for suicide?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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What might be the reason that led her to take such a huge step?Anyone heard something about it.Any news?Well whatever may the reason be , she should have thought about her parents and herself.If she did that because of a personal relationship with someone , then that to me would be the most irresponsible thing she could have ever done.Anyways it is sad that someone beautiful belonging to a sikh jatt family did that as according to Sikhism it is very bad to committ suicide and afterlife consequences are bad. 😭

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MNMS thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
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ohh no...she can't even have peace after death!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Not if u commit suicide 😭
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Posted: 19 years ago
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People do commit suicide for lots of reasons,boyfriend probs, family problems or too much stress piling up from all sides.One of my friends did it, and those were reasons in the her letter. So just accept it. there isnt anything else to do.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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yeah i know....as i am a sikh too.......she must have had a huge problem thats why she committed suicide probably.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Im just giving my opinion...due to nafisa's death she was shattered... she was looking for love... it broke... she became lonely...bhanu came... she looked for love again ... but it turned somewhat not according to her expectations...(fights etc..now people plz don;t get angry...im NOT blaming bhanu AT ALL..i think either bhanu couldn't understand wht kuljeet wanted or she couldn;t Communicate her wishes to him..this happens in relationships but kuljeet was an emotional sensitive girl...and couldn't handle that.. i tell u this is the main tragedy of emotional people...things sometimes slip from their control and they can;t take it..)


the real thing she needed was "unconditional love".. this is world's one most valuable thing only availabe from your sincere PARENTS...even boyfriends husbands relatives are not able to do it...there may b some exceptions but its hard to find...in today's materialistic world..


she needed internal security..from the relationship...she was a warrior...she did face the world with a sword in hand.... the solution to this problem was that somehow either her father/mother/sister could have come to her..stayed 1-2 months with her..and gave her the confidence to believe in HOPE.. things don;t work quite easy in life...v all struggle.. but we do need emotional support..some body to say that things will be fine...friends do say that..but parents brothers/sisters say that from the inner!!! this was not enough to her on phone... someone from family should be physically present with her to give her a shoulder to cry on.


add to this was her physical problem..her acute back pain.. she needed badly some body who could say to her "kuljeet its going to be fine..im here..u will be alright...u can fight it" this is some thing a mother/father says...


PEOPLE IM NOT BLAMING ANYONE...IM JUST TRYING TO HELP..MAY BE ANYONE FACING THE SAME PROBLEMS..MIGHT READ IT & IMPROVE THEIR LIVES..DON'T COMMIT SUICIDES LIFE IS PRECIOUS...THERE R LOTS OF PEOPLE CARING FOR U ..DON'T GIVE THEM TEARS..THINK ABT THEM TOO..SUPERGRL IS RIGHT ...KULJEET IS NO MORE SHE'S GONE WE HAVE TO ACCEPT IT..SHE'S IN OUR HEART..i don;t say she did right...but now...may her soul rest in peace.. she's no more so we should not say anything bad abt her..


people plz go back to your parents..sisters brothers... they will help u in tough times... ur family is the biggest strenght in the whole world..plz go back to them...


people lost many friends and relatives in 26th tsunami and 8th oct earthquake and katrina .. survivors r trying to come back to life... GOD plz save us from such things ..but if they can deal with such a big disaster..we CAN ALSO DEAL OUR RELATIVELY SMALL PROBLEMS...WE CAN!!YES WE CAN!!

Edited by MNMS - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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add to this ...lack of targets in life and sense of achievement in the career.. this also added depression to kuljeet..i think...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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one more reason: as her life incidents occured in the same manner as that of nafisa's (one friend mentioned that) .. she came to believe (internally) that the only possible solution could be of what nafisa did... moreover that tarot card (whatever) gave this gut feeling more strength that "u will have short life" so she went into more depression and eventually took the step...
this is what i think..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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one thing comes to my mind... the above mentioned things were slowly developing in her mind. but her sister kittu verma said ( in the post "kuljeet's last rights" )that she came to delhi a few days back and was quite happy... i think something really happened after that which brought her sadness back..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i FIND YOUR FORUM MNMS YOU SAID WHAT I THOUGHT ABOUT KULJEET'S SUICIDE ATTEMPT. AS PEOPLE SAID THAT SHE WAS VERY FEW FRIENDS.

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