Manav shud wed Shravani

For whatever reasons , ............responsibility , caring nature , ' thats just the way Manav is ' ..............Manav took the decision to marry Shravani . Shravani to this point was telling him NOT to marry her but to stay with Archu .

So no one forced him ...........not Shravani , not Girish [ he only suggested] , not his family , not even evil Savita. Like a parrot he kept on saying "I havvve to marry Shravani ."

Some Manav fans have found this decision as selfless as his decision to let Archana go by allowing her to marry Satish by signing on divorce papers without confronting Archu directly FIRST .

In my opinion both the decisions were extremely foolish as in both decisions he harmed Archu . He shud have asked Archu before signing on divorce papers if she really wanted to marry Satish and if so he wanted to hear it from her mouth so he cud set her free with an unburdened heart . As it happens , HE DIDNT and the rest is history .

Now he decided to selflessly marry Shravani when Damodar clearly told him to work on his own marraige and that he would see to it that they wud take care of Shravani ............besides she had a rich , capable Dad like Girish .

So after witnessing the intense humiliation that Archu went thru today as a woman , not to add Savita pushing her around physically while full house watched as if she was justified , I am very glad Archana finally showed some dignity and walked out , leaving Manav to Shravani .

As a viewer , I wud NOT want her to come back so soon , irrespective of THE FACT THAT SHRAVANI TURNS OUT POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE .

I wud want her to set an example that marraige is NOT the only end of LIFE by focusing on her studies and job . I do want a semi literate , ninth standard educated heroine coming to this conclusion .

I know , no one on the forum will agree to this as most are ARMAN fans and want to see them together at ANY cost . Well , I wanted to see them together too , but not at this cost . Till both of them retrieve their dignity and understand their priorities , I see no point in them getting together .

So let Manav marry Shravani and get his parrot like wish . Let Shravani NOT tolerate Savitas nonsense and put her foot down unlike Archu did . Let Manav watch it as tongue tied as he did when Savita verbally abused Archu . Let the full Deshmukh household witness it .

Let Shravani walk away from this marraige ON HER OWN .

I want to see two women winning in this story...........Archu , by studying and Shravani , by accepting her responsibility on her own strength ..........by not needing any crux like Manav or Savita .
As far as the useless men in this serial go , I have no sympathy for them . Manohar , Kaka , Damodar and Manav , who let Savita go this unchecked need to have a sex operation . Manav has PAMPERED her , and Damodar , inspite of being good , needs to understand that by insisting Archu shud remain in this house and tolerating Savitas abuse , he is in a way being selfish . As far as the others go they r useless spectators .........including buddu Vinod who took his sisters jewellery money for his flat but did not haul up his cunning wife when the tape was finally heard .

I hope Archana DOESNT come back even if Shravani miraculously leaves For quite some time . As a viewer this is my personal wish . I dont know about others .

Very Good post Koolsandhu..............

I wish this would happen ,marriage is not the only thing in life.It would be awesome if they show Archana who is illiterate ,take care of herself without the help of either parents or husband,tha would be something different.I don't want her to go her aai's house as well listen to that manju.If Archana does that it would be a slap on shravani's face because she will understand being educated she needs some one to shoulder her responsibilities .Mean while she should completely ignore manav and everyone and concentrate on her goal.she has to leave he decision to he fate............

Originally posted by: ismita

Very Good post Koolsandhu..............

I wish this would happen ,marriage is not the only thing in life.It would be awesome if they show Archana who is illiterate ,take care of herself without the help of either parents or husband,tha would be something different.I don't want her to go her aai's house as well listen to that manju.If Archana does that it would be a slap on shravani's face because she will understand being educated she needs some one to shoulder her responsibilities .Mean while she should completely ignore manav and everyone and concentrate on her goal.she has to leave he decision to he fate............

Ismita I am surprised u supported my post ........I was expecting tomatoes from ArMan fans and fully prepared for it . 😊

Thanks and I support ur answer TOTALLY . Show us that a semi literate woman does NOT need her maayka or abusive sasural , wimpy husbands or brothers who cannot stand upto mothers and wives for support that she can make it on her OWN without compromising on ANy more self respect .

very good written Kool.

I agree with your each and every point.. I havent seen bigger dumb and
fool than manav.. He has harmed archu indirectly.. Archu is better off
away from Manavs life.. Manav is better off with shravani.. he doent deserve archana.. Agreed fully with your post..

Originally posted by: guptill

very good written Kool.<br><br>I agree with your each and every point.. I havent seen bigger dumb and<br>fool than manav.. He has harmed archu indirectly.. Archu is better off<br>away from Manavs life.. Manav is better off with shravani.. he doent deserve archana.. Agreed fully with your post..<br>

guptill what is this that I am hearing ? Arre I expected the biggest ripest tomato to be from you . 😆

On a serious note , I am glad that inspite of being a guy you felt for the humiliation of woman shown in this serial . I simply cannot bear it .

Seeing present Archu position trust me being a Arman fan i want Archu move out from house and lead her life earnest because she deserves it as she has done no mistake.Infact i want her to shout on Damodar baba for hiding Manav's marriage he gave her proof to believe that Manav is innocent but never told Manav is marrying Sharavani which is wrong it was another torture done to her,may be if she would have known before she would have divorced him as she is also very much like Manav.
I don't think even if Sharavani marries she will leave Manav she is a stupid women she simply says she wants to move out of Manav life & says i don't know where will i go,what will i do, which duffer person after listening to this kind of words would expect to say k good u are going out life that is great.. ohh this is impossible to happen... even we don't want Manav to marry but i don't think even if we were in that position we say immediately to her to out of her our life,k but have u seen taken any step of moving out of Arman life NOOO instead after her dumb speech he takes Archu mangalsutra from Manav as if she is desperate to marry him,i don't know how come being a educated she can act like that,she even does cry for the person who is dead instead he imagine of marrying a new I'm not saying that she should not move on in life but u should take time instead she should fight with her dad and Manav family and move on in her life which would more realistic.
I think may be we should wait for few more episode to see what Manav is gonna do I'm sure Manav will decide not marry Sharavani.
do u remember u once made a comment saying that a husband should not get hurt as he is responsible guy in family if I'm not wrong u told this when we saw a precap where Manav was getting his hand hurt and Archu stops him,..u made this referring Manav should not get hurt himself for twisting Archu hand but later we came to know he was actually remembering his family and got hurt.
may be this time Manav will take a proper decision and choose Archu and by protecting her from saint Madonna Savita.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Ismita I am surprised u supported my post ........I was expecting tomatoes from ArMan fans and fully prepared for it . 😊

Thanks and I support ur answer TOTALLY . Show us that a semi literate woman does NOT need her maayka or abusive sasural , wimpy husbands or brothers who cannot stand upto mothers and wives for support that she can make it on her OWN without compromising on ANy more self respect .

During the weekend i was thinking along those lines..and wanted to post somehing,but being new in his forum,i dreaded every would jump on me........kidding

At any cost i don't want archana go to her mayaka.....if manav is ignored he will come onto the track
Iam dreading something though ,what if something happens to Archana tomorrow?

@kool:
So what if i am a guy, i am human first and i strongly condemn
humiliation of women..

Regarding your post, i have decided that i will try my best to agree with you..
Although, i dont agree with some of your points, but i agree about self respect
of archu and her being independent..

On what i dont agree, i have argued enough and have decided not to argue
anymore on that as i am tired of doing that..

OK u die soo much them tomatoes from me 🤣 🤣 🤣 But i dont think u deserve them neways..

LOL but i liked ur post(surprisingly) I also wanted ArMan to get together but I dont want Archu to loose her dignity at all.. I want them together but with all respect n dignity like it was before..

I dont expect Sav to change but Manav.... If ArMan get backs together I really want Manav to want her n respect her or else I dont mind seeing them apart..
I dont want to see that Archu is trying n on other hand Manav n his mother planning for wedding...I would hate to see

Pavitra Rishta is not Pavitra if there is not respect.. I know Manav loves Archu but I want him to WANT her back in his life n To LOVE her as he did before...

I agree with nishr .