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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Anu for that i make a humblle request to all plzzzzzzzzzzzz dont make comparisons between sadhan n ragini.They hv a beautiful bonding which u dont ruin by comparing them n i truly disagree with d person who think sadhna being insecure.She is not.She is such a selfless girl.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagvirRocks

@ Anu for that i make a humblle request to all plzzzzzzzzzzzz dont make comparisons between sadhan n ragini.They hv a beautiful bonding which u dont ruin by comparing them n i truly disagree with d person who think sadhna being insecure.She is not.She is such a selfless girl.



Thanks and I appreciate your gesture.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadhanaM

I have never posted on this Forum. I hope CT pay attention to viewer's wishes/views. Here are my views regarding current chain of events on SBB:
Any show appeals viewers for its general psychological appeal, i.e., everyone likes to understand the complexity of characters and comprehend sources/reasons behind the character's strengths and weaknesses. Vasu, Ragini and Sadhana, likewise, are really complex characters with strengths and weaknesses. Each have experienced a great deal of pain in their own ways. These experiences of psychological pain should propel them towards psychological growth and maturity.
Vasu has probably suffered like Sadhana, having been compared with her sister, but not always in a positive light. Vasu probably got Ambika married to Satyan because she wished to offer Ambika a better chance at life than she might have had otherwise. However, her intentions are frequently misundertood and she hides her pain by appearing arrogant and stern. She gets into a power struggle with Bua due to her pain. However, she seem to be growing by trying to heal herslf with improved Alekh and by being onto Bua's game. She should pay a good deal of attention to Raginin also so as to minimize Bua's bad influence.
Ragini has also been hurt in past by unfair comparison with Sadhana, resulting in a deficient sense of self. However, Ragini should know that she is loved despite her view of hersel and realize the fact that she is married to the man of her dreams and his family really likes her. Ragini is probably not over her pain despite her present happiness. Bua is aware of Ragini's vulnerability and is taking unfair advantage of it. Ragini needs to be really firm with Bua and should also try to be attentive to Vasu, rather than appearing timid.
Sadhana has always felt insecure, like an orphan generally would. Consequently, she has carved a place for herself in life by being of service in different ways to people she loves, a true survivalist mentality. At this time many of her loved ones do not require her services, Alekh is improving, Mamji's house is saved, Ragini is finally married and happy, Sadhana's historical view of herself is crumbling. Would she survive without being of service? She is, therefore, lost and confused. Sadhana essentially needs to understand her own loneliness and insecurity and accept love of those who truly care for her.

What do you think?

You have analysed every character very well except for Sadhna's. This is one of the most well analysed posts, I must admit, although I'ld contradict you with respect to Sadhna. From your post, you seemed to be a mature person, I hope you will understand my point as I have understood you.
"Sadhana's historical view of herself is crumbling": I strongly contradict to this statement. Sadhna is one character who has stood amidst tough storms in life. So there is no question of her crubling.
"Would she survive without being of service?" A character like Sadhna can never be out of service. I can bet that now she is the one who will save Ragini from being misunderstood by anyone, if by any chance Buaji is trying to take advantage of Ragini's simplicity. People like Sdahna dont sit quiet, rather they find their own service as to how to benefit others.
"She is, therefore, lost and confused": She is neither lost nor confused. She is just missing her old Alekhji, which is a normal human psychology. If a person stays with someone for atleast 7 days, we feel a sense of bonding towards that person. Its said in scripture that if someone takes 7 steps with you, that person becomes your friend. Dont we miss our friends? Sadhna has accepted the old Alekh from her heart, stayed with him day and night and thus she is trying to be protective and getting adjusted to the new Alekh.
Sadhana essentially needs to understand her own loneliness and insecurity and accept love of those who truly care for her: What action of Sadhna made you feel that she is not accepting the love of other people, rather Sadhna is creating problems in others' lives. (Did I misunderstand your statement?)
Characters like Sadhna reach such a height in life that I can assure that today even Alekh falls in love with another girl, she will sacrifice her happiness for Alekh. These people are born to give more and receive less. Whatever circumstance they face in life, they never falter. I can give you another example in this show of such a character, that is Mamaji.... there is a popular saying in Sanskrit...Naranang Matulo Kromo.... means people usually resemble their maternal relations or their mamas the most...Sadhna is an apt example of that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think the topic is about Ragini supporting Sadhana...so lets stick to it.......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

You are right! let Ragini support Sadhna solely because Ragini feels that Sadhna is right and DB is wrong. Ragini may come to know the truth later sometime. If Ragini comes to know the truth now, then her support towards Sadhna might be because of her gratitude and not because she feels Sadhna is correct..Her character will become all the more weak...



I agree with you both. Ragini should support Sadi only because she loves her sister and wants to see her happy. I really want to see a strong Ragini this time and I truely wish she confides in Ranveer and they take care of DB problem as a team.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bini311

I think the topic is about Ragini supporting Sadhana...so lets stick to it.......

You are right! but I wanted to state my opinion about SadhnaM's post..we will stick to the topic now.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: smitha80

Did my answer imply that I was dividing the forum again??Sorry if it looked like that.Cos I don't want to start off another heated discussions on this.

Its def love on either brother's part.And its also fate that made RagVir a couple.Of course there is help in form of Sadhana.At the end of the day what is yours is yours no matter what!!

i dont see any fighting here now..since..i am reaing this page.
but here some ppl s are agree wth it or disagree😳
edit: huh i need to read al pages😆
Edited by KiNnY-pArTnEr - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Moderator's Note:
Please refrain from ANY Sadhna v/s Ragini discussions. Both of them are equally good characters, and there is no idea of one character being sidelined compared to the other one.

Regards
Bidaai DT

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