Originally posted by: --Anu--
Bini, For Alekh-Sadi relation is okay but for rest of the part SadhanaM made it look like as if Sadi did all this because she was only craving for some love and security. So now Sadi is lost as no one wants her services anymore. Forgot to add earlier, this is a very unfair remark towards our Sweet Sadi.
1st of all i really dont understand why so many comparative topics are being made comparing Sadhna and Ragini.
Anu i agree with you Sadhna was never insecure. She was treated badly by Kaushi but also got the love of Mamaji and Ragini.
Even though Sadi / Aalekh relationship was not that of a husband and wife, there was still love, care, concern, depth and understanding in their relationship, which for me is much beyond saying that Aalekh just needed her around cause he was dependent on her. He accepted her as his "Dost" which is a very very good basis for a lasting and happy marriage.
Aalekh is changing and acts differently, i feel his priorities have also changed, he is giving less attention to Sadi, but his care and concern shows thru every action of his. Tthis is something new for Sadi i guess that is why she feeling a little lost. In the past episode she understands that now she also needs to change with the changing Aalekh and once that happens she will be fine.
Sadhna is one of a kind, there are very few like her around who are willing to do anything for others happiness without expecting anything in return. There is always a need of such selfless people in any house and in this world. They do not have to be told but themselves find ways to do things for others and make them happy. She gives love un-conditionally nd accepts love of those who love her and even sees goodness in those that dont.
The only thing Sadhna misses is the love of a husband, which i am sure she will be getting pretty soon, and i am waiting and hoping to see this soon.
Anupamaa
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