I cried for Vani today

Even though I know the world is like this only. Most people are worse than Vidya as they don't have self-awareness. But I cried for Vani & felt like why do everyone in PH behave so rudely with her? (Jabki reason is crystal clear) Jab tak wo Abheera ke supposed friend ki beti thi, tab tak people were taking care of her.

Vidya to hai hi ghatiya aurat. Shuru se hi ghatiya aurat hai. Usne Shivani ki life kharab karke kaun sa kam bada paap Kiya hai jo ye sab uske liye naya ho? DKP wale in cheezo ko casually dikhate hain. As if chaar aansu bahana, selfish hona wagairah legitimate reasons ho jisse koi insaan thoda grey ban jata ho. Nahi.. aise insaan ka sirf ek hi shade hota hai. Aur wo evil hi hota hai. Paap ki dusri koi definition nahi. Hamare TV series me jo bhi mother characters hoti hain, sab ghatiya hi hoti hain jinke liye ye TV wale "K3G" ka BGM chalate.

Ek hamara desh hi aisa hai jo culturally aise behaviour ko defend karta hai, "mothers" ke liye sivay apne "pati", "sasural" aur "bete" ke prati endless "farz" ke siva koi ethics samne nahi rakhta. Jaise women free ho universal values aur even constitution/laws ke boundation se bhi.

Interestingly, PAK dramas me avval to characters aisa karte nahi. Jo karte hain wo bakayada villain hote hain, aur unhe uske consequences milte dikhate hain aur wo bhi strong message ke saath! ITV, specially DKP abuse ko humanize karta hai. This is what I find v. dangerous.

Are kisne kaha hai tyag aur daya ki murti banne ko. Vaani ko nahi rakhna hai mat rakho. Waise bhi paraye ko bahut rare hi apna banate hain, aur unme bhi selflessly to aur bhi kam. Fir bhi ek qaida hota hai. Poddars have money, connections! Ek bachhi khud apne aap ko Anathalay me jayegi? Aur wo bhi etne paise ke sath? Uske paas Paisa na hona utna dangerous nahi hai, jitna ki Paisa hona! Koi bhi chor samjh sakta hai, use traffic kar sakta hai.

Ghatiya Vidya... Pyar se, bina Vani ko kharab mahsus karaye Boarding School me daal sakti thi. Etna bada paap karke bhi Vidya chirkut bhagwan ke saamne aansu banayegi, aur Bhagwan ko rishwat degi ki wo bach jaye! Aisa delulu real life me bahut dekha hai lekin TV par bhi dikhana jaruri hai kya?

Baaki Madhav bhi to kisi kaam ka nahi. He spoke nothing. Etna bhi nahi bol paya ki Vidya ek bacchi ke baare me etna bura mat bolo. As a retired Police Officer he could have located any distant relative of Vani if she has any. It's not like ki Vani ki maa us mental condition me thi ki wo relative ke baare me soch tak paati ya Abheera ko bata paati. I mean... Mai PH ke character se kisi kism ki goodness ki umeed nahi laga sakti, na unrealistic expectation rakh sakti ki wo Vani ko apna le chahe grudgingly hi sahi. I know how the world works. But ek minimum level ki humanity tak nahi hai inme.

Fir ye aadmi kis baat ke liye Vidya se emotionally dur raha? Shivani ke liye kaun sa pyaar, kaisa pyaar? Wo bhi to orphan thi, chote Ghar ki thi. Koi spine nahi hai bande me. He deserves his Masa & Vidya. He learned nothing. Police ke taur par bhi wo kabhi Shivani ko search/trace nahi kar paya uske jinda rahte hue bhi. Masa ne jhuth bola to Maan gya. Jabki apne loved one ki last memori ko bhi sambhalne jata to bhi use sach ka pata lag jata sooner or later!

Somehow he seemed worse than Vidya today. Kyonki Madhav jaise log wo hote hain jo khud to munh ganda nahi karte par dusra aisa kare to uska silent support karke khud "innocent" image ke piche chup jate hain.

Yes... So far Manisha is the only character in PH who always has genuine goodness. Whatever grey shade usne dikhaye wo understandable tha. Usne realise bhi kiya. But DKP walo ne regressive values ko thopne ke liye uske baccho ko without reason bhatakate hue dikhaya. She was never a neglectful mother or a bad role model. Uska baccho ke saath "Too much friendly" hona bas us extent tak galat tha ki usse bachhe padhai aur career ko leker casual ho jate/waha apni laparwahi se fisaddi hote. But... FL ko victimize karne aur Vidya jaise character ko normalize krne ke liye DKP walo ne uske baccho ko bigaad diya taki use bhi baakiyon ke level par khada kar sake. But from the start, Manisha has been kind person to everyone.

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