CTs...plz show Ragini strongly supporting Sadhna - Page 3

I don't want this second reason to come out as to why Sadhana married Alekh.I want Ragini to support no matter what.ANd both Ranvir and Ragini already believe that they are together b'cos of Sadhana.Although no one would to love other person if the other person doesn't feel it!!

Originally posted by: SanihaKaKinshuk

Yup Ragini should know Al thiss ..i m sure she knows everything but She should speakk But Dear i dont agree with u here..Yes Sadhna Ne yeh Shart rakhi thike Ranvir ki Shaadi Ragini se hoo..But us shart ki waja se aaj RagVir saathh nahi hain..Ranvir rejected her when Vasu told him about Ragini so we cantsay this tht Today Ragini n Ranvir kop yaar hua Sadhna ki waja se.No They fall in Love through a Wrong Number ..Though i agree Sadhan wanted Ragini n Ranvir to ge Married Butt Yeh shaadi isiliye huyii cuz they fall in lovee 😊

I have never posted on this Forum. I hope CT pay attention to viewer's wishes/views. Here are my views regarding current chain of events on SBB:
Any show appeals viewers for its general psychological appeal, i.e., everyone likes to understand the complexity of characters and comprehend sources/reasons behind the character's strengths and weaknesses. Vasu, Ragini and Sadhana, likewise, are really complex characters with strengths and weaknesses. Each have experienced a great deal of pain in their own ways. These experiences of psychological pain should propel them towards psychological growth and maturity.
Vasu has probably suffered like Sadhana, having been compared with her sister, but not always in a positive light. Vasu probably got Ambika married to Satyan because she wished to offer Ambika a better chance at life than she might have had otherwise. However, her intentions are frequently misundertood and she hides her pain by appearing arrogant and stern. She gets into a power struggle with Bua due to her pain. However, she seem to be growing by trying to heal herslf with improved Alekh and by being onto Bua's game. She should pay a good deal of attention to Raginin also so as to minimize Bua's bad influence.
Ragini has also been hurt in past by unfair comparison with Sadhana, resulting in a deficient sense of self. However, Ragini should know that she is loved despite her view of hersel and realize the fact that she is married to the man of her dreams and his family really likes her. Ragini is probably not over her pain despite her present happiness. Bua is aware of Ragini's vulnerability and is taking unfair advantage of it. Ragini needs to be really firm with Bua and should also try to be attentive to Vasu, rather than appearing timid.
Sadhana has always felt insecure, like an orphan generally would. Consequently, she has carved a place for herself in life by being of service in different ways to people she loves, a true survivalist mentality. At this time many of her loved ones do not require her services, Alekh is improving, Mamji's house is saved, Ragini is finally married and happy, Sadhana's historical view of herself is crumbling. Would she survive without being of service? She is, therefore, lost and confused. Sadhana essentially needs to understand her own loneliness and insecurity and accept love of those who truly care for her.

What do you think?

Well said SadhanaM.After the haldi and Vasu's friend ill-treating Ragini,Ragini didn't mind cos she knew that Ranvir would be by her side no matter what.She should remember that now.Wealth,position etc are not important.To have the love of a person who means so much to you is important and if she keeps that in mind DB and her machinations wouldn't work on her.

On Sadhana's character,I don't think its insecurity.Its just that she loves unconditionally. And for the last few days she seems lost cos Alekh doesn't seem to need her anymore(from what we saw).But she will come to terms with it and in the process getting closer to Alekh and come out strong as usual.

Originally posted by: piyualka

Though Ragini and Ranveer fell in love but it was Aalekh who forced vasu to get them married ... otherwise Ranveer was leaving for abroad......

Yes and Ranvir reciprocated the favor by solving the mystery which is instrumental in Alekh's recovery!!!

Originally posted by: sadhanaM

I have never posted on this Forum. I hope CT pay attention to viewer's wishes/views. Here are my views regarding current chain of events on SBB:
Any show appeals viewers for its general psychological appeal, i.e., everyone likes to understand the complexity of characters and comprehend sources/reasons behind the character's strengths and weaknesses. Vasu, Ragini and Sadhana, likewise, are really complex characters with strengths and weaknesses. Each have experienced a great deal of pain in their own ways. These experiences of psychological pain should propel them towards psychological growth and maturity.
Vasu has probably suffered like Sadhana, having been compared with her sister, but not always in a positive light. Vasu probably got Ambika married to Satyan because she wished to offer Ambika a better chance at life than she might have had otherwise. However, her intentions are frequently misundertood and she hides her pain by appearing arrogant and stern. She gets into a power struggle with Bua due to her pain. However, she seem to be growing by trying to heal herslf with improved Alekh and by being onto Bua's game. She should pay a good deal of attention to Raginin also so as to minimize Bua's bad influence.
Ragini has also been hurt in past by unfair comparison with Sadhana, resulting in a deficient sense of self. However, Ragini should know that she is loved despite her view of hersel and realize the fact that she is married to the man of her dreams and his family really likes her. Ragini is probably not over her pain despite her present happiness. Bua is aware of Ragini's vulnerability and is taking unfair advantage of it. Ragini needs to be really firm with Bua and should also try to be attentive to Vasu, rather than appearing timid.
Sadhana has always felt insecure, like an orphan generally would. Consequently, she has carved a place for herself in life by being of service in different ways to people she loves, a true survivalist mentality. At this time many of her loved ones do not require her services, Alekh is improving, Mamji's house is saved, Ragini is finally married and happy, Sadhana's historical view of herself is crumbling. Would she survive without being of service? She is, therefore, lost and confused. Sadhana essentially needs to understand her own loneliness and insecurity and accept love of those who truly care for her.

What do you think?

I disagree with you on Sadhana's part. Sadhana is an orphan but she was never insecure. She loves her Jiji a lot because Ragini gave her motherly love that was lacking in her life. Kaushi constantly reminded Sadi through her actions that she is a bad omen for Ragini. So Sadhana felt guilty because of this. Sadi is a selfless person. What all she did for Ragini or Sharma family was without any expectations.
Now with Alekh, her entire world is changing. Earlier Alekh used to be dependent on her all the time so she is missing him now. This is called love, naam toh suna hi hoga.

Originally posted by: smitha80

<br><br>Yes and Ranvir reciprocated the favor by solving the mystery which is instrumental in Alekh's recovery!!!<br>

I don't think neither Ranvir nor Aalkeh were doing any favors...they are brothers and they were doing it out of love......Just because we have Team RagVir and Team SaAalkeh in forum...the essence of the story shouldn't be twisted......

Originally posted by: --Anu--

<br><br>I disagree with you on Sadhana's part. Sadhana is an orphan but she was never insecure. She loves her Jiji a lot because Ragini gave her motherly love that was lacking in her life. Kaushi constantly reminded her through her actions that she is a bad omen for Ragini. So Sadhana felt guilty because of this. Sadi is a selfless person. What all she did for Ragini was without any expectations. <br>Now with Alekh, her entire world is changing. Earlier Alekh used to be dependent on her all the time so she is missing him now. This is called love, naam toh suna hi hoga. <br><br>

Anu, I agree that Sadi was never insecure...but I agree with SadhanaM that Aalkeh and Sadi relationship though unconditional had a service nature to it....he was dependent in her for all the help she gave him....and even though she was doing everything as a wife, Aalkeh hasn't realise the importance of wife, and importance of marriage, love, physical intimacy yet.....I am glad that CV are showing Sadi in this phase where she is a little lost......now Aalkeh needs to fall in love with Sadi, like a lover will fall......that will develop their lovestory....Aalkeh should want Sadi eventhough he doesn't need her to do his work:)

Guys ragini and sadhna do have the same values but remember both have different backgrounds..sadi has suffered a lot since childhood and this has made her strong, she had to be in order to move on. Ragini never had to endure much so she was alwasy protected. Ragini is not wrong, shes just not sure how to move forward, its her first time...i think her character will slowly develop strength due to time...lets hope!

Originally posted by: Bini311

Anu, I agree that Sadi was never insecure...but I agree with SadhanaM that Aalkeh and Sadi relationship though unconditional had a service nature to it....he was dependent in her for all the help she gave him....and even though she was doing everything as a wife, Aalkeh hasn't realise the importance of wife, and importance of marriage, love, physical intimacy yet.....I am glad that CV are showing Sadi in this phase where she is a little lost......now Aalkeh needs to fall in love with Sadi, like a lover will fall......that will develop their lovestory....Aalkeh should want Sadi eventhough he doesn't need her to do his work:)

Bini, For Alekh-Sadi relation is okay but for rest of the part SadhanaM made it look like as if Sadi did all this because she was only craving for some love and security. So now Sadi is lost as no one wants her services anymore. Forgot to add earlier, this is a very unfair remark towards our Sweet Sadi.