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Posted: 16 years ago
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Should friendhip/friends be given another chance, regardless of the gravity of the mistake ? If it causes you emotional hurt, then NO, cos a fake relationship is pointless

Is it too late for friends to apologize and patch up ? No, it's never too late;)

Is it really worth it to try to talk it out with a friend who seems not interested to clear up things at all ? Could give it a try once;)

Is it alright to forget friends ?
Yes, everything in the world changes or gets destroyed, death of relationships is inevitable, that's why sometimes I don't understand finding old friends on facebook! What's the point of having a 'friend' to 'add' on FB, say how are you once and then have no convos at all? Is that friendship?
These are just my opinions:)

Edited by VirgoVixen - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: VirgoVixen



...... that's why sometimes I don't understand finding old friends on facebook! What's the point of having a 'friend' to 'add' on FB, say how are you once and then have no convos at all? Is that friendship?
These are just my opinions:)

I can list names of a number of people who have over 3000 friends ... i really wonder if it's possible to have so many friends/ or just acquaintances unless ur a celebrity or make friends with anyone who sends you friend requests.

Ur right - it becomes very superficial. But is it better to just cut off a relationship completely and permanently or maintain a superficial r/shp? But when do we cross the line of hypocrisy?

I did try contacting my friend again and as usual there weren't any replies. Sometimes I wonder if it's really worth it trying to make things right with that friend of mine. Maybe I deserve it for whatever foolish stuff I did a few yrs back? Though for sure, i wasn't the only one guity.
Edited by glamritz - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Even if she does not talk with you, you both are still friends. Friendship does not end, friends part, but they contiune to be friends. There are good times and bad times but friendship does not depend on these adverse situations. Misunderstanding does not mean end of a lone friendship. You both may not be talking but I am sure she will still be respecting you from the bottom of her heart. It is easy to say, forget her and move along, but this will never happen. I have a friend whom I have not met since 40 years, but I know he still is my friend. So even if you make new friends this particular friend will continue to be your friend despite the misunderstandings. Be cool. Wherever you go this friend will be in your heart forever. Yes trying to clarify things thru email will be a good idea, but there are other means of getting things straightened before you migrate. Good luck to you.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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C if c was ur real Frndz. she wuld hve Listen 2 u n try 2 understand u n Vice versa...
but if din dat mean u were nt meant 2 b frndz 4ever life... so it's ok move on 4m dat frndz...
I did so. actually i do dis all d tym in mine life.. I got Close frndz of mine 4 3yr n den she felt 4 other state n den. v bth r knwn 2 each other nw. den as soon as she Went 1 got another close frndz she failed in ur terms. so she move on 2 other Skool . n 1ce agian Me apart 4m her... Den College. same stry. but i m contact wid 1 Person of mien college rest all r strangers 2 me nw....
Den Office.. i Got 1ce gain close 2 .. 1 of d grl. who was same like me. but after our mine Transfer. she n me r no were 2 b in contact nw. So i thnk dis is wht life is.. u get 2 knw d ppl in your life as frndz. n den get apart. dat's all. i hve got 2 handle all dis thng....

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