SaJan: the most polite n kind jodi on tv - Page 2

Originally posted by: mads

naveen I can understand ur anger ...

but u must understand gunjan and sam were never the kinda to shout and scream or speak in loud voices to get their point heard. its not like gunjan didnt try to defend herself .. she did, but being soft-spoken it hardly mattered .. because sheena overpowered her. that does not mean that she is weak at heart .. she is especially NOT that ... I toially and fully understood gunjan yest .. I believ every dialogue instead indicated how strong she was ... its very easy to let ur temper flare and shout curses at someone .. but even more difficult to shut upself up when u know that shouting's not going to help .. I wud not say the creatives hav destroyed their characters .. infact I was happy to see that gunjan infact was soo unchanged since yesterday .. imagine ow weird it wud be for her to suddenly start screaming at sheena...she wud never do that .. she never has ...

the only time she stood up for herself was the best and that too was done so beautifully and subtly ... had sheena not been a part of samrat's life and still insulted her ... she prob wud hav told her off... but now she dosn't ..because she believs that sam truly loves sheena and wudnt want to come in their way...

as for sam, even he made his point clear on their first date that he doesnt want to break friendship wih gunjan .. yet again he made it clear in such a soft spoken manner ... that doesnt mean that he cant stand up for himself .... he can, he is ju not the type to create all the melodrama and hype .. he is straight forward in his words .. but never rude to anybody ...

same goes for gunjan ... that doesn't make them weak characters .. infact it makes them more strong! 😳

i agree with u mads !! i dont want gunjan to start screaming or being rude to sheena too !! but i wanted her to tell her off in a polite yet firm manner !!! she has done so before wit aprajita !! i know this time its different because sam likes sheena, but what really bugs me is thati'm so much like gunjan and i see myself in her, and i would never take crap from anyone, even if its my best friend's gf !!

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan

i am listening to u, don't worry, and i also agree! 😆
i don't want samrat liking gunjan cuz he finds out sheena is a vamp either! i want him to realize that gunjan means the most to him and he loves her regardless of whatever sheena is like, good or bad...

exactly !!! i want that too ! he should have his realisation very soon,and then he should find out sheena's true colors !!! if that doesnt happen, i'll kiss MJHT goodbye forever !!

i agree.i especially admire the innocence & purity in their relationship

mads and naveen baji....

u both have made valid points...
the fact that Samrat and Gunjan don't act rudely with anyone (and more importantly, with each othe) is one quality I really admire in their characters. samrat is insensitive at times but I guess he acts like that cuz he wants to please everyone but hopefully he'll realize thats not possible and he should only make happy the people that matter (i.e. his real friends and that one one special girl in his life -- Gunjan)

at the same time, i'd like to see both samrat and gunjan speak up in difficult situations in the future. see i liked when samrat told sheena that he couldn't break off his friendship with gunjan without insulting sheena. he dealt with the situation quite well. likewise, the same applies to when gunjan told off Aprajita without insulting her or speaking in a condescending manner.

i don't want to see aggressive, loud or overly rude SaJan.
I would like to see an assertive SaJan sometime in the future, however. i know from my personal experience that this comes with time and changing circumstances.
so maybe gunjan will learn from this experience and learn how to deal with a person like Sheena (or maybe Sheena herself) in the future. life is all about experiences and we learn from them. i hope they show that in this show (which i don't have much expectations from but anyways)

Originally posted by: xaviara

i agree with u mads !! i dont want gunjan to start screaming or being rude to sheena too !! but i wanted her to tell her off in a polite yet firm manner !!! she has done so before wit aprajita !! i know this time its different because sam likes sheena, but what really bugs me is thati'm so much like gunjan and i see myself in her, and i would never take crap from anyone, even if its my best friend's gf !!

as for sammy, as much as he doesnt like to create a fuss and shout at people,i wish he had stood upto sheena for their friendship !! i dont like the way he sneaks behind sheena's back !! its an insult to both gunjan and their friendship !! either he stands up to sheena for their friendship, or he should just leave gunjan alone like she had constantly asked him too !!

@ bold : that makes two of us !!! 🤗

and thats wat infact makes me understand her ... coz no matter how much I say this now, that I wud hav told her off n that ... but then again, when actually the time wud hav come .. I wud hav thot... sam loves her and not me .. hence I wud hav not told her nething at all...

and she herself admits the mistake that she shud not have thrown the chit towards sam ... she considers she is wrong..prob I wud hav done the same coz it was my decision in the first place to not talk to sam..I hav failed myself.. hence it wasn't sheena to whom she wasnt being able to stand against .. it was herself! she knew she had failed herself when she succumbed to his pressure ... and started talking wit him ...

sam ofcourse is entirely and completely at fault ... and even tho I hate him for it..I kno that one can learn only from his mistakes ... thats wat we can hope for too!

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan

mads and naveen baji....

u both have made valid points...
the fact that Samrat and Gunjan don't act rudely with anyone (and more importantly, with each othe) is one quality I really admire in their characters. samrat is insensitive at times but I guess he acts like that cuz he wants to please everyone but hopefully he'll realize thats not possible and he should only make happy the people that matter (i.e. his real friends and that one one special girl in his life -- Gunjan)

at the same time, i'd like to see both samrat and gunjan speak up in difficult situations in the future. see i liked when samrat told sheena that he couldn't break off his friendship with gunjan without insulting sheena.

i don't want to see aggressive, loud or overly rude SaJan.
I would like to see an assertive SaJan sometime in the future, however. i know from my personal experience that this comes with time and changing circumstances.
so maybe gunjan will learn from this experience and learn how to deal with a person like Sheena (or maybe Sheena herself) in the future. life is all about experiences and we learn from them. i hope they show that in this show (which i don't have much expectations from but anyways)

so true riya !! 👏

@ mads and riya : I agree with the both of u !!

there's one instance i forget with regards to samrat and just remembered: the fight with RV.
But his anger was totally justified in that case (plus its RV who started the fight) and it showed that even though he's generally a sweet guy, he won't accept anyone saying nasty words about his friends. He knows when to defend himself and his friends.

Originally posted by: xaviara

But Iman, that's an insult to Gunjan hun !! i mean will he only think of Gunjan when his girlfrind has left him !!its like, ok i dont have anyone, so lets do with Gunjan !! I want him to realise his feelings for Gunjan before sheena leaves, find out her true colors and then give her a taste of her own medicine !!

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan

I've seriously never seen such a polite and kind TV jodi before.
It has its positives cuz they get along very well and don't have petty fights. a few months ago, I would have said they understand each other very well even though they aren't exactly alike....like they r opposites but there is still some similarity in their personailities.

but at the same time, i'd like to see them stand up and speak up for themselves especially Gunjan....
I hope there's something awesome planned for Sheena's exit