My personal views on his apporoach & my reason for being against it.
The questions he asked were absolutely filthy & depicted his cheap or insecure mentallity. When he is here to marry Rakhi , it is clear that without liking her, he wudn't have participated in the swayamvar ..but if he wants to clear all these things & know abt her past completely , then why didn't he analyise this before liking her. What is the use of asking all this & what role does the past have to play in their future? & knowing the famous personality Rakhi is , it is obvious that no chapter in her past was hidden from the audience.
Every move she took was captured by the media & became a topic of gossip & controversies. She is a celeb , it is very natural that her past life is an open book in front of all of us. I seriously didn't understand what was Ashwin trying to prove by making her repeat her painful past , knowing the fact how uncomfortable she was with it.He shud have been sensitive towards her! & by asking all of them all over again , what is he going to gain? or is he so calculative that based on her answers , he will decide if he wants to marry her or not? So he is placing conditions for the two of them ? It clearly shows he doesn't love her! If he did , he wudn't have coaxed her abt her past as a result of that love should be unconditional.