Ashwin asked very good questions

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Posted: 16 years ago

Ashwin u rockes

U have physical realtionship with abhish?

Why u reject mika to this show?

What are u done before to come to film indutry like #@$#@$#@

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gr8

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pinkisluv91

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Posted: 16 years ago

i don't think they were good for public viewing. Rakhi also has a personal life. She says she is a indian girl, and Indian girls don't like stupid questions like these! I mean I know he wants to know but he should have asked her personally. I am sure she will provide them with all of that information later.

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Kavita Gupta

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Posted: 16 years ago

I agree..

these questions should be answered by Rakhi.. hope she answers honestly.. after all she is know for that..

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Samirah Hossenbux

@samirah23

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Posted: 16 years ago

I think the questions he asked were good questions - and it's good to ask questions.

But, the way he asked the questions was very hurtful. He fired one quedstion after another - there was no love or respect in the way that he asked. If I were him, I would have phrased the questions:

"Rakhi, I love you so much and I have so much respect for you. But, there are questions in my mind that every man wants to know about his wife and I hope that none of them will be offensive to you. I do not want to hurt you, but I want to know everything about you ... "

Then, he could go on to ask his questions - and when she gave the answers (especially about the ones which were touchy for her), he should show her empathy and show that he loves her and respects her.

But, I felt like it was an interview and there was no emotion behind it. Even Elesh said he wanted to ask her a lot of personal questions, but he felt the forum for doing this was not good - he didn't want to embarass her on national television because he respects her too much for this ... he was mature about it and told her so - that there is so much he wants to know about her personally, but he can't ask her on television. He wanted to ask her privately.

I think Ashwin's approach was just wrong, and if he had approached me like this, I would have b een offended. I have no issues with talking about my life, and we know that Rakhi also doesn't - but his approach and lack of respect in the way that he asked was uncalled for.

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pinky

@bapatel81

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Posted: 16 years ago

being girl i wont like if any one ask this kind of qts on date..and on national television...if he had problem with relation 1 st of all he should not have come here..and even been having physical relationship dont matter cuz bad things happen to people. what if she was married for 3 yrs and then she had divorce....it would be same thing...i hate people like ashwin..rakhi havent asked luv and other guys that didi they had physicle relation ship/...

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Faith09

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: samirah23

I think the questions he asked were good questions - and it's good to ask questions.

But, the way he asked the questions was very hurtful. He fired one quedstion after another - there was no love or respect in the way that he asked. If I were him, I would have phrased the questions:

"Rakhi, I love you so much and I have so much respect for you. But, there are questions in my mind that every man wants to know about his wife and I hope that none of them will be offensive to you. I do not want to hurt you, but I want to know everything about you ... "

Then, he could go on to ask his questions - and when she gave the answers (especially about the ones which were touchy for her), he should show her empathy and show that he loves her and respects her.

But, I felt like it was an interview and there was no emotion behind it. Even Elesh said he wanted to ask her a lot of personal questions, but he felt the forum for doing this was not good - he didn't want to embarass her on national television because he respects her too much for this ... he was mature about it and told her so - that there is so much he wants to know about her personally, but he can't ask her on television. He wanted to ask her privately.

I think Ashwin's approach was just wrong, and if he had approached me like this, I would have b een offended. I have no issues with talking about my life, and we know that Rakhi also doesn't - but his approach and lack of respect in the way that he asked was uncalled for.

Agree with you.. He shouldn't have asked these questions on national tv!.. anybody can get offended by this behaviour..

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Arti

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Posted: 16 years ago

Agree with Samirah.

Exactly. Everyone is curious about the past of someone they are interested in marrying. It is important to know and be open about those things. In today's world, it is rather silly to expect that someone has had no past before you.

But there is a respectful way of asking it. Not like an interview, and you can't make the other person feel as if they are being judged, or will pass or fail.

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~*LoVeLy*~

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: samirah23

I think the questions he asked were good questions - and it's good to ask questions.

But, the way he asked the questions was very hurtful. He fired one quedstion after another - there was no love or respect in the way that he asked. If I were him, I would have phrased the questions:

"Rakhi, I love you so much and I have so much respect for you. But, there are questions in my mind that every man wants to know about his wife and I hope that none of them will be offensive to you. I do not want to hurt you, but I want to know everything about you ... "

Then, he could go on to ask his questions - and when she gave the answers (especially about the ones which were touchy for her), he should show her empathy and show that he loves her and respects her.

But, I felt like it was an interview and there was no emotion behind it. Even Elesh said he wanted to ask her a lot of personal questions, but he felt the forum for doing this was not good - he didn't want to embarass her on national television because he respects her too much for this ... he was mature about it and told her so - that there is so much he wants to know about her personally, but he can't ask her on television. He wanted to ask her privately.

I think Ashwin's approach was just wrong, and if he had approached me like this, I would have b een offended. I have no issues with talking about my life, and we know that Rakhi also doesn't - but his approach and lack of respect in the way that he asked was uncalled for.