Ashwin asked very good questions - Page 2

Originally posted by: akash99

Ashwin asked her that's fine but they shouldn't show this to publis as Rakhi has her own personal life

Originally posted by: spoke

Hi

If this is her personal life so why she organised this show, let he get marrd personally naa

Originally posted by: samirah23

I also didn't like the way that when Rakhi stopped talking, he took his fist and lifted her face to try to get her attention - this was unmannerly.

If you ask me, I could not marry a guy like this ... maybe someone else could. But, maybe I am used to more mannerly men ...

Originally posted by: jibi

I agree that the way Ashwin asked the questions was not proper. But i think Ashwin comes from a very ordinary background. He doesn't have refined ways to express his feelings. He does not know acting. Whatever was in his mind, or what generally a man would be willing to ask his future wife, he asked in his own way. His fault was that he could not express his doubts in a dignified way.

i think he should'nt have asked her these ques on a date

Originally posted by: samirah23

I think the questions he asked were good questions - and it's good to ask questions.

But, the way he asked the questions was very hurtful. He fired one quedstion after another - there was no love or respect in the way that he asked. If I were him, I would have phrased the questions:

"Rakhi, I love you so much and I have so much respect for you. But, there are questions in my mind that every man wants to know about his wife and I hope that none of them will be offensive to you. I do not want to hurt you, but I want to know everything about you ... "

Then, he could go on to ask his questions - and when she gave the answers (especially about the ones which were touchy for her), he should show her empathy and show that he loves her and respects her.

But, I felt like it was an interview and there was no emotion behind it. Even Elesh said he wanted to ask her a lot of personal questions, but he felt the forum for doing this was not good - he didn't want to embarass her on national television because he respects her too much for this ... he was mature about it and told her so - that there is so much he wants to know about her personally, but he can't ask her on television. He wanted to ask her privately.

I think Ashwin's approach was just wrong, and if he had approached me like this, I would have b een offended. I have no issues with talking about my life, and we know that Rakhi also doesn't - but his approach and lack of respect in the way that he asked was uncalled for.