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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😆 If it's any solace, once you are done with school, have a job, are married, and have kids then it will be the kiddos' turn to get jealous of you and wanting a piece of that pie😆🤗

Yes- but then I'll be wanting this life back - so I'll still be jealous. 😆😆 🤗

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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Yes- but then I'll be wanting this life back - so I'll still be jealous. 😆😆 🤗

That was my whole point😆 now, keep on reminding yourself this thing whenever you get J of your gharwaley😆

shabba khair now. Hum chaley soney. Jis key mid terms hain woh jaagey. Hum bhala kyoon jagey raat raat bher😉.........😆🤗

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Gauri_3
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That was my whole point😆 now, keep on reminding yourself this thing whenever you get J of your gharwaley😆

shabba khair now. Hum chaley soney. Jis key mid terms hain woh jaagey. Hum bhala kyoon jagey raat raat bher😉.........😆🤗

Haan, haan, jao so jao. Kuch aur kaam thori hai karne ko. What happened to your door is always open? Baara baje nahi ke darwaze pe taala lag gaya 🤗

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Posted: 16 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*
I'm a jealous person, I cannot help it.

I'm jealous when I have to get up at 6AM and the rest of the house is still sleeping. I'm jealous when my friend gets a better grade than me on an exam. I'm jealous when I'm staying up late studying while the rest of the house is asleep. I'm jealous when I see that someone already has what I want so badly. But do I want to snatch it away from them? No, I don't. I just want a piece of the pie as well. 😆

😆A normal person think/feel these kind of things lol😉you are normal dont worry(just joking😆)...

if u feel more then just think opposite way....😊

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Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Ahan!!Nice thread...dats! gr8 idea!
Here Are my views
First of all..................😳

👏What Jealousy Means

This question may sound a bit senseless but personally, I had always tried to define this feeling.😛 According to Wikipedia, jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings and behaviour that occur when a person believes that a valued relation is being threatened by a rival. The word basically stems from the French 'jalousie' formed from jaloux (jealous) and further from the Low Latin zelosus (full of zeal) and from Greek word for 'ardour' and 'zeal' (with a root meaning 'to boil' ferment or yeast)

I think, jealousy is the feeling of discontent which grows in an individual due to the possessions of others or the desire to possess the qualities of others.

😊The fact which cannot be denied is that each one of us has felt envious on a number of occasions. For example, most of us become restless when we see our younger siblings being showered with love in the form of hugs and kisses and we being neglected as if we are not present at the very precise moment. And sometimes our sisters and brothers are even praised in front of us when they have done a commendable job in some subject while we have flunked in a certain test. Similarly, in our class we feel like screaming on top of our lungs when one of our classmates is highly praised for scoring the highest marks and we are told by our teacher to start concentrating on our studies or else we would definitely fail in the exams.

😆😆That's not where the story ends, dear readers! Some people, especially girls😃, are very conscious about their appearance and they look bitterly towards the girl who is prettier than they are and has beautiful curls, eyes and an exquisite nose. Some girls go as far as being covetous of one's long nails!(Ha..............ha....... Sorry if i wrote something wrong)

😕How to deal with jealousy😕

Now here comes the difficult part! How should we act when we really are at the verge of bursting with jealousy? Many of my friends may think that it is almost impossible to hide your feelings, but here comes your test of patience as jealousy is a feeling which can cause a lot of destruction and if not wisely dealt with can hurt and harm a lot of people as an envious person is always thinking of ways of hurting and humiliating people in front of a huge gathering and even our Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) once said "Avoid envy' it eats up good deeds as fire consumes dry wood." So here are some sensible ways of dealing with jealousy:
😡Some Facts😡
' Start appreciating others! Even if you are feeling low and are feeling like punching the other person, a few words of appreciation wouldn't do any harm and if possible, a small smile will straighten up all the things!

' Start working hard! Work with all your zest and zeal to reach the standard of the person you are envious of. But that doesn't mean that you become arrogant and start an unhealthy competition. Now this is the right time to start doing a bit of household chores to please your parents. Believe me; they'll hug you after that!

' Start thanking Allah for what he has granted you. Never look for things you don't have, always count your blessings. Remember that there are people in this world who are less privileged than you are. Once you'll think this way, you automatically will become thankful to Almighty Allah and a feeling of content will soothe your mind.

Now these were some tactics of dealing with jealousy. Believe me! They always work, I can say this from personal experience. I have a small tip for you all and that is ' start practising these small things from today and you shall soon become an expert in it. So people! Relax and have a cup of coffee and do think about it! Cheers!
( I tried my best to give You satisfied Answer)
Regards,
*~*Marry*~*

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Posted: 16 years ago

#26

Good question.

I will keep it short here.

I think human nature may be the cause of jealousy. We are never happy with what we have and want to be number 1 in the race. For example, even if one has BMW and his friend has a Mercedes, he'd always want that new model of Mercedes. He does not realize that what he has is good enough.

One way to erase jealousy is by looking at people beneath us. It works well for some time.

However, I believe that jealousy can also be used in good spirits. For instance, if you strive to get better grades than your competitor then I don't consider than to be vile.

Jealousy is horrid when it comes to materialistic items! "Shudders" 😆

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Posted: 16 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Sujal_Fan_No1
Y is it that some ppl are never happy with wat they have?? But wen we see other ppl with nicer things we are always jealous coz we want it???? Instead of being grateful for wat we have???

LOL I TAKE JALEOUSY A POSITIVE ASPECT IN A PERSON AS LONG AS it doesnt harm anyone 😉

I Am a jaleous person 😳 I cannt stand beautiful ladies sitting next to my hubby esp wen i happen to be in a CINEMA HALL n cannt do anything except cringing.😆

But seriously i have no issues with ppl who are more intelligent than me nither do i care for those who get good grades in class since i never was an excellent student😳😆

But yes i've seen ppl getting jaleous over others success which really BUGS me 🤢BUT THEY CANNT HELP IT SINCE ITS A SLOW POISEN WHICH DESTROYS ONE'S GOODNESS N LEADS TO BADness!

we dont choose ppl we like, we like them bcoz we find attraction in them same is the case with disliking you cannt chose anyone to hate but it develops itself n leaves a person helplesswhich is really sad😭

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Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Jealousy, eh? I feel it's something which can't be corrected until one experiences jealousy , gets extremely mad and then says "Aaah who cares? I've been given a lot by god, why should I bother about what I don't have?"

It takes a while for it to happen though. 😆

But definitely it can't be eliminated completely.

I used to get mad when ppl beat me in exams, if someone got a trophy,etc but then I also got over it..

Whenever I ever get jealous, I remember this song:
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gt15gtRMObU[/YOUTUBE]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gt15gtRMObU

Here are the lyrics:
Main Zindagi Ka Saath Nibhata Chala Gaya
Har Fikar Ko Dhuen Mein Udata Chala Gaya
(I go along with this life ,i blow all away all my worries in thin air!!)

Barbadiyon Ka Shok Manana Fizul Tha
Barbadiyon Ka Jashan Manata Chala Gaya
Har Fikar Ko Dhuen Mein Uda
(there is no point in crying over split milk in things whihc have gone wrong for u. So better to celebrate your mistakes in life than crib over them!!)

Jo Mil Gaya Usi Ko Muqaddar Samajh Liya
Jo Kho Gaya Maein Usko Bhulata Chala Gaya
Har Fikar Ko Dhuen Mein Uda
(what life has given me I consider it as my fate…….. the things which i have lost.. i forget them!!!)

Gham Aur Khushi Mein Farq Na Mehsoos Ho Jahan
Main Dil Ko Us Muqaam Pe Laata Chala Gaya
Har Fikar Ko Dhuen Mein Uda
(i take my heart to a point where i dont feel the difference between happiness and a sad feeling in life…)

It doesn't focus on jealousy, but it makes me feel a lot less jealous. 😆

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Posted: 16 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*
I'm a jealous person, I cannot help it. yea we know 😛

I'm jealous when I have to get up at 6AM and the rest of the house is still sleeping.noone asked u to😆 I'm jealous when my friend gets a better grade than me on an exam.study fool. I'm jealous when I'm staying up late studying while the rest of the house is asleep.bad time mgt I'm jealous when I see that someone already has what I want so badly.aww 🤗 But do I want to snatch it away from them? No, I don't. I just want a piece of the pie as well. 😆hmmm

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