Love ends for Men after......?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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OK, so..
it is said defination of love for men ends after ahem with loved one while for women ahem notarizes love and growth of love begins from there. How true is that statement and why?
Ok my views, know u must be eager..as i hold my views till end - Ahem might hold some value as far as love is concerned but love is far more imp..ahem ..is no big deal.
Please be reminded of disclaimer and lets have a matured debate here...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I like how you call it ahem ahem😆

Generally speaking, I think women do consider that a progression of their relationship and love, whereas the stereotypical male thinks of ahem ahem as a endpoint in their game....

Though these are generalizations, the people I have encountered fit into these categories for the most parts, of course with a few exceptions here and there....

An interesting story about one of my co-workers(female)....She decided to have a physical relationship with another co-worker (male). So she approached him and told him their relationship would be no strings attached....Of course, the guy readily agreed (he was a bit of player).....So the relationship seems equal right? Both people having a casual physical relationship with not commitments. Wrong. The girl began developing feelings for the guy whereas the guy thought of her as just a friend (with benefits). This goes to show that for some women, no matter how hard they try to deattach their emotions from a purely physical relationship, it doesn't really work....I think guys can easily separate a physical relationship from an emotional one. Women tend to think that a physical relationship is not possible without the emotional aspects.

Anyways, I'm not a guy so I really don't know😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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from where do u get this idea of debate Raj ji...tell me .....i'll commet here later
Edited by sonur15 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I'm sorry, what is ahem?

Am I not allowed in this topic? 😆😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

I'm sorry, what is ahem?

Am I not allowed in this topic? 😆😆

@ bold ....🤣.....please xplain Raj ji
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonur15

@ bold ....🤣.....please xplain Raj ji



Yes Raj ji, please explain 😆😆

Aww man, I'm outta here, AnshuMAN will kill me for making a joke out of his serious topic. No more lectures today, please, mere kaan pak gaye hain 😆😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yeah, guys are more ahem-tracked in general than girls. But guys can also develop deeper feelings for girl after ahem. That is in fact one way girls try to trap men, especially if guy cannot get his ahems elsewhere easily or the ahem was so good it draws him in emotionally. So It really depends. It need not be the end of a loving, ahem-filled relationship; it may just be the beginning.😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Let's face it. Unless it's a sterile relationship, ahem is important to both sides. Men just happen to be more poly-ahem by nature, girls mono-ahem. They are both using each other; men by virtue of spreading the joy around and being poly-ahem are using less of each girl; girl is using more of the one guy she is getting her ahems from. But the fire is lit both sides😊
That apart, ahem is a means for both sides. It can lead to love in either case, not necessarily be the end-game for men.😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

Before starting this topic, a Disclaimer - ...insentive people or under age folks just skip this one...consider this disclaimer as being 3000 words..covering COC and inappropiate contents... lets be considerate, no personal remarks or instigations plus etc etc and try to get enlightening views here.

OK, so..
it is said defination of love for men ends after ahem with loved one while for women ahem notarizes love and growth of love begins from there. How true is that statement and why?
Ok my views, know u must be eager..as i hold my views till end - Ahem might hold some value as far as love is concerned but love is far more imp..ahem ..is no big deal.
Please be reminded of disclaimer and lets have a matured debate here...

What a topic Anshuman😆 and that "Ahem"🤣 oh u cld have either used the 3 letter word or Physical relationship. So from the ques it can be deciphered that for men either there is ahem or love!🤣 .
On a serious note I think both do co-exist for men , it probably depends on the stage the man is in and his personality. For men as research studies done by Men😆 indicate its one of the necessities for keeping them alive😉😆 but it can develop into care, affection and later love. Although love plays a more signifcant role in relationships, the focus of most men is on physical joys unless they have developed affection and care, which may not happen at all. For women it may start with 'ahem'😆 but love does develop over time, since women are more conditioned to nurture.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: realitybites

What a topic Anshuman😆 and that "Ahem"🤣 oh u cld have either used the 3 letter word or Physical relationship. So from the ques it can be deciphered that for men either there is ahem or love!🤣 .
On a serious note I think both do co-exist for men , it probably depends on the stage the man is in and his personality. For men as research studies done by Men😆 ---😆true
indicate its one of the necessities for keeping them alive😉😆 but it can develop into care, affection and later love. Although love plays a more signifcant role in relationships, the focus of most men is on physical joys unless they have developed affection and care,😕most of men??!! bt we enjoy beauty😊 ... which may not happen at all. For women it may start with 'ahem'😆 but love does develop over time, since women are more conditioned to nurture. --😆

I think its Importent to both gender,now a days its not a big deal,but the economics law Margin of deminishing utility not match here...😉😊

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