The girl with a muddled head

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Opti

@Opti

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 17 years ago

Why does Prachi always end up taking decisions which not only jeopardise her happiness but that of the ones she loves? I wouldn't want to go into the long list of the past.

Focusing on only yesterday's episode, while I liked the fact that she poured out her woes and made Milsi understand how much it hurts her every time he snaps at her, how much she loves him and fears losing him because she has lost all those she had loved in the past, I did not like to hear her tell Milsi she will leave him for his own good. What good is she talking about?

Was she not the one who a couple of days back decided to risk her life to save her husband from danger because the pandit had warned her of it? Does that not mean that she needs to keep in mind the other thing that the panditji had said, that she is her husband's shield?

Had not her husband also repeatedly told her that she is his strength and as long as she is with him he has nothing to fear and that he cannot live without her?

Now that there is a very real and potent threat to his life and the one who was his bodyguard till now is out of action and may himself be in danger, should she not stick with her husband like a leach and ensure he is always safe?

As to his snapping, is that something new? Has he not done that in the past? Had his anger and abuse (both physical and verbal) not been much more severe then? Was she not willing to bear all that just to be with the man she loves? Now that she knows he loves her to death and cannot live without her, she wants to leave him for his own good? He did apologise and even if he didn't, should she not put his life above everything else and stay by his side for his sake, no matter what, like she had done in the past? If she leaves now and Milsi gets hurt by the killer would she ever be able to forgive herself?

I can understand that she was highly strung yesterday and all the cumulative feelings of the past just burst out like a broken dam, but I hope the girl clears up her muddled mind and does not take any step she will regret for life. If she does not, Milsi needs to stubbornly force her to stay and drill some sense into her. Michi separation over such a trivial issue is just not acceptable.

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soul76

@soul76

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Posted: 17 years ago

Oh Opti so rightly titled and written I can't tell you how bad I feel since last night. I certainly am not in a position to sit through another Michi separation that too on suh a trivial issue. The fact that she bore everything in the past because of her love and is now willing to separate because of his hot headedness appears stupid and highly strung to me. She should stay with him and try talking to him it always works besides he apologised and acknowledged his mistakes now what else does she want him to do?

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Bee-dz

@Bee-dz

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Posted: 17 years ago

yeah exactly... its too trivial an issue for them to separate over.. they've been through worse before. but somehow, to me it seems like an opportune moment for some "external forces" to intervene and take advantage of this situation... thats one of my fears..

Also, i think both of them reacted rather impulsively. her decision was in all probability rash, and in the heat of the moment. Im hoping she'll regret what she just said and stay put. Or else, like u said, have mils stubbornly force her not too leave.

(Aside) Note to Mils - Get her back. Deep down in her heart she doesnt ever wanna leave. She wants u to stop her, pull her back, and never let go.

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Pooja

@poshah

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Posted: 17 years ago

the girl is confused..but she just said she will leave him.

she wont leave him..atleast i think she said it just..at times you behave reactively thats all..

its just a surprise element thats all :)

and comparing milind snapping at her now and in the past..there is a difference atleast i think so...in the past..she didnt know that he liked her..so it was easy to be snapped at

but now, when she knows his feelings, its difficult for her to see rebuff and little hatred or whatever in his eyes..

i think prachi's frustration is quite justified, its v difficult to see hatred in eyes of someone you love..and milind just snapped at her not once but many times..and she cant stand it..so she basically doesnt want to come near him..

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Bee-dz

@Bee-dz

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: poshah

i think prachi's frustration is quite justified, its v difficult to see hatred in eyes of someone you love..and milind just snapped at her not once but many times..and she cant stand it..so she basically doesnt want to come near him..

Well, I dont think so. She's well aware that it is typical and characteristic of milind to react the way he did. Its just that now she feels that the very people she loves and cares about and wants to protect are the ones she unintentionally ends up hurting. As she ahs shown in the past, she can withstand suffering for them. What she cant bear is to see them suffering because of her. Which is why she thinks its best if she stays away.

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Pooja

@poshah

Voyager

Posted: 17 years ago

well me thinks its milind snapping :) at her..coz if he hadnt snapped at her innumerable times..she wouldnt have been upset..

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Krishna

@kubare

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 17 years ago

Opti darling like you and Munee I to can't stand an other Michi separation and that too over such a trival issue.

Hopefully it wont lead to that...and we will have Prachi running back to hubby dear....when she sees or hears his cry of pain on banging his shoulder.

Hopefully we get a cute Michi scene....😉

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Opti

@Opti

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 17 years ago

Poo I agree with Bee here. She was not upset with him, she was unhappy that she was upsetting him and her solution was to leave so that he does not get upset anymore. The poor girl was highly strung and emotional I could empathise with her. I oly hope she lets it cool down. I'm sure if she thinks it through she would not want to leave.

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soul76

@soul76

Sparkler

Posted: 17 years ago

Opti she said she never wants to leave her exact words "Main aapko kabhi chor ker jaana nahin chahti lekin...." uff yeh lekin....

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krangara

@krangara

Rocker

Posted: 17 years ago

#10

Given that she is highly emotional, I am not surprised by her momentary declaration to leave him. P withstood his angst in the past because she thought he didn't care, and therefore had no expectations. But, right now, P is unable to fathom why he snaps at her every so often when she only has his best interests at heart

He did cross a line yesterday - I can never forget his venomous expression as he said, 'Agar TU nahin hoti to aaj main uska chehra dekh pata"....poor girl had just come to retrieve her phone, and had no idea he had something planned....how then is she responsible?

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