Kabhi Main Kabhi Tum (ARY) #4 - Fahad Mustafa, Hania Aamir - Page 111

Bhai I am actually upset with mustafa for his negligence towards Sharjeena, pr Murtaza uncle kyu bol rhe hain beech me? Mustafa ne thodi wo wire waha fit kiya tha, (aur baaki stress wali baat toh uncle ko pata bhi nahi hogi) toh wo kyu mustafa ko blame kr rhe hain? And where is the sympathy towards him? Bacha toh uska bhi mara hai...usko kyu nahi sympathy de rha koi?

Originally posted by: meandwho

mein toh nehi dekhri yeh https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJRiz3ta8RQ

I only watched todays Rubab scenes from todays episode and she just nailed it . I actually love the actor too. Liked her in EhD e wafa, Jindo and Fraud. Though fake accusation was little harsh.

Yes, I do agree with your points. And in a world where both husband and wife had stable jobs, if the husband had neglected the wife like Mustafa did - it sure would have sucked. That would just be plain preposterous that he was putting his career growth ahead of his family when he already was in a good position.

In mustafa's case - he lacked education and he caught this lucky break - so I'm not seeing his mad rush to make it work particularly given that their family was growing and a stable and good income in addition to Sharjeena's stable income will set them up comfortably as a bad thing

I do see though a complete lack of communication. Mustafa should have taken some time off to explain to her - Sharjeena should have sat him down and told him what the doc said about her BP. He could have convinced her of his immense love for her and that his practical thinking is making him want to just reach stability so he's having to put in long hours at work.

Somehow the neglect is not as emphatic when the reason for the neglect is justifiable - had he been goofing off with his friends like old times and neglecting her like he used to right after their marriage i would be totally mad. but here the man had his heart in the right place.

Sharjeena on the other hand could have easily found ways to humor herself. Even if we agree that Mustafa was an ass to neglect her - she could have looked forward to the baby - been happy that things will all work out eventually - and kind of pampered herself - maybe i'm just that way that I don't have any expectations from others in order to stay happy :) I used to volunteer at a battered women's place in New Jersey many many years ago before moving to the west coast and a lot of what i've seen there has kind of made me think that women need to stay strong and happy and independent and be their own best friend - everything else is icing on the cake :)

Originally posted by: Tara_memu12

I loved that they related this whole scenario to her dialogue earlier - main kisi din tumhe phone krte krte marr bhi jaungi....and his realisation that this might be it, this might be the end,the way he ran... finally he is realising it all!

I am not blaming mustafa for the miscarriage, it was an accident, true....but it is also true that he neglected her in many ways. Yes earning money for a better future is necessary, but tending to your pregnant wife is also equally important. Had it been Sharjeena who was doing this for their better future, every one would have been behind her, but mustafa gets a clean slate.

I am all good with his passion to have a better future, but I cannot surpass the fact that he left her all alone. No one can replace your life partner, and she needed her husband's support, and love...she longed for that, and if it was not clear with all the notes then I don't know if there is any other easier explanation for that! She could have shifted to her parents' place, but the note that said "saara din ho gaya tumne call nahi ki mujhe" clearly indicated that even after living at her parents' house, she would have been that lonely because he was that busy, he wouldn't have time to even call, andar hi andar wo tab bhi utna hi ghut'ti rehti ki uska husband usko call tak nahi kr rha hai, and no one can deny the fact that the 'saath' of your life partner is not something anyone can replace.

And his guilt is not about the miscarriage, it's about her condition. The regret is about the fact that he neglected her on emotional grounds, which he did. Murtaza uncle had no say in it, ofcourse, but again he has been doing the "galat time pr galat cheezein bolna" since the very beginning.

I love all the contrasting scenes, the detailing is wonderful.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBiKhtpPrS8/?igsh=bmg0MG4wYjB1aGJ5

I don't watch this drama but watched it for adeel ki zalalat

Man rubab slayed i loved ittt you got my name and personality too kinda as im not evil but i don't take crap

So the first few minutes before they started the review, Badar spoke a lot about this project, nothing new. Then after ten minutes, it was the four of them talking. Since they also were about to review Zard finale, they gave 9 to all, but Badar got 10. Badar sat quietly on the side for most parts.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jy2tdldGMVE

At 35 minute mark, they start discussing the direction. Nadia tried a lot to pry, but Badar kept his mouth shut on the ending. He said only Fahad-Hania know the ending, I think its a lie. Art team was responsible for all the costume.

Last episode only 1 part will be aired on Tuesday. In parallel with theatres, it will air on tv. SO only 3 episodes are left. Badar says this at the end of the review - 3 min

Originally posted by: Queeen

I don't watch this drama but watched it for adeel ki zalalat

Man rubab slayed i loved ittt you got my name and personality too kinda as im not evil but i don't take crap

Naema Butt ruled today for sure. Going to miss this character a lot. Rubab was so entertaining and so was Adeel.

Dusri side pe thora dukh dard chal raha hai (someone shoot Sharjeena’s annoying dad), so the Rubab showdown was a good entertainer

Sharjeena having written those post it notes for Mustafa on the wall in the hopes that he would read it and manaaofy her broke my heart into a million pieces 💔 THAT HURT

I know we will get a happy ending though. Thora Aur dukh dard ho jaye uss ke baad

That's going to make for such a rushed ending ..i think all the pak serials ive seen thus far the ending's always been rushed ...like a quick stroll together or something and it's curtains down! ..I would really like to see more of happy musjeena - they've lost their baby so they need to leap a bit to show them moving on from that if they have to show them happy?? ..Or they can leave it in a cliffhanger if they want to go for season 2 - They can show Musjeena falling in love once again in S2!!

3 40min episodes are quite less to showcase happy musjeena after they gave us so many episodes of their sorrow!!

Originally posted by: meandwho

So the first few minutes before they started the review, Badar spoke a lot about this project, nothing new. Then after ten minutes, it was the four of them talking. Since they also were about to review Zard finale, they gave 9 to all, but Badar got 10. Badar sat quietly on the side for most parts.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jy2tdldGMVE

At 35 minute mark, they start discussing the direction. Nadia tried a lot to pry, but Badar kept his mouth shut on the ending. He said only Fahad-Hania know the ending, I think its a lie. Art team was responsible for all the costume.

Last episode only 1 part will be aired on Tuesday. In parallel with theatres, it will air on tv. SO only 3 episodes are left. Badar says this at the end of the review - 3 min