When you dislike someone everything they do is wrong

This is psychology - Even if a person is saint and you dislike or hate him/her than you dislike/hate everything they do or say

Reverse is also true - A person may be hitler but you like him so everything he does looks great to you

Anupama is written with this psychology aspect in mind

Anupama likes shahs so everything they go illegal, criminal, abusive etc which full world thinks is bad is liked or right as per her

Anupama dislikes kapadiyas so everything and anything they do is always wrong or abusive or not right or politics or trying to snatch her home or position or husband or child etc

Like anuj wanted to go eat in 5 star or 7 star hotel. Imagine if vanraj takes anupama to 55 star will she say why waste 900 on dal or 500 on sweets etc noo

But because its anuj who took her out she forced him to go to 3 star hotel

Imagine if vanraj was with her would anupama dare lecture youngsters in front of him, not really for 26 years she was married to him

But this is anuj kapadiya her paltu hubby so start lectures on how to treat elders or poor

While in reality both anuj and anupama abuse and humiliate and allow abuse of Malati devi on daily basis in their home

If vanraj rought a slver plate for pakhi or tooshu to eat food anupama would be jumping in joy

But anuj got it for CA so give him lectures on waste of money?

Where was anupama braveness to lecture or misbehave with saas for 26 years when vanraj was her husband and leela her saas?

Why this braveness has come only after marrying anuj kapadiya?

Moral of story: Anupama knows who wil accept her lectures or misbehaviour and who will not. In Shah house for 26 years anupama dare not open her mouth or give lectures because Baa would have slapped her and vanraj would have kicked her off home. So she was quiet like a dumb person. Shes just an opportunist who behaves as per how opposite person will accept her words. Even after divorce she knows that she has to behave docile and forgive shahs no matter how much they abuse her because otherwise she will face their warth. But with anuj she can ill treat him or his family, abuse his family members, not care for him or CA etc still he will take it quietly. So as per person her stance changes. Dimpy she slapped because she will take it quietly as shes bahu and rape victim and samar will not allow dimpy misbehave with anupama. But dare she slap Pakhi or toshu even once, after abuse she runs to serve them copffee or juice. This shows anupam ais not innocent woman like we were made to believe, shes a very calculative machivellian shrewd woman who knows when to behave how with whom for benefits.

This heppns with me everytym

My mom ki nazaron mein

What makers trying to.prove that anupama (who dare to divorce vanraj after Ema revealed ) could never leave her baggage or dhaga.

If they really want to start USA track . They better leave shah and BB, AM and pakhi . They should only focus on kapadias and useless shit. If they really want to be on no.1 again

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She is ALL this and more. But the question is, who will bell the cat? Because if anyone does that, they are made vamps and villains.

Someone needs to bring Anuj out of delusion and get Anupama and Vanraj married. Sab sukhi rahenge.

Tab dekhenge Anupama Dimple-Tapish ki shaadi karati hn ki nahin.

This is so true, I wholeheartedly dislike Anupamaa and everything she does is wrong...bas bol diya!