21 saal ki ladki ki saadi nahin thi - Page 4

Originally posted by: naq5

i dont agree that marriage is the only imp relationship. a person has to balance other relationships otherwise it becomes toxic. imp & attention shud be given where its needed. and anupama failed to do that
leave all that she lied & hid the truth which anuj shud know. she let her child sacrifice

Of course, marriage is not the only important relationship but it is the most important relationship.

She actually said that? Wow!

when she was actually 21 and married, her Baa did not allow her to go to her maayka. She mentioned regret of missing out on helping Kanta.

True that one of the members had mentioned long ago, she should have dared say that in front of Anuj's foster parents or tauji-taiji had there been elders at Kapadia's.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

She actually said that? Wow!

when she was actually 21 and married, her Baa did not allow her to go to her maayka. She mentioned regret of missing out on helping Kanta.

True that one of the members had mentioned long ago, she should have dared say that in front of Anuj's foster parents or tauji-taiji had there been elders at Kapadia's.

Everyone was saying that she acted so well that you would feel bad for her. Because of that watched some clips and I didn't feel bad even for a second. It was all about her. It was all about how she is hurt and she is in pain. Uff ...

Originally posted by: strancho

Everyone was saying that she acted so well that you would feel bad for her. Because of that watched some clips and I didn't feel bad even for a second. It was all about her. It was all about how she is hurt and she is in pain. Uff ...

Haven't watched. Yahi toh poblem hn. Anupama ko poblem hi nhi najar aati.

While I dont agree with that that if a marriage requires you to take a break, you have to, only because there has been cases of extremely abusive and unhealthy marriages (Like Vanraj Saab and AnupaMAA-maid’s) where it becomes so consuming that you lose yourself in a marriage, I whole heartedly agree for the case of AnupaMAA-Anuj. Heck the demands from Anuj wasn’t even for her kids, it was only and mostly for the extra relationships like useless hag Bapuji or Baddua-queen Baa or even Kavya, let alone Vanraaj Saab, who she did not need to attend 24x7. I really wish Anuj also explained AnupaMAA about the old hag, that how his scheme was to continue to get a free maid in AnupaMAA post her divorce and stopped her from growing out claiming now he is her father, whereas he did not fulfill ANY duty of a father. What price did the hag pay for being such worthless father ? Nothing. Still enjoying his sarala err i mean cream roll days.

Had CVs made AnupaMAA retrospect during the new year issues instead of bringing some Dhiraj and make Anuj say sorry, we won’t have seen this bigger problem. Marriage is also about taking charges and sometimes facing consequences if you couldn’t keep up to your promise. AnupaMAA was never, not even ONCE held responsible for her failed promises. And the only time Anuj tried, useless Dhiraj and Devika ruined it with nacha gaana instead of addressing it. I skipped that dancing episode really and I am not regretting. She thought this is a disneyland. No life is not.

It was really a matter of understanding what’s good for yourself. Whatever Anuj wanted, was to help her even if she wanted to lead an independent life. But no, she preferred to stay free housemaid. Anuj had to burst one day. And also, she WAS 21 one day, but then also she did not manage multiple things. She completely left Kanta and her brother on their own. So what multiple threads is she talking about to maintain ? It’s only and only Shah House that she needs.