21 saal ki ladki ki saadi nahin thi

Aap yeh jante huye mujhse saadi kiya ki yeh koi 21 saal ki ladki ki saadi nahin thi jiski sirf ek dor mayke se badhi hui hain, yeh dadi ki saadi thi.

What a pathetic thing to say to a man who lost the only true dori of his life. How many times is she going to boast about the innumerable relationships she has to a man who has not a single relationship left?

And, why does she think a 21-year-old woman lacks any responsibility? She also has parents, siblings, careers, friends, and relatives. It does not matter how many responsibilities you have, once you marry, your marriage is your most important responsibility. If your marriage requires you to take a break from all other responsibilities, then you have to take a break. You don't take a break from your marriage to sort out other priorities. Parents grow old, kids become adults, and friends become busier, it's only your spouse whom you will grow old with and stay till your last breath.

P.S.: I did not feel bad for MAA today. A wife who does not try to understand her husband even after the husband screams at her about his problems deserves what MAA is getting.

I wish they would have addressed that it wasn’t love from Anuj’s side. CA issue was the last nail in the coffin. Their relationship foundation has always been shaky. Nobody should get a life partner like her who just drains all the life force out of you

I agree with you.. It's like cvs were giving justification to us as we complained about anupama's misplaced priorities even after her marriage saying she already had them from the go

But as i had earlier too written in one of the post that anuj didn't know she will not be available for him due to her baggage even after marriage when he went through major health issues . Anuj never asked her to forget her responsibility and kids when they need her but he told her time and again to set a boundry so that shah phemily doesn't take advantage of her .

How can her making khichdi for baa during choti anu school function be justified, how can her going to shah house when her husband was just out of paralysis be justified and how can her going for pari's fever during late night justified when entire shah phemily was present to take care of that baby . After marriage one has to set their priorities straight or else don't get married as no matter how much supportive your spouse maybe they will start to feel suffocated which is happening to anuj and it triggered when he lost choti anu

One last thing came to my mind is that anupamaa thought she can have her cake and eat it too as anuj was crazy about her. I mean she fought with everyone right from her children to her pujaniya baa to get married to anuj and when anuj and her fostered kid needed her she couldn't say no to shah phemily when they called her even to inform when they fart and burp like really how can we believe that? She didn't want to say no as simple as that she knew anuj would always accommodate her which she never did for him👎🏼

Having said all this i really feel bad for anupamaa seeing her so shattered but it's her own doing to major extent

Originally posted by: strancho

I wish they would have addressed that it wasn’t love from Anuj’s side. CA issue was the last nail in the coffin. Their relationship foundation has always been shaky. Nobody should get a life partner like her who just drains all the life force out of you

@bold, you know this is exactly what I was thinking. This is what his face depicted. He was so full of life.... He was the one who danced to Ankhiyon se goli maare that she mentioned and was the life of that party. Look at him now, barely a year later. 😭

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Aap yeh jante huye mujhse saadi kiya ki yeh koi 21 saal ki ladki ki saadi nahin thi jiski sirf ek dor mayke se badhi hui hain, yeh dadi ki saadi thi.

What a pathetic thing to say to a man who lost the only true dori of his life. How many times is she going to boast about the innumerable relationships she has to a man who has not a single relationship left?

And, why does she think a 21-year-old woman lacks any responsibility? She also has parents, siblings, careers, friends, and relatives. It does not matter how many responsibilities you have, once you marry, your marriage is your most important responsibility. If your marriage requires you to take a break from all other responsibilities, then you have to take a break. You don't take a break from your marriage to sort out other priorities. Parents grow old, kids become adults, and friends become busier, it's only your spouse whom you will grow old with and stay till your last breath.

P.S.: I did not feel bad for MAA today. A wife who does not try to understand her husband even after the husband screams at her about his problems deserves what MAA is getting.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, you know this is exactly what I was thinking. This is what his face depicted. He was so full of life.... He was the one who danced to Ankhiyon se goli maare that she mentioned and was the life of that party. Look at him now, barely a year later. 😭

The man looks like he may commit suicide and all she cares is the divorce shouldn’t happen. 24/7 she was after him to let everything out and now she can’t handle that. Just make Anuj realise that he was in love with the idea what could’ve been rather than what is and end his role there. Uske baad jitna whitewash karna hai karo because she herself acknowledged that she can never move on from Shahs

Originally posted by: inlieu

Even when she was saying to him, take a break if you need to but don't leave me. OMG she just missed the whole point. He's not taking a break for fun, he's struggling to deal with everything at the moment. She can lie on the footpath with her daughter to support her in her mental stress but for Anuj? Naah, that's too much to ask.

That is because she was so confident that her puppy will never stop wagging his tail on her whistles. Even today her dialogues looked like how dare he say that he doesn’t love her. He has to love her, after all he loved her for 26 years. His only job is to fulfil his promises to her

Originally posted by: strancho

The man looks like he may commit suicide and all she cares is the divorce shouldn’t happen. 24/7 she was after him to let everything out and now she can’t handle that. Just make Anuj realise that he was in love with the idea what could’ve been rather than what is and end his role there. Uske baad jitna whitewash karna hai karo because she herself acknowledged that she can never move on from Shahs

@bold, it's looking more and more like that now but I don't know if they'll be brave enough to show that. I'd rather see him understand this and take the right decision. He may have had undying love in mind when he met her again and married her but that wasn't meant to be. In fact, let's say he did indeed love her all those years, what she did is enough to kill that love and faith.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, it's looking more and more like that now but I don't know if they'll be brave enough to show that. I'd rather see him understand this and take the right decision. He may have had undying love in mind when he met her again and married her but that wasn't meant to be. In fact, let's say he did indeed love her all those years, what she did is enough to kill that love and faith.

I can’t acknowledge that as love. Infatuation yes. It was never love. Even Anupama doesn’t love him in my opinion. It’s not that easy to love someone after an age. I for one believe that you don’t need a reason to love someone but in Anuj’s case he was just blind to the reality and lived in own lala land