TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #16 Meri Sari Umeed Bas ek Insaan Se Hai - Page 40

Ummm do you guys think meerab will tell rohail about that damn contract? Or them (meerasim) not consummating yet???

I mean she is really impulsive in nature. Its not really something that impossible coming from her ....

Its really scaring me now...if she's the one telling rohail this thing...Murtu's anger on her would totally justify! Any sane person would get angry their bedroom ...not even a simple secret a huge one like this getting out. That too with people like rohail...upar se na maard wala issue

You know how male ego works regarding this Na mard thing! 🥲

On another note agar itni afford/soch study ko leke deti to abtak Oxford se letter bhej diye hotey

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Ummm do you guys think meerab will tell rohail about that damn contract? Or them (meerasim) not consummating yet???

I mean she is really impulsive in nature. Its not really something that impossible coming from her ....

Its really scaring me now...if she's the one telling rohail this thing...Murtu's anger on her would totally justify! Any sane person would get angry their bedroom ...not even a simple secret a huge one like this getting out. That too with people like rohail...upar se na maard wala issue

You know how male ego works regarding this Na mard thing! 🥲

On another note agar itni afford/soch study ko leke deti to abtak Oxford se letter bhej diye hotey

Originally posted by: Moonks

There is no doubt that Murtasim is encouraging Haya, but it is not intentional. If you see before wedding he was that strict man who always follows what’s right according to him and what Haya was doing was wrong so he reprimanded her.

And the change in his character is visible, now instead of going with his brain, he is thinking with his heart and it is not only him but any human being on this planet will not be harsh to someone that claims to love him if he knows what love is and what feelings are. But the thing he is not able to differentiate that by doing this he is not breaking her heart but saving her from herself. If he really loves Meerub there is no chance that in future he would ever be with Haya and false hope hurts more than a heartbreak. He needs to set boundaries and I agree with this but now it’s not easy for him to hurt anyone, it’s not only Haya whom he forgave, but Malik and Zubair as well and even those goons too who tried to kidnap Meerub and the Murtasim before he fell in love would have not done that.

And the main reason behind his behaviour is that now he knows he it feels to be in one sided love and he empathises with Haya and Empathy is a more dangerous emotion than love.

Exactly he respects her feelings as he is also suffering from one side love but what i think is he is still unaware of that how madly she is ... At what extent she goes... Us ki haya p yaqeen karnay ki sirf yeh waja nahi the k haya n a k bol dia use r meeub nahi dikhi use ... Us n yaqeen islye kia becz wo sb batain meerub use roz bolti the k she didn't want to live with him she didn't consider him her husband ... So jb use kisi n kaha k chali jao to wo chali gai here he wants her to take a stand for their relationship ta k use bhi pata lagae k meerub bhi kuch effort kar rahi hai relationship k liye .. but when haya said to him n he compared her word with meerub actions and talks so he belived her ....

I think the reason why most of the people are not able to connect with Meerab's character is because her character is not written well. We see Murtasim's emotions clearly but we don't get to see Meerab's emotions clearly. The script is written to show how Murtasim tries to support Meerab and makes her fall in love with him by putting efforts. It is not concentrating on what Meerab is thinking and what she wants. I read a comment that we need to see Meerab's monologue. I agree with the comment. I hope she will have a monologue after Rohail's entry.

People are able to overlook the slap, if not forget about it because of the way Murtasim's character is written(Yes, here I am reminding about the slap). But people are not able to connect with Meerab's character even after getting slapped and abandoned because of the way the character is written.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Is meerab leading murtasim on. So is she being a hypocrite in reprimanding murtasim in regards to haya (this has to be the most outrageous point they have ever made, ladies and gentlemen this is gaslighting 101)?

What is Alpha beta definitions of murtasim character, is he an alpha when he slapped her, is he an beta when he is being romantic or when sick. I don’t know these rules, who decides them?

Did they just say meerab should have have thrown a glass of water on his face to justify him getting a cold?
Is meerab a thanda human being an ice princess. Is meerab withholding sex to tease him, is she weaponizing sex to control him, should women sleep with their husbands because they are soooooooo hot sexy even if they are not emotionally ready, is a man desires more important. Is sex in a marriage just a checklist? Should sex come first before love?

I am confused on meerab mohabbat dialogues on the dinner scene. I thought she was referring to herself not feeling seeing love for anyone else, meerab doesn’t mean that she doesn’t feel murtasim love for her. Please explain amna and Hassan are saying meerab is talking about not seeing murtasim feelings for her?

Did amna say she believes in kala jadoo. Guys help is she being serious or sarcastic?
Omggggggggg bedroom is in the ground floor. I plead forgiveness to everyone who I said wrong I must have been brain dead, what is going on with the steps? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE huge mistake this is not done TB team.

I enjoyed Hassan review. Amna appreciation for yumna acting is big thumbs up. Amna is right about saree can’t disagree with her.

Amna is right about how they deal with the rohail track can make or break murtasim character.

Full on gaslighting of meerab character. They don’t acknowledge any of her pain or trauma, they have turned her into a cardboard cut out. They even take way her right as wife to question Murtasim over haya, they called her a hypocrite, if she can lead murtasim on then he can lead haya on. Please please please How can they justify this?

They have striped away all the nuances of what it means to have sex in a marriage, especially what the act of making love means to a woman versus a man and reduced it to just pure carnal pleasures. I thought we we are watching a romantic drama, not game of throne. Sex and rape in game of thrones is a power move, but in a romantic drama sex it is an expression of love no not lets just do it act. Please someone tell them this is not sex and the city, meerab is not Carrie Bradshaw.

The lack of wisdom on this subject especially by those 40 plus in age who themselves are married is mind boggling, even teenagers will get it. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.

When Woman withhold consent she is playing hard to get and she is judged for it, but if a Man doesn't want to sleep with his wife because he hates her or he is angry with her or for any other reason, then we we wait for him to change and call it romance. So for Men it is romance, but for women she is just pulling Nakhras. Men are given all the agency and power when it comes to the bedroom, Women are expect to follow along.

Amna makes lots of good points. But her views on women, my respect for her took a nose dive. And she is educated, upper class, liberal, open minded representation of the Pakistan population. Some of the things she says it is not even common sense. So if she thinks like this it is not shocking Pakistan has so many problems.

Meerab leading on Murtasim (which so far, she has only done once in the fish flirting scene, other times, she just reacts to Murtasim's flirtations) is so so different from Haya's moves towards Murtasim. How dumb you have to to be not differentiate between a husband-wife flirting with eo from an obsessive third wheel leading on a married man by spouting shit like 'mujhe tumhare liye biwiyon wale kaam karna pasand hai' (btw, Murtasim needed to shut up Haya, then and there )

I just cannot get around the fact that they believe Meerab is 'OBLIGED' to be attracted to Murtasim just because he is hot and handsome. Can't a wife desire more than just looks in a marriage? Security? Hello! Love? Hello! Compatibility? Hello! Trust? Hello!

Oh they totally gaslighted Meerab into being a cold-blooded human for leaving her husband high and dry when he is so hot and irresistible to them. So, she is only there to fulfill the bedroom needs of Murtasim? Tch tch.

They have defied all the progress these two are making by making it all about their consummation. Will that be the end of their journey? Deed done once, is it? What about love? What about managing to stick together when life throws multiple odds at them? Theirs is a journey which is surely not ending at consummation. These two have more than that going. They have trust issues, incompatibility, different approach towards life, different expectations towards a life partner, angst, passion, jealousy, a lot going on their plate. But yeah, sure, make it all about when they do the deed

Meerab's dialogues in the date scene were about herself. She does not feel any strong 'love' for him yet. And frankly, it's true. She has just begun to take steps towards him. He is surely ahead in that sense, but I still believe he isn't irrevocably, madly in love. Their love will be calm and peaceful and give them inner peace when it happens. Right now, it's so chaotic and running in notes of highs and lows. There is no tranquil as of yet.

Aamna seems to have really only read trashy novels and not some good actual 'slow burns'. I remember, reading a few of Mariana Zapata's books a few years ago (i don't read her works now) but she writes the most slow 'slow-burns' ever. Her leads share their first kiss after 80% of the book is finished. You still root for the male and female characters. That's the magic of it all.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Consummation didn't happen. Consummation and seperation are two high points of the show. So they will show it clearly atleast through dialogues.

You will see Murtasim in his white Batman outfit flexing that shawl with his mighty biceps like a triumphant hero. Trust me guys we will know when it happened. We won't see it but we will know. The fly might see it, but the fly ain't talking.

While rewatching the initial(1st 9) episodes, I noticed that in all those instances where Murtasim had been rude to Haya, Meerab was under the same roof which is in line with that Haya’s dialogue to Meerab(“jab bhi tum aati ho,woh ghussa…) barring the first meet-the one near the stairs where he reprimands her. Remember the time where goes to confront Meerab on why she said YES to the proposal,he patiently talks to Haya at the stair case..so coming to think of it he’s always been pretty patient with her!

Originally posted by: mahiaana

If the upcoming misunderstanding between them happens bcz of haya's kartut . I will not blame meerab a bit. It will all on murtu for his ignorance towards his wife's clear discomfort regarding haya issues.

I am ready with my chappals if Murtasim purposefully takes Haya on a drive with him. A wife is bound to be pissed at this. If he really doesn't stop soon, I will remain team Meerab throughout.

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Ummm do you guys think meerab will tell rohail about that damn contract? Or them (meerasim) not consummating yet???

I mean she is really impulsive in nature. Its not really something that impossible coming from her ....

Its really scaring me now...if she's the one telling rohail this thing...Murtu's anger on her would totally justify! Any sane person would get angry their bedroom ...not even a simple secret a huge one like this getting out. That too with people like rohail...upar se na maard wala issue

You know how male ego works regarding this Na mard thing! 🥲

On another note agar itni afford/soch study ko leke deti to abtak Oxford se letter bhej diye hotey

Meerab herself revealing her bedroom secrets to rohail will be the nail in the coffin. No matter how impulsive someone is it's utterly dumb thing to do and there will be no justification for it. Forget murtu even an open minded liberal husband won't forgive that. It's not about being open minded but about the trust between a husband and wife. It's very rare when females talk about their sexual relationship with their husbands to their male friends even in a liberal society. Women talk about it with other women but not to their male friends. Here rohail isn't even shown to be that close of a friend for her to tell anything related to her marriage forget bedroom secrets. If rohail was a friend with whom she can talk about these type of things then he could have been the first person she went to when her parentage secret was out. The girl didn't even keep any kind of contact with not just him but her female friends as well. That itself shows how shallow her friendships are.

Even American or other western shows rarely show female characters discussing their sexual relationship with her husband to their male friends.

Originally posted by: Moonks

Hey, welcome to the forum🤗

it’s yumna who deserves special mention cause it was her who persuaded wahaj to do this💖

And the only way you would be able to catch up with the speed is you take part in the discussions😂

Thank you so much 🤗

Oh then it's Yumna who should be thanked!

I'll try my best to take part in the discussions! Thank you again 😃