TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #16 Meri Sari Umeed Bas ek Insaan Se Hai - Page 34

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

So true. It’s been a pleasant surprise to have a different “latest” focus each week. I wonder if they wrote it purposely to have “pairs” of episodes!

Seems a valid reason, because the script definitely seems to have been written such that each track has a 'pair' of episode dedicated to it. Maybe that's why it's hardly slow and mostly entertaining

okay serious point..i know for fandom Murtasim can do no wrong..

but it is problematic how he is gaslighting Meerab about Haya..it was barely a few days when Haya said lies and had her removed from the house..and was trying to turn Murtasim against her.. Meerab has legit concerns..

now he should be reassuring his wife about Haya, it does seem like he is leading her on..

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

So true. It’s been a pleasant surprise to have a different “latest” focus each week. I wonder if they wrote it purposely to have “pairs” of episodes!

Good point!! The kidnapping situation was a pair, then the next pair was the izzat ke badle izzat, then the next pair was Murtasim's accident and Meerab being sent out. It does seem that each week addresses a certain part of the storyline.

Originally posted by: FanofAreebsMum

okay serious point..i know for fandom Murtasim can do no wrong..

but it is problematic how he is gaslighting Meerab about Haya..it was barely a few days when Haya said lies and had her removed from the house..and was trying to turn Murtasim against her.. Meerab has legit concerns..

now he should be reassuring his wife about Haya, it does seem like he is leading her on..

Well he cleared her hell lot of times & & Clearly meerab doesn't consider him as a husband but yea he did gave a lot of justifications about haya.

It might seem that he is leading on but he is clearly sympathising with her.

Murtasim is not a perfect guy but here I find that he has cleared this time and again

Questions from SH review?

If meerab had fed murtasim kheer with her hands would it be vulgar?
Did Hassan just suggest that murtasim use his wife hands to wipe the kheer off his nose? please stop with your ideas that is not gentlemanly behaviour, and these duffods are giving us lectures on what is vulgar and what is not. There is a difference between a wife feeding her husband with her hands which is affection, versus he using her hands as tissue paper.

I have a feeling this review is going to get on my nerves but I soldier on

Meerab is not threatened by haya, she is just teasing murtasim to irritate him?
Is saree considered an erotic garment?

Is meerab leading murtasim on. So is she being a hypocrite in reprimanding murtasim in regards to haya (this has to be the most outrageous point they have ever made, ladies and gentlemen this is gaslighting 101)?

What is Alpha beta definitions of murtasim character, is he an alpha when he slapped her, is he an beta when he is being romantic or when sick. I don’t know these rules, who decides them?

Did they just say meerab should have have thrown a glass of water on his face to justify him getting a cold?
Is meerab a thanda human being an ice princess. Is meerab withholding sex to tease him, is she weaponizing sex to control him, should women sleep with their husbands because they are soooooooo hot sexy even if they are not emotionally ready, is a man desires more important. Is sex in a marriage just a checklist? Should sex come first before love?

I am confused on meerab mohabbat dialogues on the dinner scene. I thought she was referring to herself not feeling seeing love for anyone else, meerab doesn’t mean that she doesn’t feel murtasim love for her. Please explain amna and Hassan are saying meerab is talking about not seeing murtasim feelings for her?

Did amna say she believes in kala jadoo. Guys help is she being serious or sarcastic?
Omggggggggg bedroom is in the ground floor. I plead forgiveness to everyone who I said wrong I must have been brain dead, what is going on with the steps? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE huge mistake this is not done TB team.

I enjoyed Hassan review. Amna appreciation for yumna acting is big thumbs up. Amna is right about saree can’t disagree with her.

Amna is right about how they deal with the rohail track can make or break murtasim character.

Full on gaslighting of meerab character. They don’t acknowledge any of her pain or trauma, they have turned her into a cardboard cut out. They even take way her right as wife to question Murtasim over haya, they called her a hypocrite, if she can lead murtasim on then he can lead haya on. Please please please How can they justify this?

They have striped away all the nuances of what it means to have sex in a marriage, especially what the act of making love means to a woman versus a man and reduced it to just pure carnal pleasures. I thought we we are watching a romantic drama, not game of throne. Sex and rape in game of thrones is a power move, but in a romantic drama sex it is an expression of love no not lets just do it act. Please someone tell them this is not sex and the city, meerab is not Carrie Bradshaw.

The lack of wisdom on this subject especially by those 40 plus in age who themselves are married is mind boggling, even teenagers will get it. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.

When Woman withhold consent she is playing hard to get and she is judged for it, but if a Man doesn't want to sleep with his wife because he hates her or he is angry with her or for any other reason, then we wait for him to change and call it romance. So for Men it is romance, but for women she is just pulling Nakhras. Men are given all the agency and power when it comes to the bedroom, Women are expect to follow along.

Amna makes lots of good points. But her views on women, my respect for her took a nose dive. And she is educated, upper class, liberal, open minded representation of the Pakistan population. Some of the things she says it is not even common sense. So if she thinks like this it is not shocking Pakistan has so many problems.

Agree that he’s tried to clear it verbally, but he needs to shut it down completely. To the point where she doesn’t dare to ever feed him in front of his wife, or even behind his wife for that matter. ( Ewww… who does that to a married man? Gross.) Also, he needs to ban Haya from their bedroom. I didn’t like that line he said in epi 21: why do I need Haya if meri biwi mohjud hai? As if, when his Biwi is otherwise preoccupied he’ll get Haya to tend to his needs? That’s why he keeps her around? 🙄

I’ve seen too many men gaslight girls/ women in these situations, acting all innocent and saying other girls are just friends ( in this case cousin). When clearly the other girls have different intentions. It’s not ok for these Murtu types to just conveniently ignore that!

He is totallllly gaslighting her here. I mean the girl just barges in to their room and tries to feed him any chance she gets. She literally prostates herself before him.

Gaslighting is my biggest pet peeve, because even the most “modern” and “equality” loving men often gaslight women when they express frustration and anger about something. I’ve experienced it many times. Meerub girl, give it back to him and shut his diplomatic ass up.

Originally posted by: palakluvsabhiya

Well he cleared her hell lot of times & & Clearly meerab doesn't consider him as a husband but yea he did gave a lot of justifications about haya.

It might seem that he is leading on but he is clearly sympathising with her.

Murtasim is not a perfect guy but here I find that he has cleared this time and again

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

I wouldn’t be surprised if Behaya slithered her way into the seat just as he was leaving.

But if he did, he needs a smack upside the head to fix whatever got dislodged from the accident. ( In addition to the spoon lol)

As much as I’m annoyed by Rohail, banda to haii bari tall and handsome. When I saw him and then Wahaj in that scene, I was thinking, nice, enjoy the good looking psycho’s competition. At least he doesn’t wear short pants 🤣😂

I knew it haya is slytherine. With the kala jadoo backwaas we are watching haya the half blood booth, rohail goblet of handsome with no brains, Malik jr deathly not effective villain glare, meerab prisoner of murtasim maharaj, murtasim philosophers guide to chase wife.

meerab forget sex, spoon is mightier than the contract

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Agree that he’s tried to clear it verbally, but he needs to shut it down completely. To the point where she doesn’t dare to ever feed him in front of his wife, or even behind his wife for that matter. ( Ewww… who does that to a married man? Gross.) Also, he needs to ban Haya from their bedroom. I didn’t like that line he said in epi 21: why do I need Haya if meri biwi mohjud hai? As if, when his Biwi is otherwise preoccupied he’ll get Haya to tend to his needs? That’s why he keeps her around? 🙄

I’ve seen too many men gaslight girls/ women in these situations, acting all innocent and saying other girls are just friends ( in this case cousin). When clearly the other girls have different intentions. It’s not ok for these Murtu types to just conveniently ignore that!

He is totallllly gaslighting her here. I mean the girl just barges in to their room and tries to feed him any chance she gets. She literally prostates herself before him.

Gaslighting is my biggest pet peeve, because even the most “modern” and “equality” loving men often gaslight women when they express frustration and anger about something. I’ve experienced it many times. Meerub girl, give it back to him and shut his diplomatic ass up.

For that matter yes he has to clearly refuse haya to do his things because that would encourage haya more and having meerab or no meerab doesn't justify haya to do murtasim's things because she is not the one who has to look after murtasim anymore . Murtasim is a grown up mature man he can do things on his own or he has meerab to look after him.

I'll agree with you on this because nomatter whatever the situation is between meerasim , murtasim is a married man officially and he has to look up the things which can cause misunderstanding in his married life!

Originally posted by: palakluvsabhiya

Well he cleared her hell lot of times & & Clearly meerab doesn't consider him as a husband but yea he did gave a lot of justifications about haya.

It might seem that he is leading on but he is clearly sympathising with her.

Murtasim is not a perfect guy but here I find that he has cleared this time and again

But man if this girl haya is delusional. I feel even if murtasim will slap her right and left, she is still not going to leave him.😕( i don't support violence)

Originally posted by: palakluvsabhiya

For that matter yes he has to clearly refuse haya to do his things because that would encourage haya more and having meerab or no meerab doesn't justify haya to do murtasim's things because she is not the one who has to look after murtasim anymore . Murtasim is a grown up mature man he can do things on his own or he has meerab to look after him.

I'll agree with you on this because nomatter whatever the situation is between meerasim , murtasim is a married man officially and he has to look up the things which can cause misunderstanding in his married life!

Same goes for meerab as well💯