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Originally posted by: Grey-licious

Those who're saying in real world akshra would have chosen abhinav ....please don't

First of all this show is far away from reality since the start (s3)

And no in a real world too she wouldn't have chosen abhinav the driver as her partner or child's fatherji because money matters that's the FACT

And I think till now am sticking with Abhira and unable to connect with abhinav because he's a poor driver

In real world she would have asked for her share from goenka if she doesn't want to live with them , and have paid a hefty amount to abhinav for helping her that's it .

Because In this world one can only compensate other only through money there's no other way .

So please stop comparing the show with real world

P.s Waise toh real world mai shyad akshara k ghar se jaane ki situation hi nhi aati

Tell me one thing .

Abhinav is a driver and not equal in status to goenkas . So why can't akshu earn a good living and support all of them, if not them, herself and abhir ? Whats the use of this expensive education ? If somebody is capable enuf they will turn thousands in millions ..and somebody like parth will turn millions into dust . Why should the husband alone fend for the family? In say , next 2 yrs if they manage to have a decent enuf luxury life, is it OK then if akshu says yes ?

You're mistaken if u think rich women don't marry poor men in real world. It's very common.

In reality a girl will naturally land up in her maayka after separation but in reality she may never forgive her mommas boy and keep giving chances to him again and again ...once divorced no girl would marry the same guy again .

So in fantasy world like theirs , let them show a better character like nav for a change , coz all they're trying to do is shove all forms of abuse down our throats and call it love..

When I say soul love, I am talking about the premise, not the execution. Abhira is the premise, so I don't see this story going any other way. It is very hard to root for them right now, but I am willing to see their journey to a healthy place together. As to the few issues brought up :

1. I have always, and will always, find Abhira to be amongst the cutest itv couples. I agree, the age difference is jarring. But this is obviously a personal preference. I mean, I am not just talking about the physical appearance, I also like the little heart hands and everything.

2. Obviously the execution is crap. But I don't expect that much from an itv show.

3. They are toxic, but more than that, they are simply stupid. Both of them make such hilarious decisions that no one would ever make in real life. The amount of tragedies befalling them would also not happen in real life. Overall, its hard to talk about their decisions, when the circumstances themselves are laughable. I am just along for the ride.

4. Nav vs abhi was never a question for me. If this is a question in reality, then none of this would be happening in reality. If its a question in the fictional world, then we already know that in this fictional world, ABhira love each other and will never stop loving each other. So ak can't love Nav, and would have to have a loveless marriage for the rest of her life, which I am not on board with.

5. I am thinking maybe this leap is to heal Abhira with each other and then Abhi keeps his promise and Ak tries to move on with Nav. That I think would be more acceptable.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

When I say soul love, I am talking about the premise, not the execution. Abhira is the premise, so I don't see this story going any other way. It is very hard to root for them right now, but I am willing to see their journey to a healthy place together. As to the few issues brought up :

1. I have always, and will always, find Abhira to be amongst the cutest itv couples. I agree, the age difference is jarring. But this is obviously a personal preference. I mean, I am not just talking about the physical appearance, I also like the little heart hands and everything.

2. Obviously the execution is crap. But I don't expect that much from an itv show.

3. They are toxic, but more than that, they are simply stupid. Both of them make such hilarious decisions that no one would ever make in real life. The amount of tragedies befalling them would also not happen in real life. Overall, its hard to talk about their decisions, when the circumstances themselves are laughable. I am just along for the ride.

4. Nav vs abhi was never a question for me. If this is a question in reality, then none of this would be happening in reality. If its a question in the fictional world, then we already know that in this fictional world, ABhira love each other and will never stop loving each other. So ak can't love Nav, and would have to have a loveless marriage for the rest of her life, which I am not on board with.

5. I am thinking maybe this leap is to heal Abhira with each other and then Abhi keeps his promise and Ak tries to move on with Nav. That I think would be more acceptable.

What makes you think that Akshara doesn't love Abhinav? They actually have invested in showing all the conversations she has with him, and all the things— all her bitter memories— that she keeps away from them. Even in Jaipur, it is Navra who are a team even if she has this mental block about Abhimanyu. There is absolutely no reason why they should have been 'soulmates' to begin with let alone still loving the man who guilt-tripped her about her mother's death and miscarriage.

Abhira are not just toxic. Abhimanyu has been downright criminal by how he stalked and gaslighted her from the very beginning. This I-can-only-love-one-man mentality keeps actual women trapped in abusive marriages and shouldn't be justified on national tv.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Tell me one thing .

Abhinav is a driver and not equal in status to goenkas . So why can't akshu earn a good living and support all of them, if not them, herself and abhir ? Whats the use of this expensive education ? If somebody is capable enuf they will turn thousands in millions ..and somebody like parth will turn millions into dust . Why should the husband alone fend for the family? In say , next 2 yrs if they manage to have a decent enuf luxury life, is it OK then if akshu says yes ?

You're mistaken if u think rich women don't marry poor men in real world. It's very common.

In reality a girl will naturally land up in her maayka after separation but in reality she may never forgive her mommas boy and keep giving chances to him again and again ...once divorced no girl would marry the same guy again .

So in fantasy world like theirs , let them show a better character like nav for a change , coz all they're trying to do is shove all forms of abuse down our throats and call it love..

Originally posted by: lagjagale

When I say soul love, I am talking about the premise, not the execution. Abhira is the premise, so I don't see this story going any other way. It is very hard to root for them right now, but I am willing to see their journey to a healthy place together. As to the few issues brought up :

1. I have always, and will always, find Abhira to be amongst the cutest itv couples. I agree, the age difference is jarring. But this is obviously a personal preference. I mean, I am not just talking about the physical appearance, I also like the little heart hands and everything.

2. Obviously the execution is crap. But I don't expect that much from an itv show.

3. They are toxic, but more than that, they are simply stupid. Both of them make such hilarious decisions that no one would ever make in real life. The amount of tragedies befalling them would also not happen in real life. Overall, its hard to talk about their decisions, when the circumstances themselves are laughable. I am just along for the ride.

4. Nav vs abhi was never a question for me. If this is a question in reality, then none of this would be happening in reality. If its a question in the fictional world, then we already know that in this fictional world, ABhira love each other and will never stop loving each other. So ak can't love Nav, and would have to have a loveless marriage for the rest of her life, which I am not on board with.

5. I am thinking maybe this leap is to heal Abhira with each other and then Abhi keeps his promise and Ak tries to move on with Nav. That I think would be more acceptable.

She hasn't even expressed her true self to Abhinav. Abhinav has no idea what happy akshara looks like. They have an understanding yes, and right now, the story is that he is better for her than Abhi, but she still loves Abhi. I am not making any assumptions here; that is the story from the beginning. Whether or not it should be the story is a different topic.

I agree, i really hope they don't turn Abhinav or Arohi bad, though. I want abhira to get back together by realizing their own mistakes and growing from them.

Started watching this show for HC not knowing about yrkkh’s legacy.. initially their love story appeared interesting to me so started liking Abhira. But later I started disliking the characters for their flaws.. Abhimanyu for his anger issues, Akshara for his stupidity and Mahaantha, Aarohi for her selfishness. But still rooted for Abhira to get married.

Once the marriage happened I felt the understanding and communication was lacking between them.. and during that Mauritius track Abhira is gone for me. It’s not about the separation, but I didn’t like the miscommunication and blame game they played on each other. And people who claim to be deeply and madly in love don’t behave like AbhiM by throwing a just miscarried wife outside the house, and Ak will not hide the pregnancy from him and give father rights to a stranger.. And don’t ask me how I feel now. My simple answer is “disgusting”🤮. They still have feelings for each other but giving hopes to their respective partners with children involved.

First of all, I don’t believe in soul connection love.. but yes, I do believe in 2nd chance love. In reality, if we take Abhira’s characters, they shouldn’t come back to each other. We can have concern on the ex-partners, but the mind should be more inclined towards the present world.. even if memories and thoughts take us back for few moments it doesn’t mean that we still love that person and when chance comes leave our present and go back to the past. And here AbhiM he choose to live in past and wait for Ak, let him die there, but no, he won’t.. he’ll chase and torture her and behave insane to bring her back to him. He is back to his mission now.

This is the most annoying and stupidest show I’ve ever watched.

The bottom line is..its the journey which should be beautiful and not the end game ..

If the journey is painful and traumatic , causing anxiety to the characters and their fans , it's a failure already.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

She hasn't even expressed her true self to Abhinav. Abhinav has no idea what happy akshara looks like. They have an understanding yes, and right now, the story is that he is better for her than Abhi, but she still loves Abhi. I am not making any assumptions here; that is the story from the beginning. Whether or not it should be the story is a different topic.

Well in that case even Abhimanyu doesn't know what happy Akshara looks like, sadly.