Anti Abhira Fandom - Page 7

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I can see a few common themes here :

1. Ak-Abhi love : I know many people have issues with what Ak-Abhi had between them, even being called love. I would suggest going back to watch some previous episodes, especially the few good times before leap1. To say that abhira only had a physical attraction and nothing else is really heartbreaking. They were amazing together and made each other soo happy that it reached the audience. Perhaps their love was childish; I would agree with that. The relationship between Ak-Nav is more mature. But Ak is literally saying that she wants to trust her mind instead of her heart, so her heart still belongs to Abhi.

Also, another aspect of this is expectations. Abhira expected a lot from each other. They chose each other as their life partners. They fought with everyone to make that happen. Its a lot different from Ak-Nav, where circumstances brought them together. Ak never had any expectations from Nav, and he didn't have any from her. That kind of love is different. I am not saying one is better than the other. Maybe the story will be about how love blossoming slowly from friendship is better than the passionate hurricane of Abhira. But, my point is, you can't judge the two relationships equally since they come with different presets.

2. Money. I find this extremely irritating cause its really of no concern. Everyone has money. Of course, Ak shouldn't go back to Abhi just cause he is wealthy, and she won't. They only made Nav middle class to show that money doesn't bring happiness. It was also done to reinforce Ak's struggle during her pregnancy. Beyond that, I don't see a point. The problem with Ak-Nav isn't money; it's their fake relationship.

3. Even if Ak doesn't love Nav right now, can she love him eventually? This I am unsure about. It is possible with how much Ak loves everyone in general and how much love she has to give. But she will never be able to move on from Abhi, so she will always be at that halfway point.

Watch doctor Ramani to understand how toxic relationships work. It's not that they are always unhappy and there are no good times. There definitely are, but they are overshadowed by all the ill-treatment. And those apparent happy moments are nothing but investment for a toxic person. It's called love bombing.

Originally posted by: bips

I understand but THAT is exactly what the show is currently showing.

Abhi might have done xyz in the past for akshara ......but for how long can we justify the current mental and verbal abuse akshara goes through in the presence of abhimanyu by saying he did so much for her before?...

If they wanted to show abhira as a love story they could have shown abhi standing up to his mother NOW.. They could have shown him feeling guilty of what all he said and did. But besides the seerat point, he doesn't think he is wrong...

One can argue that 6 years back he was emotional but if he is still letting her be berated and guilted every time they meet, then it's not much of a love story and he is not much of a hero.

And forget about akshara love for abhimanyu. Lets talk about abhimanyus love. You don't love just someone's face, you love their character. Everyday his mother calls her a murderer, and he has absolutely no problem with that. So he loves his brother's killer? Why? He thinks she left him (snort) then why does he love someone who abandoned him?

This isn't love. Maybe what they had was love. But not what is currently been shown.. Abhinav comes across as the peace and happiness after the massive headache that is the birlas

We are only commenting on what is being shown. If abhira is endgame then they need to SHOW this love NOW and not piggyback on nostalgia.

Wow..💯💯💯 for this

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

I think majority of audience isn't anti-Abhira, they simply wish d show to give stronger social msg with d moving on of leads. ITV is a huge platform n has a great impact. And I feel such a potent medium shouldn't draw its value just from a love story of star jodi or their journey towards happy ending. Yep many want the lead pair to end up together. Nothing wrong. We've plethora of shows already on that. So for once if they could explore a different story which doesn't involve elaborate love antics but is simple, grounded, n closer to reality, which involves ppl moving on from incompatible marriages, finally healing n finding happiness again, it would be fresher to see. Yrkkh is a legacy show with large audience, so unlike a new show, they can take d chance to explore such a possibility.

Well said !! 100% agree.

Not only adults are behaving like monsters, but they are after innocent kids too.

Abhir that traitorous little brat is going to run after abhimanyu abandon his parents in the middle of the night. Why because blood calls blood SERIOUSLY the nonsense that is being peddled. All of a sudden a child whose whole world is his parents feels an irresistible love for an stranger because he is his bio daddy that he never knew. Wow just wow Hindi serial logic of being parents, so all those surrogate babies who might not be fully biologically their parents better watch out, if your egg or sperm don’t match your child they will just abandon you.
Here we are praising abhinav and akahara parenting skills, any child of his age should know not to leave home without parents consent.

See how they will use as a cute moment instead of serious misdemeanour that requires major punishment.

Wow so when is abhinav leaving the show. The so called wife is emotionally cheating on him, the adopted son will chose his six packs cool father and forget he even existed. His character has no stake in the story. Avhinav is essentially treated like a guard god protecting the pups waiting for the masters return. Akshara also will not stand up for herself as she wants to return to her masters.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Not only adults are behaving like monsters, but they are after innocent kids too.

Abhir that traitorous little brat is going to run after abhimanyu abandon his parents in the middle of the night. Why because blood calls blood SERIOUSLY the nonsense that is being peddled. All of a sudden a child whose whole world is his parents feels an irresistible love for an stranger because he is his bio daddy that he never knew. Wow just wow Hindi serial logic of being parents, so all those surrogate babies who might not be fully biologically their parents better watch out, if your egg or sperm don’t match your child they will just abandon you.
Here we are praising abhinav and akahara parenting skills, any child of his age should know not to leave home without parents consent.

See how they will use as a cute moment instead of serious misdemeanour that requires major punishment.

Wow so when is abhinav leaving the show. The so called wife is emotionally cheating on him, the adopted son will chose his six packs cool father and forget he even existed. His character has no stake in the story. Avhinav is essentially treated like a guard god protecting the pups waiting for the masters return. Akshara also will not stand up for herself as she wants to return to her masters.

Completely agree.

Also I was wondering why didn't they show Abhinav holding Akshara when Manjari was blaming her. They can show them atleast friends who care for each other. If you are not having husband & wife relationship or faking it , atleast you stayed together for 6 years , talked about daily household works & expenses..there is nothing wrong to show if one hold the person crying.

It looks weird Manjari is accusing while Akshara is crying & no one from her mayka holding her giving their support if not verbally atleast emotionally.

Totally crappy writing

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I only joined this forum recently, but I have already encountered a lot of anti abhira fans. I am wondering, when did you guys become anti-abhira ( pre-confession, post leap, etc )? If so, how does this show still have value for you? Are you hoping it will have any other ending but Abhira getting back together? What would be the point?

Itv has a pretty established formula, it would be refreshing to see a different take, but most of the audience will not be on board with that.

That's the whole point, they are the endgame we know it and so does the writers. Chahe they have to kill them off to be together they will.

Then why butcher Abhimanyu's character.

The more I think about the day he gave Akshu divorce the more i think he needs serious redemption

He let her go, he is a doctor did he even bother to get her checked properly, she had miscarriage she was supposed to have some cleaning. She was with Neil what if a goon had touched her wrong, kicked her

When he knew she just randomly boarded a bus, didn't come back yet he was rude to her on call.

This is not you behave with someone you love and here 6 years later manyu is like he will die without her.

What about the day you left her to die.

No matter what he doesn't deserve her or any other girl for that matter unless he goes through redemption.

Originally posted by: Veenapai

Completely agree.

Also I was wondering why didn't they show Abhinav holding Akshara when Manjari was blaming her. They can show them atleast friends who care for each other. If you are not having husband & wife relationship or faking it , atleast you stayed together for 6 years , talked about daily household works & expenses..there is nothing wrong to show if one hold the person crying.

It looks weird Manjari is accusing while Akshara is crying & no one from her mayka holding her giving their support if not verbally atleast emotionally.

Totally crappy writing

Exactly not love but Abhinav and Akshu should have no awkwardness and be the best of friends coz you have been together for 6 long years both through thick and thin.

You two together created a home out of nothing.

They should have that friendly vibe, understanding

Originally posted by: entertainment10

Exactly not love but Abhinav and Akshu should have no awkwardness and be the best of friends coz you have been together for 6 long years both through thick and thin.

You two together created a home out of nothing.

They should have that friendly vibe, understanding

the reason they keep the awkwardness is to constantly exhibit that a woman is a man's property. got forbid she has male friendships, it is a taint to her virtue, then how can she ever return to her beloved abhimanyu to get get abused again. btw this rule is only for women only, men can get away with anything.