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Posted: 2 years ago
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Very often i have seen people defending anupamas actions saying that she was conditioned like that from her childhood and she cannot detach because of 26 years living with the Shahs.

I know that we cannot blame her entirely. She was a victim of circumstances. And it's not a 1 day process. But seems like she doesn't even want to take 1 single step towards change.

What can be the possible cure for her ?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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For her, fear of losing anuj can be the only motivation. She requires therapy to work on her self esteem and oanic issues.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

What can be the possible cure for her ?

Memory loss track. She forgets everything about the affair, divorce, ATM etc and goes back to her favourite life as unpaid maid. At least she'll be content. Delusional but happy

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Posted: 2 years ago
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There is no cure ...We only need to stop watching this regressive crapfest and preserve our mental sanity 🤣

Aur makers toh nahi sudhrenge ...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ga1986

There is no cure ...We only need to stop watching this regressive crapfest and preserve our mental sanity 🤣

Aur makers toh nahi sudhrenge ...

Yes... I only take this show as a comedy .😂

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Posted: 2 years ago
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There is no cure ...

Baa will make hands with maa ya so that Anu loose ca and Anuj may leave her thinking Anu will again become shahs maid Anu knowing all this will make her go against baa and eventually shahs she has already gone against pakhee and toshu if you see 🙈

But Aisa hoga kya kiske chance less hain i guess CA herself will choose Maan than Maa ya at present she is not aware she is there to take her away from her parents let's see 🤣


Next 3 mnths story baki trp batayegi yeh kya karenge

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Posted: 2 years ago
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No cure. She has the capacity to make the Therapist thank her for coming into his/her life and teaching him/her how to do the job. 😊 So therapy would not help her either.


I wish somebody seriously shows her the documentaries of child abuse, sexual abuse to kids and children which 80-90% of the time are done by known elders and many of the times by elders from own family. This logic of ‘Bade hai’, my God, I feel like smacking her face with a stick when she says that. An abuser is an abuser, irrespective of Gender, Age, Status, Power. Bhashandevi doesn’t know this OMG surprising !

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Posted: 2 years ago
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There is nothing to cure this. Not sure about the medical terminology. 🤔

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

Very often i have seen people defending anupamas actions saying that she was conditioned like that from her childhood and she cannot detach because of 26 years living with the Shahs.

I know that we cannot blame her entirely. She was a victim of circumstances. And it's not a 1 day process. But seems like she doesn't even want to take 1 single step towards change.

What can be the possible cure for her ?

Actually in real life, escaping the abusers is the biggest catalysts for the victim to heal and move on. If you study accounts of victims, once they escape the house and direct presence of an abuser that's when the victim has the realization that she was being abused. She is extremely relieved and feels free for the first time


Such victims NEVER EVER go back to their abusers and have any respect for them once they escape. Its their break through moment


So about Anupama, the only cure would be the revolutionary indian treatment called GPL - G par laat. She is the poster child for - latton ke bhoot, batton se nahi mante

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harish111

Actually in real life, escaping the abusers is the biggest catalysts for the victim to heal and move on. If you study accounts of victims, once they escape the house and direct presence of an abuser that's when the victim has the realization that she was being abused. She is extremely relieved and feels free for the first time


Such victims NEVER EVER go back to their abusers and have any respect for them once they escape. Its their break through moment


So about Anupama, the only cure would be the revolutionary indian treatment called GPL - G par laat. She is the poster child for - latton ke bhoot, batton se nahi mante

I would have loved if she had run away from that house after she found vanraj kavya on her bed during anniversary day.

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