What's the cure? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

Very often i have seen people defending anupamas actions saying that she was conditioned like that from her childhood and she cannot detach because of 26 years living with the Shahs.

I know that we cannot blame her entirely. She was a victim of circumstances. And it's not a 1 day process. But seems like she doesn't even want to take 1 single step towards change.

What can be the possible cure for her ?

That is a loud off bull crap, when I read this from her fan base. Anyone can change if they truly want to, first. If my late father in-laws in his 80's could change after moving to the USA in 2004 with his thought process on how a bahu should be treated by her in-law in her own home, why can't this 40 something woman? How long will this victim label be used to describe her poor circumstance of getting married young, having horrible mother in-law and husband? She is no longer poor anything. She is married, has supportive husband, 2nd chance in life so this mindset she is victim is rubbish in my eyes and mind. There are woman in India, Pakistan, USA and world who have it worst and had it worst than this Deviji and they are not out claiming I am poor victim nor are their cheering base.

As for what can cure this Deviji? I hope Maya getting custody of her daughter, with all this evidence she has been recording can and will be used in court. Devijii, can see first hand how foolish and stupid she looks defending Baa every time with her actions as well. With all the evidence collected and shown, just maybe, Anuj will wakes up and realizes that this woman will never change and for his daughter's sake and future he doesn't want this toxicity in his life anymore. Losing Anuj because of Maya getting custody is the only way.
Anuj will not forgive Anu, if it is proven in court that his wife is not capable of being Choti's mom because of her toxic family and vile ex-mother-in-law. That will finally wake her up from whatever brainwashing she is under, I am hoping.

Unlike Anuj, I no longer support Anupama and feel outside of her own daughter and sons, no other kid needs to be raised in her home by her with her stupid mentality.😢😡

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Memory loss track. She forgets everything about the affair, divorce, ATM etc and goes back to her favourite life as unpaid maid. At least she'll be content. Delusional but happy

If it set Anuj and Choti free, I am with this track.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

No cure. She has the capacity to make the Therapist thank her for coming into his/her life and teaching him/her how to do the job. 😊 So therapy would not help her either.

I wish somebody seriously shows her the documentaries of child abuse, sexual abuse to kids and children which 80-90% of the time are done by known elders and many of the times by elders from own family. This logic of ‘Bade hai’, my God, I feel like smacking her face with a stick when she says that. An abuser is an abuser, irrespective of Gender, Age, Status, Power. Bhashandevi doesn’t know this OMG surprising !

Ecactly! I forgot Maa, can do all, even her own therapy.🤣

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

I would have loved if she had run away from that house after she found vanraj kavya on her bed during anniversary day.

I still can't believe she stayed in same house after divorce.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

I still can't believe she stayed in same house after divorce.

Yes .. and she was so happy about it 😡

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

Yes .. and she was so happy about it 😡

I have never seen anything like this in TV before or reality. So embarrassing🤣

She needs to acknowledge that first (or atleast the writters) because in her mind Baa taunting people is love ❤️

I thought with Anuj asking her to focus on herself first was going to show Anupamaa introspect but all we got was her emotional outburst in front of Dheeraj. And I am assuming as Dheeraj felt guilty of no reaching out to him wife he projected his issues on Anuj and asking him to be a bigger person and apologize.

Dheerah's problem was that he didn't spend enough time with his family while Anuj's problem is too much time with Shah Phamily

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

Very often i have seen people defending anupamas actions saying that she was conditioned like that from her childhood and she cannot detach because of 26 years living with the Shahs.

I know that we cannot blame her entirely. She was a victim of circumstances. And it's not a 1 day process. But seems like she doesn't even want to take 1 single step towards change.

What can be the possible cure for her ?

Do not agree with that anymore. She did defy Baa when she wanted to. Baa asked her not to marry Anuj, she did. In my opinion nothing can salvage her apart from accepting that she has mental issues and get treated for that.

Originally posted by: strancho

Do not agree with that anymore. She did defy Baa when she wanted to. Baa asked her not to marry Anuj, she did.

There are several such instances where she went against the chudail but yet she keeps claiming she's Baa bhagwan's biggest devotee. The only explanation is that Maa is world BESHT in doglapan also along with her other skills