Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 10 Jan 2023 - Page 5

I agree. If she doesn't understand and change her toxic behaviours in spite of a proper discussion between them about the same and with the passage of time, he needs to leave her. He's not happy and he can't force himself to be, and you cannot change a person unless they truly want to change.

Anyway the Anupama stans will be happy, let's see Anupama's growth without Anuj and what she spends her time doing when CA is not her responsibility. Safe to say her dance academy, padhai or work won't be on the cards, so she'll go back to doing what she does best - Shah's doormat cum slave. That's what I find most funny about people who say how can Anuj expect her to take care of a child at this age. Did you not see the way the house was decorated and the preparation she made to manaaofy Anuj? I can't do all that at this age! Or how she was when celebrating being a "Daadi". And when she neglects CA, she spends her time and energy running around and catering to Shah House needs. Not her own education or career or personal growth. So what are they even on about! CA is such a responsible sweet girl who does pretty much everything on her own, she only needs her mom's time and love and attention. How is that a lot to ask for? That kind of environment is good for Anupama herself. Anyway let's see how CVs butcher this track further by shifting the blame on Anuj

Shah Hater - Just saw the pic, hahaha. you are right. That will be my motto from now. However difficult it seems 😆

Faltu ka shah family and double standards of MAA and her fans. She was all happy until Anuj was licking feet of her ex in laws ex husband, ex husband's wife and her badtameez kids.

Tab kisi ko bachche paraye nahi lage. Anuj/mukku ne baar baar job aur mauka diya vanraj/kavya/toshu ko, but tab maa aur uske fans ko anuj ke liye rona nahi aaya ki paraye bacche, paraya pati aur uski wife ko mauka de raha hai.

Jab maa ne paraye mard ke saath jhula jhula, tab fangirls ko yaad nahi aaya ki woh paraya mard hai aur maa ka asli husband ghar pe wheelchair pe paralyze hoke betha hai.

Let me tell u when a couple divorces, they dont do all rituals with ex wife. They do it with current wife. And same ritual mother does with her current husband. Stop defending maa saying they did it as dada dadi.

But fangirls will say Maa isnt bad. Anuj is.

I am not a fan of Gaurav, am a fan of good and realistic character. and even as Anuj's fan i have guts and a conscious to make fun of or get upset with Anuj when he is wrong. I am not a blind follower of any character. Not some hypocrite character who has double standards for her ex in laws and her current in laws.

Or when her own son has extra marital affair without telling the other girl he is married or telling his pregnant wife.

Anuj was okay with Anupama staying with kinjal as she was pregnant and maa's real son was sleeping with other lady

But fangirls will say, No toshu isnt bad. Anuj is.

Anuj didnt bring pakhi home. Bapuji forced him to take her zimmedari. Pakhi is parayi but Anuj didnt treat her as parayi.

Fangirls will say pakhi isnt bad. Anuj is.

If ppl r jealous of Anuj's spotless character and a charming face, what can he do?

Originally posted by: Koms9

Faltu ka shah family and double standards of MAA and her fans. She was all happy until Anuj was licking feet of her ex in laws ex husband, ex husband's wife and her badtameez kids.

Tab kisi ko bachche paraye nahi lage. Anuj/mukku ne baar baar job aur mauka diya vanraj/kavya/toshu ko, but tab maa aur uske fans ko anuj ke liye rona nahi aaya ki paraye bacche, paraya pati aur uski wife ko mauka de raha hai.

Jab maa ne paraye mard ke saath jhula jhula, tab fangirls ko yaad nahi aaya ki woh paraya mard hai aur maa ka asli husband ghar pe wheelchair pe paralyze hoke betha hai.

Let me tell u when a couple divorces, they dont do all rituals with ex wife. They do it with current wife. And same ritual mother does with her current husband. Stop defending maa saying they did it as dada dadi.

But fangirls will say Maa isnt bad. Anuj is.

I feel this whole debate over stranger/paraya is pointless with regard to this show and a sheer case of hypocrisy like you have pointed out.

This is the same Anupama who completely discarded her own mother and gave the status of her mother to a STRANGER aka jhuli. Tab ye apna paraya yaad nahi aaya par CA ke time ye sab kyun kyun kyun (in her own words🤣)

I can also faltu ka double standard of anuj and his fans

And who is anuj who can't be crictise why anupama only has to face critism why not anuj too

Matalab jjka man mein woh jee bhar ke anupama ko crictise kar sakta hai but anuj should not be crictise ?? Anuj ko.crictise kar diya to bada paap ho gaya .arey anuj ke baare mein yeh kya diya .Ghor paap ho gaya if anuj will be crictise

Before marriage, Anuj and Anu di

Hum saath saath bournvita peeyenge. kitna mazaa aayega.

shaadi ke baad

itni jaldi.. maine toh abhi theek se taste bi nahi kiya

Jub bhi anuj ke baare mein khuch bolo.aur ya anupama ki taaaif Karo to anuj ke fans bus seedhi fan fan.aur personal attack pe aa jaate arey rg fans yeh karte hai

Ahd yes anuj ne Jo khuch Kiya anupama ke bache ke liye woh apni marji se Kiykiya .anupama has never force anuj to do for toshu samar

Yes anuj ne Jo khuch Kiya anupama ke bachon ke liye woh apni marji se Kiya

Anupama ne kabhi nahi bola anuj se Mere bachon ko priority do

And infact I also never want anuj give priority to anupama children

Agar kisi ko Mera previous post yaad ho let me remind I was against pakhi using anuj money for luxury

I never want any of anupama chidren should use anuj money for his luxury

I can send link of my previous post where. I truly against pakhi using anuj money for luxury

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

This is a very accurate observation. Anuj should be expected to go above and out of his way to support and tolerate shitnupa's self proclaimed maayka and basically shoulder all the responsibility for these sadakchaap shahs but shitnupa can't spare time for Choti at all in her busy routine of serving tamashahs. Again the hypocrisy of this fake devi is exposed.

And, Anuj reacted much later after a certain threshold had been crossed. Obviously, he is still being shown as a human and will take time to move on from this. Everyone is not mahaan like shameless shahs (including ghatiya maa) that they will change overnight by the flip of a switch and suddenly become good. Hard to process and accept their girgit type behaviour for anyone.

Exactly this is the problem with the entire show. It's not that Anupama cannot take time to adjust to a new life or take time to accept CA as her child. It's the fact that she acts as if she is going above and beyond to do these things when in reality she's miserably failing at it. Plus everytime someone insults Anuj or berates him 95% of the time this woman is mum. If it had been the opposite the audience would not be so frustrated. If Anupama had come out and said I am not able to accept CA as my daughter or said that she is overwhelmed and needs some time, it would have been fine. It would have made the audience empathize with her.

But the problem is in the fact that she does not say she is overwhelmed, she's not ready to accept that she dropped the ball on CA. Her concern even now is more on what Anuj thinks and there is no visible concern for the child nor is there any acceptance of the fact that she maybe rushed into the adoption or made a mistake by agreeing to it.

It is very hard to care for a character who is not ready to accept their mistake or admit that they have shortcomings. Because that is what makes characters relatable. In IRL people screw things up all the time and when they see that on the screen and they see a character accepting their failings and then trying to improve on it, in my opinion it makes for much better storytelling than this hypocritical mahanta syndrome almost all ITV characters suffer from..

No wonder so many people moved on to OTT and its gaining more ground every year.

Originally posted by: DJ_3

I see Anuj as trying to forgive despite the hurt and it takes time.

However Anupamaa almost wants Anuj to have his whole life revolve around her and forgive and forget immediately. Almost like Vanraj wanted from Anupamaa for Shah family.

He has other relationships too, like a new father which he is trying to build.

I am finding the character of Anupamaa to be way narcissistic and kiddish. Almost like all attention on her

Its all about Me Me Me

For the family role, I will be Dolly. 😆

Yes anuj is hurt and he needs time but then he should clearly tell this to anupama but he is also giving mix signals. Anupama was getting him ready and this man was drying her hair...i mean.. ye kya tarika hai yaar. Saaf saaf bol do na ki please give me sometime and space.

Actually both are shown as 40+ mature people but both of them are totally immature having very impractical standards and definition of marriage.