Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 10 Jan 2023

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anuj and Dheeraj have detailed discussions on Anupama ‘s life and relationships . Dheeraj points out to Anuj where he was going wrong and suggests corrective measures . He warns him not to connect the same mistakes Dheeraj did in his life and as a result his wife separated from him. He points out an example of Dheeraj and Anuj childhood friendship 26 yrs back, was difficult to break even though they were just neighbours , so Anupama was living with them for 26 yrs and they were her children so how does Anuj expect her to cut off all ties with them in one go ? This was too much to expect on Anuj’s part from Anupama .
He asks her to take a chill pill n rethink how to patch up with Anupama .

Anuj agrees that he loved Anupama for what she was, for her loving caring nature , for her mild and and submissive nature , now that very character of hers were troubling him and he was wanting her to change ! Anuj admits he had accepted Anupama with all her follies , but now he expected her tk change ! He is unable to understand why he was doing this. Surely this is not love, but he loved Anupama very much .

Anuj then inquired about Dheeraj’s beloved wife . Dheeraj narrates how he loved his wife but after they have a tiff he could not let his ego go and that caused in their separation n how she later failed to fight malignancy. He lost her forever .

In the bedroom Anupama is seen weeping , she has hurt her beloved Anuj, she had failed to be good mother to CA, she apologises to lord for her mistakes , she also feels sorry for revealing everything about their troubled marriage in presence of outsider . She prays to lord to giver her Anuj and CS back as she could not live without them.


Dheeraj advises Anuj not to let his ego come between them.

At Shah house Vanraj fumes with jealous fury as Kavya os dropped off home late night by her male colleagues , she cheerfully n playfully bids then good bye . When Vanraj confronts her she retorts back .

Precap


Devika, Dheeraj, Anupama and Anuj plan to go on picnic together n enjoy them selves . Dheeraj and Devika plan to bring MaAn closer . Anuj makes excuse of work and leaves refusing to accompany them to picnic

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anuj is.so wrong to forcing adopted girl on anupama .shaadi kar liya To kya hua that dies not mean wife cannot have own life

And yes I meant parayyi Bachhi not ajeeb Bachchai

So better before reaching any conclusion and called my thought disgusting they should have better confirm me

Strange is adjective word so I use adjective word instead of noun word stranger



Anuj should have given time to anupama

By getting angry on anupama will he able to create natural feeling on anupama ? No


Chalo gussa ho ke anuj ne anupama ko choti dhyaan rakhne ko keh bhi diya aur anupama ne darr le mare choti anu ka khayal rakhna shuru kar bhi diya agar main choti anu ka khayal nahi rakha to anuj mujhme theek se baat nahi karenge

But gusse se darr se hi anupama choti anu ka khayal rakh paayegi not by natural feeling

Natural feeling develop karne ke liye time Dena padta hai not by getting angry

Getting angry is no solution Instead anuj should give time to anupama or he made some effort how to create relationship between anupama and choti anu . All three can play game together or can watch TV together or all read story together all three can sleep together

Anuj ko khuch effort karna chahiye

There are might mom who love adopted child and own child equally but not every mom mentality is same .it is not necessary other mom is doing so then other will do exactly same like other mom do

Not every mother is position give attention to adopted child when she has own biological children


And regarding saying no to anuj .when anupama was explaining to anuj I have already three responsibility so at this age it is difficult to to take care of big responsibility of Small child but anuj was looking very tense when anupama try to explain hum ki kahin anupama no na kehde

It is clearly look from face of anuj expression thst he is no mood listen no

So. Anupama told yes to anuj not because anupama ready for adoption but say yes to anuj because she don't want to upset anuj


But yes bolne ka Matlab yeh nahi she will immediately develop Natural feeling for adopted child


And moreover anuj ko bache ki itni chah thi to why did not marry other girl and have child or if he want don't want ti marry other girl he should have obtain child via surrogacy like Karan Johar and tusshar Kapoor these two.celebreties are single but get chidren via surrogacy

Anupama ne to anuj ko nahi roka tha ki 26 year tuk wait kare 26 year tuk bacha adopt na kare

Anuj could have adopted child before this

Ab 26 year baad kyon khayal aaya ki bacha adopt karna hai thar too after marrying anupama

Bacha adopt karna hi tha shaadi se pehle bata de ki woh ek bacha adopt karenge but nahi shaadi ke baad ek Dum achanak se anuj bol rahe hain ki unhe bacha adopt karna .Anuj ne na shaadi se pehle anupama ko bataya ki bacha adopt karna aur na wait Kiya bacha Bas bacha adopt karna hai ??????


anupama ne haan bola to kya hua anuj ko khud samajh nahi hai kya ki kya anupama comfortable hogi itni jaldi

waise anuj ji Anupama ki.man ki baat ko samajh jaaye hai but he could not able understand anupama mentality at this point

Ager anupama se 60 year mein shaadi karte to.anuj ka bus chalta 60 year ke umr mein bacha palwaate agar adoption law strict nahi Hota

Now ab anupama choti anu ka care karegi bhi to yeh bhi kaha jaayega tabhi usme buraai niklegi ki woh to anuj ne anupama ko ignore Kiya that is why anupama start taking care of choti anu otherwise anupama does not truly love choti anu

Edited by surabhi01 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Man you need help. And no I'm not being I'm genuinely concerned. Please get some help

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Faltu ki baat Mujhse karna bhi mat better mind ur own business

Khud bolte ho anupama fictional character but when I am have different opinion about anuj u people told me that I need help or my thought bis disgusting kyon anuj fictional character nahi hai . What help.i needed so mujhe se aise bekaar ki baat karna bhi mat

Yes I know Most support anuj as most of are Gaurav fans but I am not fan of rg or nor gk. Fans

I start watching because of its concept

Agar koi aur actor anupama or anuj ka play kar Rahe hote to bhi mere thought wohi rehte

Edited by surabhi01 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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The Mata and Pita both are very sad.😭😭😭😭😭 Their acheee and saaf dil have been broken into million pieces by their respective insensitive spouses.🤬 Koi Samajhte Nahin Un Dono Ka Gham. They both are trying so hard to fix their relationships, but their heartless spouses are ignoring all their efforts.😒

Kavya is immersed in her new world. She does not pick up her husband's phone. Bechara Pati Kitna Miss Kiya. She comes home late at night with male colleagues. Kaun Se Shareef Ghar Ke Ladkiyan Aise Paraye Mard Se Lift Lete Hain? 😵The pain of V when he saw his young sexy wife laughing with her male colleagues was unbearable. 😭


The Acche Ma had a severe panic attack. But, her MCP husband did not give two hoots about her mental disease. Such an egoistic ****. 🤬Dheeraj despite not witnessing their marital life for more than 5- minutes gave Anuj the most important marital advice. He criticized Anuj for pressuring Anu to leave her breastfeeding newborns.😒 Maa Hain Woh. Anuj is such a Nalayak and nikamma pati. He expects Anu to forget her relations of 26 years for a kid whom she knows for 4 months. Chalo, in the end, Anuj accepted that he was an MCP for forcing his wishes on the MAA. He admitted that he was wrong to expect her to change, but he could not help it as he was so frustrated with her family.


Baaaa gives a valuable advice to V. She said that once Kavya got fame and money, she would ignore the family. Baaaaaa advised V to keep Kavya on a leash.


Precap: Devika plans a trip for all 4 of them. Anuj declines her offer. Devika and Dheeraj propose an idea to Anu for winning back Anuj.


It seems like CA has been adopted by her friend's family. Uski koi khabar nahin. Dimple Do Raat Se Ghar Nahin Lauti. Kisi Ko Uski Bhi Khabar Nahin. Pari Gayab Hain. Kisikoo Uski Bhi Khabar Nahin Hain. Aur writers ki dimaag bhii gayab haiiin auuur Aisha ke intellligence bhi. 😳

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Posted: 2 years ago
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The same can be said of Anupama, she forced her batimaaz kids and family on him even before the first month of their marriage was over. I do not remember Anuj getting time getting to accept his responsibility for her grown kids and ex-in-laws but he learned to adapt and moved on. Anuj, never once complained, he was there by her side and helping her deal financially, emotionally, and psychically from one batimaaz child’s problem to another. He didn’t ask for nor signed up for all this but accepted that it came with loving his wife. Added on he had to deal with her batimaaz ex-husband and mother-in-law and still he put up with it. If Anupama didn’t want to adopt she could have said, no, he asked her, we all saw it. There was no gun to her head. As for spending time with Choti, they have a few times but not as much as they have to deal with her grown batimaaz kids.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Thanks for saving time today.


I hate this forced feminism 😒 😤

No wonder people try to avoid helping lift women as shown as a zero sum game, where the man otherwise would have to suffer 😕

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Did not anupama told to anuj ki aapne pakhi se kyon baat ki pakhi meri zimmedai hai when anuj talk to pakhi at coffee restaurant about adhik and pakhi marriage relationship .ship tub jub anupama anuj ko apne bachon ki zimme Dari lene se mana Kar diya tub to nuj bura,Maan gaye kya,pakhi meri khuch nahi lagti

Anupama ne kabhi force nahi Kiya anuj aur na aise anupama ne Anuj se Lambe time anuj ko ignore Kiya

Anuj ne kiya woh aaj tuk apni marji se Kiya Hai

Of course anupama could have said no but kya anuj no.sunne ke mood mein they anuj ke face ke expression ko dekh ke

Edited by surabhi01 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Guys to be honest I suggest we don't waste time on anyone with the kind of mentality that we can't even imagine. They clearly don't want to learn or grow or try and think from a different perspective or ever accept a single mistake they make. If I'm wrong about something I would accept my mistake and learn from it, that's how people grow as a person. And I've changed my pov so many times that way. So we can only feel pity on people who will never grow, who will stick to their view however wrong and problematic simply because they refuse to see anyone else as right. It's upsetting, upsets me as well, and I'm not a fan of any character on the show. Such views are problematic because they are reflective of real life world views. But you can't change everyone right? So let's discuss with those who are open to valid criticism, genuine conversations and light hearted banter, not thrusting upon problematic ideals and refusing to accept a single mistake. There's honestly no point to it so why waste our time...Or even better, let's troll and joke about the show, the only thing worth doing at this point 😆

All this results only in fights and personal attacks. I've muted all those twitter stans, dont need that in our lives.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Yes it is absolutely waste of tme to reply to.such post who just jump.to conclusion without understanding context of my post ahd start attacking me thst my thought is disgusting or start attacking me

Kisne bola ki mere sath reply karne mein time waste Karo

Maine to nahi kaha ki muhe reply Kake time waste Karo

Khud hi apne man with out understanding context of my post disgusting mentality bole ho phir kehto ho need to time waste .

BTW I am not even twitter member .mane to kisi bhi social media mein apna account nahi banaya hai

Edited by surabhi01 - 2 years ago

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