Originally posted by: surabhi01
Anuj is.so wrong to forcing adopted girl on anupama .shaadi kar liya To kya hua that dies not mean wife cannot have own life
And yes I meant parayyi Bachhi not ajeeb Bachchai
So better before reaching any conclusion and called my thought disgusting they should have better confirm me
Strange is adjective word so I use adjective word instead of noun word stranger
Anuj should have given time to anupama
By getting angry on anupama will he able to create natural feeling on anupama ? No
Chalo gussa ho ke anuj ne anupama ko choti dhyaan rakhne ko keh bhi diya aur anupama ne darr le mare choti anu ka khayal rakhna shuru kar bhi diya agar main choti anu ka khayal nahi rakha to anuj mujhme theek se baat nahi karenge
But gusse se darr se hi anupama choti anu ka khayal rakh paayegi not by natural feeling
Natural feeling develop karne ke liye time Dena padta hai not by getting angry
Getting angry is no solution Instead anuj should give time to anupama or he made some effort how to create relationship between anupama and choti anu . All three can play game together or can watch TV together or all read story together all three can sleep together
Anuj ko khuch effort karna chahiye
There are might mom who love adopted child and own child equally but not every mom mentality is same .it is not necessary other mom is doing so then other will do exactly same like other mom do
Not every mother is position give attention to adopted child when she has own biological children
And regarding saying no to anuj .when anupama was explaining to anuj I have already three responsibility so at this age it is difficult to to take care of big responsibility of Small child but anuj was looking very tense when anupama try to explain hum ki kahin anupama no na kehde
It is clearly look from face of anuj expression thst he is no mood listen no
So. Anupama told yes to anuj not because anupama ready for adoption but say yes to anuj because she don't want to upset anuj
But yes bolne ka Matlab yeh nahi she will immediately develop Natural feeling for adopted child
And moreover anuj ko bache ki itni chah thi to why did not marry other girl and have child or if he want don't want ti marry other girl he should have obtain child via surrogacy like Karan Johar and tusshar Kapoor these two.celebreties are single but get chidren via surrogacy
Anupama ne to anuj ko nahi roka tha ki 26 year tuk wait kare 26 year tuk bacha adopt na kare
Anuj could have adopted child before this
Ab 26 year baad kyon khayal aaya ki bacha adopt karna hai thar too after marrying anupama
Bacha adopt karna hi tha shaadi se pehle bata de ki woh ek bacha adopt karenge but nahi shaadi ke baad ek Dum achanak se anuj bol rahe hain ki unhe bacha adopt karna .Anuj ne na shaadi se pehle anupama ko bataya ki bacha adopt karna aur na wait Kiya bacha Bas bacha adopt karna hai ??????
anupama ne haan bola to kya hua anuj ko khud samajh nahi hai kya ki kya anupama comfortable hogi itni jaldi
waise anuj ji Anupama ki.man ki baat ko samajh jaaye hai but he could not able understand anupama mentality at this point
Ager anupama se 60 year mein shaadi karte to.anuj ka bus chalta 60 year ke umr mein bacha palwaate agar adoption law strict nahi Hota
Now ab anupama choti anu ka care karegi bhi to yeh bhi kaha jaayega tabhi usme buraai niklegi ki woh to anuj ne anupama ko ignore Kiya that is why anupama start taking care of choti anu otherwise anupama does not truly love choti anu
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