Anupamaa 10 Nov 2025 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 2

Originally posted by: janecastle

UpMaaa teaching Vasundhara the sanctity of marriage This is the same woman who abandoned her husband and 6 yr old daughter just because her husband called out her ex in-laws obsession. And she has the gall to lecture others about relationships and ego clashes.

@Bold : Also, Upmaa had the audacity to lash out at Vasundhara saying, "Aapne badi hone ka farz nibhaya hai kya?" Vasundhara should’ve instantly snapped back, "Aapki Baa Bhagwan ne bade hone ka farz nibhaya hai kya?"

At least Vasundhara runs the entire Kothari House on her own without depending on anyone. Baa Bhagwan, on the other hand, can’t survive a single day without running to Upmaa for every choti si baat.

And let’s be clear — when it comes to ego, it’s TrashRaj who tops the list. His inflated ego has dragged the Shah Family into one humiliation after another. Vasundhara doesn’t even come close.

Originally posted by: bsnkswami4187

@Bold : Also, Upmaa had the audacity to lash out at Vasundhara saying, "Aapne badi hone ka farz nibhaya hai kya?" Vasundhara should’ve instantly snapped back, "Aapki Baa Bhagwan ne bade hone ka farz nibhaya hai kya?"

At least Vasundhara runs the entire Kothari House on her own without depending on anyone. Baa Bhagwan, on the other hand, can’t survive a single day without running to Upmaa for every choti si baat.

And let’s be clear — when it comes to ego, it’s TrashRaj who tops the list. His inflated ego has dragged the Shah Family into one humiliation after another. Vasundhara doesn’t even come close.

And Vasundhara is not really wrong in this whole divorce mess. No respectable family wants to be associated with trashy Shahs. And yet Vasundhara's two grandsons and her only granddaughter married from that family. Also Raja is basically a freeloader on Kothari wealth. Same with Pari. Upar se Pari was throwing unnecessary attitude thinking her Anu-Maa would force Kotharis to do her bidding. Her initial reaction was understandable. But she disrespected her in-laws too in that, who had nothing to do with Raja's supposed affair. Not to mention her insulting Raja even after the truth came out. It was only after she realized that Kotharis won't come begging to her that she mellowed down. Meeta's mentality and body-shaming Pari is absolutely wrong. However, Vasundhara's concerns are more regarding Shahs' trashy background and Raja being basically useless.

Originally posted by: janecastle

And Vasundhara is not really wrong in this whole divorce mess. No respectable family wants to be associated with trashy Shahs. And yet Vasundhara's two grandsons and her only granddaughter married from that family. Also Raja is basically a freeloader on Kothari wealth. Same with Pari. Upar se Pari was throwing unnecessary attitude thinking her Anu-Maa would force Kotharis to do her bidding. Her initial reaction was understandable. But she disrespected her in-laws too in that, who had nothing to do with Raja's supposed affair. Not to mention her insulting Raja even after the truth came out. It was only after she realized that Kotharis won't come begging to her that she mellowed down. Meeta's mentality and body-shaming Pari is absolutely wrong. However, Vasundhara's concerns are more regarding Shahs' trashy background and Raja being basically useless.

In real life, every father dreams of being his daughter’s hero and mentor. But poor Pari was doomed even before she opened her eyes — when Doshu (Upmaa ka laadla beta) had the audacity to call Crinjal’s unborn child an unlucky omen. Seriously, what kind of father calls his own unborn baby a curse? That’s not just toxic — that’s sheer irresponsibility served with a side of drama.”

After Crinjal gave birth to Pari, karma didn’t even wait for the credits to roll. Doshu’s infidelity burst out right in the middle of Pari’s naming ceremony. That was the moment Crinjal should’ve slammed the divorce papers right on Doshu’s smug face. She had a rich mother, a solid career, and every reason to walk away from that freeloading fraud instead of wasting her tears fixing him. Crinjal could have easily raised Pari as a single parent — she had money, stability, and most importantly, dignity. Not every woman needs to stay married to a circus clown just to prove she’s “sanskaari.”

A few episodes later, when Doshu kidnapped Pari and started his usual rona-dhona drama, what did Upmaa do? Instead of telling Crinjal to dump that man-child once and for all, she gave her the classic Upmaa line — “Beta, decision tumhara hai.” Of course! Because martyrdom and misplaced motherhood are Upmaa’s favourite subjects.

Any normal man grows up a little after becoming a father. But not our Fraud Factory Doshu. He remained the same reckless, jobless, shameless parasite. First, the shady business deal at Dhongi Dukhmukh’s factory (and saved by Baa Bhagwan, as always). Then the international kaand — stealing jewelry from the locker of Simpnuj’s client in US and hiding it in Upmaa’s bag. And when even that wasn’t enough, faking his own mother’s death certificate for insurance money? Peak Shah bloodline energy!

Tell me, how can a man who’s flopped as a son, a brother, and a husband ever be a father? Pari wasn’t just cursed by karma — she was cursed by two people: Doshu, the eternal loser, and Upmaa, the enabler who polishes failure and calls it “maa ka pyaar.”

And now, Doshu storming into Kothari Mansion was pure déjà vu. Just like his toxic daddy TrashRaj barging into Kapadia Mansion after Princess Makhi’s fight with Bechara Adhik. Like father, like son — both allergic to accountability and addicted to drama!

Doshu isn’t crying for Pari. He’s crying because he’s about to lose his rich son-in-law. And honestly, I can’t wait for Queen Vasundhara to open her Doshu Dossier — one kaand at a time, with spotlight, background music, and audience applause!

At this point, Vasundhara has every reason to slap the divorce papers right on Pari’s face — not out of hate, but out of pure self-respect. She’s not divorcing Pari; she’s disinfecting her family from the toxic Shah circus before they infect the entire Kothari household.

Originally posted by: janecastle

So paltu Prem is the one involved in fraud. And dumbo Ansh thinks it is Gautam. He has given the wrong info to Rahi who promptly passed it to UpMaaa. Now the three idiots will try to "expose" Gautam and everything is going to blow up spectacularly on their faces. Gautam does not even have to do anything. Saare kaand toh yeh idiots khud karte hai. Looks like next Rahi will be packed off from Kothari mansion.

@Bold : Here comes the moment.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0noap1XFBU

Aaj kal Upmaa ko “Mishter Shah” ki yaad kuch zyada hi satane lagi hai. Ye doosri baar hai jab madam ko apne toxic ex ki yaad aayi. Jab bhi Prem Rahi par chillata hai, Upmaa ke dimaag mein seedha “Mishter Shah” flashback chalu ho jaata hai. Aur jab bechari banne ka mood hota hai, tab “Mere Anuj” ka naam japna start kar deti hai.

Loved how Phaltu Prem completely shut her down with his savage line. But Upmaa seeing “Mishter Shah” in Prem? That was pure comedy gold. Someone please hand her a reality check before she starts calling Phaltu Prem “Vanraj 2.0.”

Originally posted by: bsnkswami4187

@Bold : Here comes the moment.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0noap1XFBU

Aaj kal Upmaa ko “Mishter Shah” ki yaad kuch zyada hi satane lagi hai. Ye doosri baar hai jab madam ko apne toxic ex ki yaad aayi. Jab bhi Prem Rahi par chillata hai, Upmaa ke dimaag mein seedha “Mishter Shah” flashback chalu ho jaata hai. Aur jab bechari banne ka mood hota hai, tab “Mere Anuj” ka naam japna start kar deti hai.

Loved how Phaltu Prem completely shut her down with his savage line. But Upmaa seeing “Mishter Shah” in Prem? That was pure comedy gold. Someone please hand her a reality check before she starts calling Phaltu Prem “Vanraj 2.0.”

Paltu Prem went from Anuj to Vanar just because he's not serving UpMaaa anymore

Originally posted by: janecastle

Things might have gone a little better if UpMaaa went off to Mumbai and let others actually handle their lives for a change. If UpMaaa was not around giving unnecessary gyaan and acting as if she knows better than anyone else, then may be Pari and Raja still would have had a few allies in Kothari mansion. Now UpMaaa has managed to piss off Parag too, who stood by Rahi and helped her whenever she needed. That woman is the biggest curse in all of their lives. Now she'll make sure to ruin Rahi's life once again in her ego battle with Vasundhara, who, unlike everyone else sees right through UpMaaa and Shahs manipulations.

@Bold 1: Every mother should stop babysitting her children once they hit adulthood. Emotional support is fine — but career counselling and life control? That’s where the umbilical cord needs to be cut. At 17, kids should decide what to study and which path to take.

But Madam Upmaa clearly missed that memo.

If she was so determined to keep babysitting her fully grown “kids” — Toshu, already married and permanently entitled; Samar, mature enough to be her emotional caretaker; and Pakhi, busy attending college and pretending to be wise — then why marry at all?

And not just anyone — she went ahead and married a business tycoon who had a college crush on her! The man built his empire brick by brick through strategy and sweat, and she brought emotional chaos wrapped in nostalgia. Add to that the second-marriage complication — Rahi / Aadhya / CA, the adopted daughter who needed full-time love, attention, and stability.

The irony? The big business tycoon actually deserved a better wife than Upmaa.
Someone who matched his vision, not someone who treated marriage like a group therapy session for her past. He didn’t marry a partner — he adopted an entire joint family circus.

And let’s not forget — she had already divorced Vanar before jumping into her second innings.

Tragic irony is, she still hasn’t learned to say “NO.” When Baa Bhagwan pleaded with her to stay back to “fix” Pari’s divorce mess and Ishaani’s affair with Raja, Madam Martyr (Upmaa) once again sacrificed her peace. Serving the same toxic Tamashah family that robbed her education and wrecked her second marriage — that’s not love, that’s a lifetime subscription to misery.

@Bold 2:
Pari and Raja should’ve never gotten married. Raja was a freeloading parasite living off Kothari wealth, and Pari — the jobless heiress — brought zero sense to the table. A disaster marriage made in pure delusion, blessed by family denial and emotional blackmail.

And while we’re listing epic blunders in the name of “pyaar” and “parivaar,” let’s not forget Prem and Rahi, and Prarthna and Ansh — marriages that should’ve stayed cancelled at the thought stage. When maturity takes a backseat and logic is left at home, what you get isn’t love — it’s a generational group project in poor decision-making.

Because apparently, repeating mistakes has become a family tradition — now officially passed down like hereditary self-sabotage.

@Bold 3:

Not just a curse — Upmaa is a full-blown walking disaster.
The woman didn’t just ruin her own life; she managed to turn it into a multi-generational syllabus on how not to live. Every wrong choice of hers has aged like fine tragedy — passed down from mother to child like unwanted heirlooms.

She calls it sacrifice.
The world calls it self-destruction with extra steps.

And the funniest part? She still lectures others about empowerment — while her own life looks like a never-ending rerun of bad decisions.

Because honestly, if your own life is a certified mess, how exactly are you planning to empower the generations that follow you?
By gifting them the same emotional baggage, wrapped neatly in “sanskaar”?

Please feel free to add your own points that I might have missed. Feel free to quote.