Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
Diya🤗, Abhi never asked her to chose family over him. He wanted their love to be prioritised now and again over family.
There is a difference.
That she kept both her worlds (love + family) compartmentalised and at moments of setback always give family top priority. That hurt him, that she prioritised her family over their love. It made him feel like he was the only one fighting for their love. The world called him mad and there she is thinking of her family. when he was thinking of them constantly.
This is very natural reaction of lovers. When you are in a relationship, you do need to think of that relationship and balance it with the needs of other relationships in your life. Abhi was not seeing this from her.
That day had been very emotionally exhausting for both. They were at their lowest and both were speaking from their hearts. Unfortunately, this will be the source of their major conflict as their relationship deepens. I hope it is addressed at one point. I thought after the maha shivratri but we were suddenly taken on a different tack and though the message was similar to what a conversation would have achieved, there were added layers for future complication/tracks. I'm guessing the writers merry-go-round is responsible for this sudden shift. And the trp aunties.😆
I am fuming, I really wanted to see what Abhi would have done as that was a brilliant piece of writing and an organic conflict that went to the heart of the character he is but thanks to whoever took over, we had a filmy-done-to-death solution presented. Sorry but that was 'safe' piece of writing though they tried to link it to Akshu's trauma but added masala for the masses. If I was writing that, I would have tied her trauma to Abhi.(it would work more if their romance had been deeper)......then we would have seen her giving a fitting response to his questions from friday.....it would have been more mature, and come straight from her heart and it would have been the two of them. But since this is a family show, the family had to be around to witness it all so I can understand it, denouement is often like that plus this is a tv show so viewers have to have it hammered into them.😆😃
But yes, when he was put in the position to choose he had an inkling. But this Akshu trait, of prioritising family over everything, is going to come back and haunt them repeatedly, hurt them and may even cause them to separate in the future.
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