Member topic: Your first break up ever. - Page 5

Originally posted by: SlowlyDrifting

Yes yes!!! I do get utterly anxious and feel like vomitting all the time actually till the time of confrontation. Only negative thoughts cloud my mind, I start preparing for answers to the unasked and totally stupid questions, I analyse the whole scenario 1000 times in my mind which makes me feel so tired mentally. 🥺 Lost the focus, only numbness!.. you hit the right chord. 😅

Thanks for this link. I am definitely gonna go through it. ♥️

I sound and feel like an expert right now. 😂

No worries hun. Like I said, what you’re describing is exactly how anxiety and negative thinking works. If you read into it, especially socratic questioning then you can help yourself to make gradual changes.

Originally posted by: SlowlyDrifting

Yes yes!!! I do get utterly anxious and feel like vomitting all the time actually till the time of confrontation. Only negative thoughts cloud my mind, I start preparing for answers to the unasked and totally stupid questions, I analyse the whole scenario 1000 times in my mind which makes me feel so tired mentally. 🥺 Lost the focus, only numbness!.. you hit the right chord. 😅

Thanks for this link. I am definitely gonna go through it. ♥️

Oh this sounds so relatable.

Anxiety and irrational overthinking- my biggest enemies.

I try to remember this statement that I had read somewhere that 95% of the things we worry about never really happens. But it's easier said than done. 😅

Originally posted by: Gul_9

You guys always have the best stories. 🤣

That’s true. I can’t even tell if they make it up or it’s real stories. 😆

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

That’s true. I can’t even tell if they make it up or it’s real stories. 😆

I wish they were lies. I’ve lived a very adventurous life lol.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

That’s true. I can’t even tell if they make it up or it’s real stories. 😆

Sometimes I feel jealous reading their stories. Nothing interesting has ever happened in my life.😒

broke up cuz the psychopath stole my online identity. Best breakup I've ever had.

Originally posted by: Justice4Samosa

broke up cuz psychopath stole my online identify. Best breakup I've ever had.

This is tragic 😭

I won't say mine as a break up as it was for a short time and we are of course married now 🙊. But its sort of funny.

We were in +2 and got drunk in a new year party for the 1st time. I had a bad condition for 3 days as I am diabetic and having ADH enzyme problem. I was literally vomiting for 3 days and very low blood sugar. My mom always warned me not to consume alcohol at all due to this.

So this led to nuclear explosion in our families. I was sent to California for further studies and he joined BiTS, Pilani.

After few days everything got sorted and now we are married and have a kid.

Ant bhala to sab bhala. But after that never touched alcohol.

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I wish they were lies. I’ve lived a very adventurous life lol.

No. I want to believe ya. Though hilarious story for every situation, is hard to believe. If true, quite the fun life.

I did 2 adventures and now that’s all the stories I have. 😆

Originally posted by: Gul_9

Oh this sounds so relatable.

Anxiety and irrational overthinking- my biggest enemies.

I try to remember this statement that I had read somewhere that 95% of the things we worry about never really happens. But it's easier said than done. 😅

Mine too. 😿