Stop the Massi Chant - Page 3

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

If anupama was treated Like a doormat thn she was the only one who was responsible for that kind of treatment because she never raised her voice against anything..it doesn't mean that kavya has to do that same thing..

N yes dats true that Kavya was enjoying when anu was suffering but here Anupama is also enjoying enough by interfering unnecessary in v n k matters.. y did she gave mukku permission to stay in that house when kavya was not comfortable? Abhi lagta to aisa hi hai ke anupama ko in sabme majja aata hai..

And I don't think nandini was blaming anyone for her masi's mistakes infact she was just concerned for her. Shah house ka past record dekhte hue koi bhi future dil insecure ho hi jayegi..

First point is Vanraj agreed to let Mukku stay even before Anu said anything

Secondly Vanraj decided to divorce Kavya much before Mukku was in the picture

And thirdly she very clearly blamed anupama for Kavya's miseries

Originally posted by: gopi2929

First point is Vanraj agreed to let Mukku stay even before Anu said anything

Secondly Vanraj decided to divorce Kavya much before Mukku was in the picture

And thirdly she very clearly blamed anupama for Kavya's miseries

When did she say that anupama is responsible for this condition of her maasi?

Nandini is a smart girl..she always supported anupama and was always against her masi's wrong doings..but now the situation is different..so her concern for her maasi is genuine..

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

I am ok with the maasi support program of nandini. She is technically right here. All the points are valid like kavya was always treated like a second class citizen, vanraj is being whitewashed but kavya is not given same treatment.

BUT, I seriously doubt the authenticity, sincerity of this suddenly started maasi jai jai kaar and the reasons for which it is becoming unreasonable are-

1) nandini is the same girl who didn't give shit about her so called dearest maasi sometime ago. It was samar who asked her to look out for her maasi in the first place. So from where did this concern came from? And if it came then why to fight with the same person who asked you to take care of maasi, isnt it obvious they he also cares for her or else he wouldn't have asked you to be with kavya.

2) she is constantly comparing kavya and anupama and demanding same respect, position should be given to k. But it can't be the same for her. Anu is the lady who jas literally served like a maid to this house. The sacrifices she has done can never be done by k. The way anu loves this toxic family, k can never be like that. I am not saying that K should turn into another anu naukrani but thats the fact that what anu is to shah family, k can never be that. So definitely anu will always have more respect than k in shah house.

3) nandini is complaining because anu supported mukku, it affected vanya marriage and k was forced to leave house. This is bullshit. I know anu shouldn't have taken the decision of mukku staying with shah. But she did it because of circumstances and to help out anuj- mukku. I am here with samar when he defended anu that anu helped them because he was The ANUJ, the same man who saved samar, the same man who took care of rohan, the same man, who saved their house...he has done so much for this family and they can't even take care of his sister for sometime. The logic that k is facing same situation which anu faced when k came to live in shah house ia another bullshit. K already had affair with v. She had ill intentions. She was never pure hearted when she came for living there while there is no such thing in mukku's heart. And at that time v didnt knew about mukku's trauma. All he knew that she is anuj's sister and neither v nor mukku was romantically involved. So its only like helping out a friend. Its not that big issue which k made out of it.

4) nandini complaints that k still treated as 'parayi' well...to be honest, if shah family didn't put enough efforts to accept kavya then kavya also didn't do enough to mingle. I am not talking here about household chores or physical labour. i am talking about emotional bonding. She never said good words, shared worries, celebrated with any member. She had always made them against each other, insitgated them, tried to take advantage of their problems.

5) nandini is somehow blaming anu for her maasi's situation. This is the biggest bullshit. If the whole idea behind this support maasi program is thinking about women situation in shah family then what is nandu doing. She is doing same mistake. She is supporting her maasi but for that blaming another woman anu for it. Agar itni himmat hai to khulke vanraj ke khilaaf morcha kholo. Usko blame karo aur ye kaam to tabhi kar dena chahiye tha jab v aur k ka jhagda hua tha divorce ke leke. Tab kyu nahi aayi maasi ka sath dene. Tab anu ko hi uncomfortable situation mein daalke bola gaya ki wo hi vanya ko samjhaye...tab kaha gayi thi maasi ki bhanji.

Exactly!! You have absolutely summed up all I feel in the perfect manner.... 🤗😊

I think she said that this was because Anu gave permission, and that she should have supported maasi.... etc.

Originally posted by: HpTheChosenOne

I think she said that this was because Anu gave permission, and that she should have supported maasi.... etc.

Yaar these are two different things..she said anupama gave permission but she did not say that anupama is responsible for Kavya's condition..that's very obvious na..because kavya was not comfortable but still anupama interfered

Yes she wants anupama to interfere now that's not right on her part..I agree..

But it's not like she is accusing anupama for something..she didn't like the fact that anupama gave permission to mukku to stay in that pagalkhana when her masi was going through a rough patch..knowing behaviour and intentions of his so called father in law..she knows very well that he can take advantage of mukku easily because he is like that only..

U tell me..koi bhi dil aise kaise pareshan nahi hogi..and plz dnt forget kavya is her only relative here..she was always against her but this time if she is sympathizing with her thn wats wrong in that?

When she was supporting anupama it was OK.. but 1 time when she is supporting her masi thn it's hard to digest..

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Yaar these are two different things..she said anupama gave permission but she did not say that anupama is responsible for Kavya's condition..that's very obvious na..because kavya was not comfortable but still anupama interfered

Yes she wants anupama to interfere now that's not right on her part..I agree..

But it's not like she is accusing anupama for something..she didn't like the fact that anupama gave permission to mukku to stay in that pagalkhana when her masi was going through a rough patch..knowing behaviour and intentions of his so called father in law..she knows very well that he can take advantage of mukku easily because he is like that only..

U tell me..koi bhi dil aise kaise pareshan nahi hogi..and plz dnt forget kavya is her only relative here..she was always against her but this time if she is sympathizing with her thn wats wrong in that?

When she was supporting anupama it was OK.. but 1 time when she is supporting her masi thn it's hard to digest..

Nandu sympathising with k is ok. No one is judging her in this but she is being unreasonable by bringing this topic between her relationship with samar and expecting that he will side with k not his own mother on this. This is top grade foolishness.

And she very conveniently keep forgetting everything like how samar was the one at the first place to remind her to take care of her maasi.

Think from samar's pov for a while, a woman who broke his parents marriage, kept troubling his mom even after marrying his father, character assisinated his mom, made fun of her innumerable times. Even after all this, samar was sympathising and worried for k when the divorce drama happened and asked her own bhanji nandu, who till that time didn't give a shit about her maasi, to take care of her. Now that's a genuine concern. And nandu here is fighting with the same guy about how nobody cares for her maasi....what a foolishness.

And even though nandu is not directly blaming anu for everything but her words always come down to this conclusion that since anu permitted mukku to live in shah house thats why all the problems started. This is pure non sense. Because even though it was not right of anu to make that decision but she did so because of certain circumstances. She did that to help anuj, same anuj who did lots of favour to shahs. And problems in vanya started way before mukku entry.

And mukku staying with shahs cant be compared with k staying with shahs because k and v already had affair when k moved in while there was no such thing between mukku and v. K had ill intentions to break shah family and have v all by herself while mukku had no such intentions. K felt insecure from mukku its k's fault, her own failure to build that trust between husband and wife. If K doubts v's intention about mukku then again its k's fears and v's pathetic nature. And v permitted mukku because she was his business partner not because he saw a possible opportunity of extra marital affair. You cant blame every other young woman for your ruined marriage. Aise to shah pariwar mein aurto ka aana hi band ho jana chahiye. Kabhi nandu kinjal ki koi dost ayegi to use bhi k shak ki nazro se dekhegi kya. Khud ka pati aawara hai aur khud bhi dhood ki dhuli nahi hai to relationship aise hi chalega dhakke kha kha ke.. iske liye puri duniya ko blame nahi kar sakte.

All in all, nandu sympathies with k, worried for her, even confronted some people its ok but dragging the topic too much, bringing samar and her relationship into this, bringing mukku into this, trying to mean that its all because of anu's one impulsive decision...this is getting too much.

Past is past , samar was humane enough at some time to have concern for kavya and to have asked nandini to look for her , but that doesn’t mean he has to be repaid with his mother’s present disdain acts of interfering being justified

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Nandu sympathising with k is ok. No one is judging her in this but she is being unreasonable by bringing this topic between her relationship with samar and expecting that he will side with k not his own mother on this. This is top grade foolishness.

And she very conveniently keep forgetting everything like how samar was the one at the first place to remind her to take care of her maasi.

Think from samar's pov for a while, a woman who broke his parents marriage, kept troubling his mom even after marrying his father, character assisinated his mom, made fun of her innumerable times. Even after all this, samar was sympathising and worried for k when the divorce drama happened and asked her own bhanji nandu, who till that time didn't give a shit about her maasi, to take care of her. Now that's a genuine concern. And nandu here is fighting with the same guy about how nobody cares for her maasi....what a foolishness.

And even though nandu is not directly blaming anu for everything but her words always come down to this conclusion that since anu permitted mukku to live in shah house thats why all the problems started. This is pure non sense. Because even though it was not right of anu to make that decision but she did so because of certain circumstances. She did that to help anuj, same anuj who did lots of favour to shahs. And problems in vanya started way before mukku entry.

And mukku staying with shahs cant be compared with k staying with shahs because k and v already had affair when k moved in while there was no such thing between mukku and v. K had ill intentions to break shah family and have v all by herself while mukku had no such intentions. K felt insecure from mukku its k's fault, her own failure to build that trust between husband and wife. If K doubts v's intention about mukku then again its k's fears and v's pathetic nature. And v permitted mukku because she was his business partner not because he saw a possible opportunity of extra marital affair. You cant blame every other young woman for your ruined marriage. Aise to shah pariwar mein aurto ka aana hi band ho jana chahiye. Kabhi nandu kinjal ki koi dost ayegi to use bhi k shak ki nazro se dekhegi kya. Khud ka pati aawara hai aur khud bhi dhood ki dhuli nahi hai to relationship aise hi chalega dhakke kha kha ke.. iske liye puri duniya ko blame nahi kar sakte.

All in all, nandu sympathies with k, worried for her, even confronted some people its ok but dragging the topic too much, bringing samar and her relationship into this, bringing mukku into this, trying to mean that its all because of anu's one impulsive decision...this is getting too much.

Dude I have already said that she is being unreasonable and she is not right here..but I am not debating on this thing now..

Anupama and samar always supported her in her hard times but she was also there with anupama and samar everytime na..it was not like only anupama and samar were there for her..anupama faced so much of humiliation and dirty things in that house and nandini was always there..

U knw supporting someone over ur blood relation is not easy for anyone..but she was always there for them..

Infact anupama samar and nandini they all were supportive but this time nandini is seriously insecure because of the treatment vanraj is getting in Shah house despite of his horrible mistakes and insults kavya is getting for the same..

Its a very simple thing to understand..evey male of shah house is selfish to the core so it's hard to trust them now..

Let kavya also taste her own medicine. She also when vanraj did not divorce to anupama and Even anupama did not know vanraj affair, then when kavya stay at shah house when anupama still wilfe of vanraj then at that time while staying at shah house kavya without permission wore saree of anupama kavya also make pasta for vanraj while staying at shah house

So w

And kavya use to come between samar and vanraj ki apne father se ttameej se baat karo

Aur anupama ko bol rahi thi guest ko brass ke utensil mein nahin crokerry mein khilaao when vanraj 4 guest come to shah house

In all these insident kavya was not wife of vanraj but while staying at shah house at that time ,right to kavya ka bhi nahin tha samar ko bolne ko kavya use to behave as if she is wife of vanraj and bahu of shah and mother of samar

Why should anupama care for kavya when kavya did not care for anupama jub kavya vanraj ke saka ath khade ho anupama ki taraf dekh ke evil smile karti thi ki dekho vanraj mere saath khada hai . He love me not u

Infact anupama should not care any about these two vanraj and kavya

Both vanraj and kavya should get taste of own medicline what they did to anupamee

Both kavya and vanraj are responible for anupama breaking of marriage

The house was salvaged with Anujs loan to Anupama. It maybe argued that she was the one who sought the help of Rakhee Dave.

When MaAn were in Mumbai, Vanya literally followed them without a thought of the mess the family was in. When Rakhee sat swinging, Ladla couldn't face her alone he dragged Anupama along.

Regarding Kavya not getting love and respect from Shahs... She threatened to get them arrested if the marriage didn't happen... Got Samar arrested, instigated everyone against Anupama. Never spared an opportunity to insult the Shahs has never genuinely tried to build ties. Respect and care is a two way street. Every time there is a crisis the Shahs call Anupama to solve it.

The divorce of Kavya was not initiated by Anupama. Insecurities of Kavya have always prompted pettiness in her. The Shahs have always taken women for granted. Samar however had stood by Nandini in all occasions even when Kavya hadn't. To call him Vanrajs son in his behaviour saying like father like son is unfair.