Stop the Massi Chant - Page 2

Originally posted by: naaznin

Kavya never got the love and respect which a daughter in law deserves. She was put up with her sautan in same house and continuosly degraded.

It was vanraj who cheated and tortured Anuapama not Kavya.

So if anyone is to be blamable it's vanraj.

Kavya too is suffering what Anuapama went through all years. Difference is that Kavya is just vocal about it and Anuapama was not.

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Really?

So Kavya didn't know about Anuapama when she had the affair with Vanraj? Did she think Vanraj was unmarried?

Kavya didn't do anything wrong by cheating her own husband?

And she also didn't do anything wrong when she cooked up a nice domestic abuse story to put up at shah house?

And she also didn't do anything wrong when she befriended Anupama only to break her trust later?

Wah Saint Kavya

Lets blame only Vanraj

Kavya is just an innocent soul

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Exactly..kavya and vanraj are married now and only vanraj and his family is responsible for these insecurities of kavya..

First these morons shah parivaar used to compare her at every point with anupama and thn her so called husband, not to forget, he was stalking his (ex anpadh, ugly, masaale ki badboo wali wife..as per him obviously)

So if kavya was Insecure thn she was not wrong..

And thn anupama devi ji gave permission to mukku maiyaa to stay in Shah parivaar without asking kavya..

Anupama never raised her voice against anything in the.past but kavya is not anupama and dats why she is getting such treatment..so nandini is not completely wrong here if she is sympathizing with her maasi..

She knows it very well that her future can be like this too because these morons knows how to put all blames on their dils so her reaction is justified..

My question to Nandini is that why she expects Kavya would be treated any differently as DIL when Anupama was treated like a door mat? When Anuapama was going through that misery Kavya was not only enjoying the show she was also making active contributions towards the same

So dear Nandidni before you blame other people for your masi's insecurities please take a good look at her actions. It is just karma of what she has given to Anu. Nandini has to understand that Anupama is not responsible for Vanraj or Kavya. And although she may feel that DIL's in Shah house are not treated with respect...so she by all means can break the alliance. But just who gives her the right to blame other people for her masi's mistakes?

Originally posted by: gopi2929

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Really?

So Kavya didn't know about Anuapama when she had the affair with Vanraj? Did she think Vanraj was unmarried?

Kavya didn't do anything wrong by cheating her own husband?

And she also didn't do anything wrong when she cooked up a nice domestic abuse story to put up at shah house?

And she also didn't do anything wrong when she befriended Anupama only to break her trust later?

Wah Saint Kavya

Lets blame only Vanraj

Kavya is just an innocent soul

I never said Kavya was a saint she was a vamp not a heroine but vanraj Kavya Anupama cheating story is done and dusted. Anupama could have filed mental harassment case but she didn't do and preferred to move on..More than cheating the behaviour of vanraj towards Anuapama was crime. It was not like anupama suffered when Kavya came in vanraj's life. Kavya herself said her husband never had time for her and she was ignored and in a weak moment she came close to vanraj.

Now the thing is will every DIL of Shah household get same treatment and become door mat and get cheated by their husband.

There is nothing like karma otherwise vanraj would be rotting in hell but like he said he is more successful now.

Kavya is suffering not because of her karma but because vanraj is her husband now and this mental harassment needs to be stopped.. if Kavya would not have married vanraj she would have been happy now.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

My question to Nandini is that why she expects Kavya would be treated any differently as DIL when Anupama was treated like a door mat? When Anuapama was going through that misery Kavya was not only enjoying the show she was also making active contributions towards the same

So dear Nandidni before you blame other people for your masi's insecurities please take a good look at her actions. It is just karma of what she has given to Anu. Nandini has to understand that Anupama is not responsible for Vanraj or Kavya. And although she may feel that DIL's in Shah house are not treated with respect...so she by all means can break the alliance. But just who gives her the right to blame other people for her masi's mistakes?

If anupama was treated Like a doormat thn she was the only one who was responsible for that kind of treatment because she never raised her voice against anything..it doesn't mean that kavya has to do that same thing..

N yes dats true that Kavya was enjoying when anu was suffering but here Anupama is also enjoying enough by interfering unnecessary in v n k matters.. y did she gave mukku permission to stay in that house when kavya was not comfortable? Abhi lagta to aisa hi hai ke anupama ko in sabme majja aata hai..

And I don't think nandini was blaming anyone for her masi's mistakes infact she was just concerned for her. Shah house ka past record dekhte hue koi bhi future dil insecure ho hi jayegi..

My opinion -

For mukku to be able to stay at Shah house, the permission was to be from both sides, A) the Shahs, because it is their house, B) Mukku's own family, i.e Anuj.

When Anupama said she could stay there, it was on behalf of anuj, not the shahs, to prevent further distancing between the two siblings. Vanraj gave permission first, that too on behalf of shahs. So technically he should be questioned first.

Coming to Nandu, majority of her points were fair enough, however that doesn't make Samar wrong. Why should Anupama support Kavya??! True, Vanraj was much more responsible for messing up Anupama's life, and now Kavya's life too, he deserves hell for all this, lekin Kavya bhi dudh ki dhuli nahi hai. She doesn't deserve to be made a doormat but she doesn't deserve Anupama's support (as per nandu) either.

No offence anyone... 😊😊

This same nandini who called her mausi pschyo w hen vanraj went to anupama on motorcycle for picnic

Then most of people are saying yes yes kavya has become psycho nandini is right kavya is mentally torturng shahs why she want to marry vanraj when vanraj Dont want to marry kavya

Aaj se 9 , 10 th mahine pehle log shah family se bahut sympathsesi rakhte they aur kavya ko psycho kehte they

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Nandini should ask this question to baa why son is white wash why all blame on vanraj. Samar ne kabhi ek ko blame nahin kiya. He equally blame vanraj and kavya. It was baa toshu pakhi jo only kavya ko blame karte they aur nandini bhi wohi kaam karti thi sirf kavya ko blame karti thi aur vanraj ko blame nahin karti thi instead nandini called psycho so why to question shah ki shah sirf mausi ko blame karti hai vanraj ko nahin

Nandini ne bhi to wohi kaam kiya jo shah ne kiya ( except samar, anupama and bapuji ) puttimg whole blame on kavya . To yeh sawal nandini ko khud se bhi karna chahiye why she use blame her only mausi not vanraj

Anyways i always told both kavya and vanraj are at fault. Kisi ek ko blame nahin kiya jaa sakta

Nandini isn't wrong nor kavya when she advised her to stay separately i guess this was the few moments were she genuinely cares for her niece and there was no manipulation involved.

Remember, sab k sab kaise chadh Gaye the kinjal k time par and the jhoola Devi was constantly trying to safe herself by putting all the blame on kinjal

Anupama maata should have atleast asked Kavya if she wants mukku toh leave there or not, but nahi permission toh aise dedi jaise maalkin ho ghar ki, she's neither a relative to mukku nor the owner (resident) of that house, then with what right did she let her stay there????

Samar isn't wrong either, he blames Mr Shah in the same amount. Nandu has a problem with other Shah's and their stepmother behaviour with Kavya. Agreed she's a selfish b**** but vanraj is much bigger one. Kya jawaab diya hai nandu ne ravanraj ko recap me mazza ayega

Originally posted by: HpTheChosenOne

My opinion -

For mukku to be able to stay at Shah house, the permission was to be from both sides, A) the Shahs, because it is their house, B) Mukku's own family, i.e Anuj.

When Anupama said she could stay there, it was on behalf of anuj, not the shahs, to prevent further distancing between the two siblings. Vanraj gave permission first, that too on behalf of shahs. So technically he should be questioned first.

Coming to Nandu, majority of her points were fair enough, however that doesn't make Samar wrong. Why should Anupama support Kavya??! True, Vanraj was much more responsible for messing up Anupama's life, and now Kavya's life too, he deserves hell for all this, lekin Kavya bhi dudh ki dhuli nahi hai. She doesn't deserve to be made a doormat but she doesn't deserve Anupama's support (as per nandu) either.

No offence anyone... 😊😊

But anupama na shah hai na hai na kapadia as of now..so she should stop speaking in between their matters otherwise blame bhi lena hoga apne sar..she is not Anuj's spokesperson as well..

And yes I am not supporting kavya in any way..I know she is not dudh ki dhuli..

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

I'm sorry, but Nandini's Massi Chant is getting irritating to hear now. I mean, fine stand up for your aunt, but don't fight for her in your own relationship. Like wtf.

And Kavya isn't a pure soul that she keeps chanting her Massi Massi jaap.

Honestly, I'm with Samar about how Nandini is stepping into Kavya's shoes and fears rejection and seclusion. Like, take a break, but stop the Massi Massi shiz.

I am ok with the maasi support program of nandini. She is technically right here. All the points are valid like kavya was always treated like a second class citizen, vanraj is being whitewashed but kavya is not given same treatment.

BUT, I seriously doubt the authenticity, sincerity of this suddenly started maasi jai jai kaar and the reasons for which it is becoming unreasonable are-

1) nandini is the same girl who didn't give shit about her so called dearest maasi sometime ago. It was samar who asked her to look out for her maasi in the first place. So from where did this concern came from? And if it came then why to fight with the same person who asked you to take care of maasi, isnt it obvious they he also cares for her or else he wouldn't have asked you to be with kavya.

2) she is constantly comparing kavya and anupama and demanding same respect, position should be given to k. But it can't be the same for her. Anu is the lady who jas literally served like a maid to this house. The sacrifices she has done can never be done by k. The way anu loves this toxic family, k can never be like that. I am not saying that K should turn into another anu naukrani but thats the fact that what anu is to shah family, k can never be that. So definitely anu will always have more respect than k in shah house.

3) nandini is complaining because anu supported mukku, it affected vanya marriage and k was forced to leave house. This is bullshit. I know anu shouldn't have taken the decision of mukku staying with shah. But she did it because of circumstances and to help out anuj- mukku. I am here with samar when he defended anu that anu helped them because he was The ANUJ, the same man who saved samar, the same man who took care of rohan, the same man, who saved their house...he has done so much for this family and they can't even take care of his sister for sometime. The logic that k is facing same situation which anu faced when k came to live in shah house ia another bullshit. K already had affair with v. She had ill intentions. She was never pure hearted when she came for living there while there is no such thing in mukku's heart. And at that time v didnt knew about mukku's trauma. All he knew that she is anuj's sister and neither v nor mukku was romantically involved. So its only like helping out a friend. Its not that big issue which k made out of it.

4) nandini complaints that k still treated as 'parayi' well...to be honest, if shah family didn't put enough efforts to accept kavya then kavya also didn't do enough to mingle. I am not talking here about household chores or physical labour. i am talking about emotional bonding. She never said good words, shared worries, celebrated with any member. She had always made them against each other, insitgated them, tried to take advantage of their problems.

5) nandini is somehow blaming anu for her maasi's situation. This is the biggest bullshit. If the whole idea behind this support maasi program is thinking about women situation in shah family then what is nandu doing. She is doing same mistake. She is supporting her maasi but for that blaming another woman anu for it. Agar itni himmat hai to khulke vanraj ke khilaaf morcha kholo. Usko blame karo aur ye kaam to tabhi kar dena chahiye tha jab v aur k ka jhagda hua tha divorce ke leke. Tab kyu nahi aayi maasi ka sath dene. Tab anu ko hi uncomfortable situation mein daalke bola gaya ki wo hi vanya ko samjhaye...tab kaha gayi thi maasi ki bhanji.

Originally posted by: naaznin

I never said Kavya was a saint she was a vamp not a heroine but vanraj Kavya Anupama cheating story is done and dusted. Anupama could have filed mental harassment case but she didn't do and preferred to move on..More than cheating the behaviour of vanraj towards Anuapama was crime. It was not like anupama suffered when Kavya came in vanraj's life. Kavya herself said her husband never had time for her and she was ignored and in a weak moment she came close to vanraj.

Now the thing is will every DIL of Shah household get same treatment and become door mat and get cheated by their husband.

There is nothing like karma otherwise vanraj would be rotting in hell but like he said he is more successful now.

Kavya is suffering not because of her karma but because vanraj is her husband now and this mental harassment needs to be stopped.. if Kavya would not have married vanraj she would have been happy now.

But you did say it was all Vanraj's fault only

I just replied to that point