What will break Meety???

Hi. I am Suvika. Writer by profession, been a part of KTLK, Humsafars and KRPKAB forums and a silent reader in this one. Until now. Yesterday’s episode and the promos got me thinking about this one.

What will break Meety?

Before we get into that, let’s see WHY I think she needs to break. And by “Break” I don’t mean she will cry buckets or drink phenyl (couldn’t resist that one). I mean - her giving up and walking out of AH (Temporary of course)

Her self-confidence is the lowest. Courtesy of her dadi, she believes she is manhoos / unlucky. Bhai ko khagayi. That was the reason Meetwa’s - tumse achha life partner koi ho hi nahi sakta - affected her so much. It meant more to her than any I love yous he could have come up with. She doesn't believe that anyone can love her. She doesn't expect it also. She only does her duty. She was ready to jump into the physical aspect of the relationship not for love but because that’s what’s expected of her. What an ideal wife should do. Pati ko rijhana hai.

So at some point, she WILL have to break. If she doesn’t then there is no difference between Meet - Badlegi duniya ki reet and any other TV show where the FL is portrayed as “mahaan” / “aadarsh beti / bahu / …”.

Meety, by nature, is a strong girl. Tougher than most. But it doesn’t mean she doesn’t / can’t get hurt. She does. Like she said during HM -

Tere ko kya lagta hain, mere pati ke edidh-gedidh uska past ghoomta rehta hain, tanne lagata hain ki yeh mere liye yo aasaan hain?

Circumstances and her father taught her the art of pushing everything that hurts to the back of her mind and not let it interfere with what needs to be done. In other words, “Mushkil mein bhaag lene wali… and not bhaagne wali.” So far we have seen her dust off her dadi’s constant taunts, Babita’s - get out of my son’s life, Masoom’s insults and manipulations, Manushi’s shadow in her HM and last but not the least, Meetwa’s Manushi jaap. Agreed that it has gone down now but there is no way for Meety to know if that’s because she came right out and told him that it hurts her or because he is genuinely letting Manushi out of his heart. Even if she believes his - mujhe koi faraq nahi padta, I am sure she takes it with more than a pinch of salt. Because the bottom line is that she did come into AH as Manushi’s proxy. It is difficult for any woman to forget that fact especially when there is a chance that her husband still has feelings for her sister. Yet, she is facing everything that’s being thrown at her with courage, smile and a refreshingly practical approach that is rarely seen in the TV shows.

But then again, for every person, there has to be a breaking point. What would be Meety’s?

1. Meetwa getting visibly affected by Manushi’s presence in his house?

2. Babita softening her attitude towards Manushi? (Before you question the possibility of this one…yes, it’s definitely possible. That was the whole point of Sunaina track, if you ask me. To show the viewers how illogical, insensitive and transactional Babita can be when it comes to aspects concerning her sons. Sunaina wedding is the platform on which Babita - Manushi team-up can be built-on.)

3. Babita - Masoom - Manushi team-up? As in watching the three of them get along or maybe seeing them together and realizing she is the odd man out, so to speak?

4. The earring that Meetwa still has with him somewhere? I mean, seeing that combined with one of the above could act as a trigger.

Or would you all prefer she not break, stay on like this and take whatever might be dished out?

Meetwa will break but I think it will be when she finds out what all Manushi is ready to do for what she wants and that is Meet A.

Until now she has not realised her love for Meet A. She is not head over heels in love with him. So finding the earing or anything won't throw her off the edge.

Regarding the feeling odd man out between Manushi, Babita and Masoom - Meet knows what kind of person Masoom is - she can care less about her. Babita - Meet is used to her accusations. She doesn't care.

But Manushi as much as Meet doesn't like her around her family she still loves her dear sister. She can still do anything for her. When she finds out what her sister is planning and she was involved in the accidents in the hotel and desert she will not be able to handle it.

Reserving this coz I'll comment once I'm done with work.

Also tagging a few who might have some insight.

Nikki please tag the rest as I'm unable to specially Meher

Originally posted by: Princess1398

Reserving this coz I'll comment once I'm done with work.

Also tagging a few who might have some insight.

Nikki please tag the rest as I'm unable to specially Meher

sure Mau.. tagging mehr and other

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Hi. I am Suvika. Writer by profession, been a part of KTLK, Humsafars and KRPKAB forums and a silent reader in this one. Until now. Yesterday’s episode and the promos got me thinking about this one.

What will break Meety?

Before we get into that, let’s see WHY I think she needs to break. And by “Break” I don’t mean she will cry buckets or drink phenyl (couldn’t resist that one). I mean - her giving up and walking out of AH (Temporary of course)

Her self-confidence is the lowest. Courtesy of her dadi, she believes she is manhoos / unlucky. Bhai ko khagayi. That was the reason Meetwa’s - tumse achha life partner koi ho hi nahi sakta - affected her so much. It meant more to her than any I love yous he could have come up with. She doesn't believe that anyone can love her. She doesn't expect it also. She only does her duty. She was ready to jump into the physical aspect of the relationship not for love but because that’s what’s expected of her. What an ideal wife should do. Pati ko rijhana hai.

So at some point, she WILL have to break. If she doesn’t then there is no difference between Meet - Badlegi duniya ki reet and any other TV show where the FL is portrayed as “mahaan” / “aadarsh beti / bahu / …”.

Meety, by nature, is a strong girl. Tougher than most. But it doesn’t mean she doesn’t / can’t get hurt. She does. Like she said during HM -

Tere ko kya lagta hain, mere pati ke edidh-gedidh uska past ghoomta rehta hain, tanne lagata hain ki yeh mere liye yo aasaan hain?

Circumstances and her father taught her the art of pushing everything that hurts to the back of her mind and not let it interfere with what needs to be done. In other words, “Mushkil mein bhaag lene wali… and not bhaagne wali.” So far we have seen her dust off her dadi’s constant taunts, Babita’s - get out of my son’s life, Masoom’s insults and manipulations, Manushi’s shadow in her HM and last but not the least, Meetwa’s Manushi jaap. Agreed that it has gone down now but there is no way for Meety to know if that’s because she came right out and told him that it hurts her or because he is genuinely letting Manushi out of his heart. Even if she believes his - mujhe koi faraq nahi padta, I am sure she takes it with more than a pinch of salt. Because the bottom line is that she did come into AH as Manushi’s proxy. It is difficult for any woman to forget that fact especially when there is a chance that her husband still has feelings for her sister. Yet, she is facing everything that’s being thrown at her with courage, smile and a refreshingly practical approach that is rarely seen in the TV shows.

But then again, for every person, there has to be a breaking point. What would be Meety’s?

1. Meetwa getting visibly affected by Manushi’s presence in his house?

2. Babita softening her attitude towards Manushi? (Before you question the possibility of this one…yes, it’s definitely possible. That was the whole point of Sunaina track, if you ask me. To show the viewers how illogical, insensitive and transactional Babita can be when it comes to aspects concerning her sons. Sunaina wedding is the platform on which Babita - Manushi team-up can be built-on.)

3. Babita - Masoom - Manushi team-up? As in watching the three of them get along or maybe seeing them together and realizing she is the odd man out, so to speak?

4. The earring that Meetwa still has with him somewhere? I mean, seeing that combined with one of the above could act as a trigger.

Or would you all prefer she not break, stay on like this and take whatever might be dished out?

Hey Suvika...Glad you decided to break your silence with such a great topic...I loved reading your perspective and reflections...There is a Japanese art called kintsugi in which pottery is broken to be fixed back with gold paint/glue, making it more beautiful than it was before....What I mean to say is being broken is not a bad thing as long as you come back together to be something even more beautiful....And Meety has that potential...

Yes she has to break for her to understand that she herself is her primary responsibility, that no one else will value her enough if she doesn't do it first..

But Meety is not easily breakable...she is a fighter and as @tvfanatic85 (sorry, I forgot your given name lol) pointed out, Meety has found a way to deal with Babs, Masoom and Manushi...

So...I think it will take all the things on your list and maybe more before Meety gives it all up as futile...My poor tough baby😒

If she does break though, she will pick herself up and do what she has always wanted to do (fulfill hers and her dad's dream)

Let's hope it doesn't come to all that though cuz it will be damn painful to watch...

Hey Suvika nice topic dear!!!

I will jus keep it short, i feel its all the pointers in your list that would make Meety to come to a breaking point… Seeing how MA is accomodating yet a part of him is still coming to the terms with the reality…MH understands this aspect of loosing your near and dear ones wholeheartedly, and she believes in the aspect of giving selflessly rather than taking! She has always prayed for his happiness and she wouldnt tke a step back when it will come to favour him on that !!! Baps, Masoom are all the triggering points for her to think in ‘ THAT POSSIBLE DIRECTION’ and Finally Manu so called emotional manipulations , her sisters fake redemption and equation wit Baps will ultimately put her to take the ultimate descion!!

What i really want to see is Meetys breakdown n her thoughts on this whole matter, n how difficult is for her to move on from Meetwa, though it isnt love yet but the whole foundation of the frendship built between them mite even falter n crumple !!!! Time and again , we were never given a sumup of her feelings and emotions… The day when she openly voiced Meetwa how affected she is with his past lurking around jus gave a brief in abt her insecurities and her hurt!!! This time, hopefully we get to see the insight of her as a whole….

Hey welcome to the forum

I am reserving to comment later

I did ask a similar question but it was when Meetwa was almost ignorant of Meety. Abhi aisa kuch ho nahi raha that will hurt her or even break her. She does acknowledges the unconventional marriage that connects her and Meetwa, and thus she gave him time to move on, and he eventually did. Abhi she just wants her families to be happy, but she isn't doing any sacrifice for that, she is just being herself. I don't know what she will do in the future,but jitna mujhe pata hain that if she ever gets to see the evil side of Manu then she will break.

Her sister is a selfish, good for nothing idiot is something that she knows. But accepting that her sister is nothing less than a cold blooded murder, a Conniving gold digger and a heartless psychopath is something totally different.

Agar Meety ko yeh sab pata chala and if the family sees the way Manushi treated Tej, yeh log khud isse arrest karwanga and tab toh Meety will definitely break.

Originally posted by: Tvfanatic85

Meetwa will break but I think it will be when she finds out what all Manushi is ready to do for what she wants and that is Meet A.

Until now she has not realised her love for Meet A. She is not head over heels in love with him. So finding the earing or anything won't throw her off the edge.

Regarding the feeling odd man out between Manushi, Babita and Masoom - Meet knows what kind of person Masoom is - she can care less about her. Babita - Meet is used to her accusations. She doesn't care.

But Manushi as much as Meet doesn't like her around her family she still loves her dear sister. She can still do anything for her. When she finds out what her sister is planning and she was involved in the accidents in the hotel and desert she will not be able to handle it.

Very interesting take and yes, after today's episode, I am inclined to agree with you. Esp the last couple of minutes...oh my!! Meetwa totally won me over!! Where even her mom and dadi hadn't been comfortable introducing her...here is her husband who is so proudly doing it. 👏 Tough to break after he has begun to give her a strong foundation to stand on.

Yes, it could be Manushi because this girl trusts that sister of hers. More after this cop drama.

Originally posted by: mehraan

Hey Suvika nice topic dear!!!

I will jus keep it short, i feel its all the pointers in your list that would make Meety to come to a breaking point… Seeing how MA is accomodating yet a part of him is still coming to the terms with the reality…MH understands this aspect of loosing your near and dear ones wholeheartedly, and she believes in the aspect of giving selflessly rather than taking! She has always prayed for his happiness and she wouldnt tke a step back when it will come to favour him on that !!! Baps, Masoom are all the triggering points for her to think in ‘ THAT POSSIBLE DIRECTION’ and Finally Manu so called emotional manipulations , her sisters fake redemption and equation wit Baps will ultimately put her to take the ultimate descion!!

What i really want to see is Meetys breakdown n her thoughts on this whole matter, n how difficult is for her to move on from Meetwa, though it isnt love yet but the whole foundation of the frendship built between them mite even falter n crumple !!!! Time and again , we were never given a sumup of her feelings and emotions… The day when she openly voiced Meetwa how affected she is with his past lurking around jus gave a brief in abt her insecurities and her hurt!!! This time, hopefully we get to see the insight of her as a whole….

@red... yes... I would very much like to hear her thoughts too. She talks quite a bit. But I can't help but wonder what is actually going on behind her head. Most times she is very pragmatic in her approach towards her relationships and life in general. But there would be some dreams, hopes and fears too na. Wish we could get to know them.