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Posted: 3 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Separate karna hain toh Gaura ko kare Anita ke pyaar and blind faith se.


Har koyi iss show mein alag he insaan ko target kar raha hain.

Motiben Anita Shivi ko

Jaanu Shiva ko

Shiva Raavi ko instead of Gaura



Jab Raavi akeli bol rahi about Anita ke evil intension and whole Kaandyas said nonsense to her tab Shiva ko naagin and all yaad nahi aaya


Ab jab woh uski Bhabhima ki baat follow karke Anita ko chance de rahi hain toh usse bhi problem hain 🙄

I think now anita will do some kaand and pyaari backless blouse bhabi will be in trouble. And shiva will blame Raavi as usual. Bhabi maa will solve the problem become mahaan, raavi apologize and will i will try to become like u dhara di. Shiva will be like raavi become like bhabi i love her now

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Posted: 3 years ago
#92

Well... I don't know how many of you will agree but haven't we all dreamt about how our partners should be by looking at the most desirable person. Here Shiva loves and respects Dhara and always wanted his wife to have some qualities of dhara "dhara bhabhi ki carbon copy" it is not wrong. But this doesn't mean you will only love her till the time she behaves like her. Raavi also wanted prince charming,a gentleman but she accepted Shiva as shiva...rough,rowdy kirane ki dukan me bore uthane wala.... She loves Shiva for who he is.... This is the only part of Shiva I don't agree. Maybe as Shiva is in dilemma about Raavi's sudden change in behaviour but if he loves her then he shouldn't be threatening her with divorce.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#93

I think shiva is equating raavis new attitude to her relationship with anita and maybe seeing her with motiben. He isnt understanding why raavi is hurt like she calmly explained to suman who calmly received it. For shiva those two are the vamps and are influencing raavi and turning her against dhara and the family.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

For the first time shiva and raavi are talking about their issues and not running away from it.and yeh baat to unke beech aana hi tha kabhi na kabhi because till they are clear about where they stand and what is their importance in each others lives they cannot move forward.raavi is clearly saying that it's not the loan paper kaand she is upset about but the fact that she will always be left out like this in the future,that she is not one of them.a hint about her abandonment issues.she in her anger disrespected dhara, but raavi being raavi immediately realised what she said and clarified that she Didn't mean it that way.

Shiva is confused by her behaviour.if he loves and respects dhara to bits, raavi is no different.he has also seen raavi do the same from childhood.no matter what dhara did, raavi always stood by her, understood her and loved her. So what changed now? Is someone manipulating her? Is someone taking advantage of her innocence to break the family apart.he doubts anita and motiben.someone who has seen relatives taking advantage of his father's goodness and the whole family bearing the brunt of it, it's natural.

He was in a different zone.new year, new beginnings, Romance. Where did this mess come from? Why is raavi not seeing his efforts and surprise? Why is she stuck on dhoka?He was in that rosy phase of naya naya pyaar where you can't stop staring at your girl, can't stop thinking about her, but suddenly the reality check of samaj and compatibility comes crashing down.

Are they dignified in their fight ? Definitely not.but it's real.when have shivi not hit each other where it hurts the most? Dhara has always been there in their marriage since the beginning and it's time raavi shows him the Mirror.of course shiva can't accept that dhara is wrong this time.he refuses to think that and is searching for any other reason that justifies raavi's behaviour.its a really interesting track because it's a real conflict between shivi, between family.its not a misunderstanding.everyone is feeling hurt and they have reasons to feel so.

At last shiva is frustrated. He says raavi he is trying, he is really trying. But it would be difficult for him to take their relationship forward if their tuning doesn't match.

It would be interesting to see if this leads to another separation or shiva really understands how raavi feels or raavi lets this matter go gradually by some efforts from the family and maybe shiva too.


Agreed 💯


Dhara has been a kaala saaya for too long and this issue would have come up some time. So definitely they need to clear out their priorities and expectations from each other.


Bold- the main thing is that they haven't made it an ego issue and walked away yet.....they're still listening and talking to each other. Ghusse mein they've done bakwas before but they come back from it.....like in the previous mukti chahiye scene, aaj bhi in the morning they fought, raat mein they're looking at each other before going to sleep....kal bhi there'll be a similar pattern.


I think sometimes there's so much happening dialogue-vise that we just get stuck on the most dramatic lines.....the gist tho is they're both trying to talk and understand each other. Its taking time......and their ghussa doesn't help.... but they're trying. So lets see if it escalates to a separation again.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: manny136

I think shiva is equating raavis new attitude to her relationship with anita and maybe seeing her with motiben. He isnt understanding why raavi is hurt like she calmly explained to suman who calmly received it. For shiva those two are the vamps and are influencing raavi and turning her against dhara and the family.

Very good point

Shiva is not ready to understand raavi's feelings actually when has he ever

This js a new chapter altogether for Shiva

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Posted: 3 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: Sparklesparkle

Shiva has no right wanting to separate Raavi from Anita. Jaisi bhi hai, she's her sister :/

true just like Shiva can not be separated from his bhabhimaa because she took care of him while growing up bhale kitni bhi selfish and toxic ho woh
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Posted: 3 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

For the first time shiva and raavi are talking about their issues and not running away from it.and yeh baat to unke beech aana hi tha kabhi na kabhi because till they are clear about where they stand and what is their importance in each others lives they cannot move forward.raavi is clearly saying that it's not the loan paper kaand she is upset about but the fact that she will always be left out like this in the future,that she is not one of them.a hint about her abandonment issues.she in her anger disrespected dhara, but raavi being raavi immediately realised what she said and clarified that she Didn't mean it that way.

Shiva is confused by her behaviour.if he loves and respects dhara to bits, raavi is no different.he has also seen raavi do the same from childhood.no matter what dhara did, raavi always stood by her, understood her and loved her. So what changed now? Is someone manipulating her? Is someone taking advantage of her innocence to break the family apart.he doubts anita and motiben.someone who has seen relatives taking advantage of his father's goodness and the whole family bearing the brunt of it, it's natural.

He was in a different zone.new year, new beginnings, Romance. Where did this mess come from? Why is raavi not seeing his efforts and surprise? Why is she stuck on dhoka?He was in that rosy phase of naya naya pyaar where you can't stop staring at your girl, can't stop thinking about her, but suddenly the reality check of samaj and compatibility comes crashing down.

Are they dignified in their fight ? Definitely not.but it's real.when have shivi not hit each other where it hurts the most? Dhara has always been there in their marriage since the beginning and it's time raavi shows him the Mirror.of course shiva can't accept that dhara is wrong this time.he refuses to think that and is searching for any other reason that justifies raavi's behaviour.its a really interesting track because it's a real conflict between shivi, between family.its not a misunderstanding.everyone is feeling hurt and they have reasons to feel so.

At last shiva is frustrated. He says raavi he is trying, he is really trying. But it would be difficult for him to take their relationship forward if their tuning doesn't match.

It would be interesting to see if this leads to another separation or shiva really understands how raavi feels or raavi lets this matter go gradually by some efforts from the family and maybe shiva too.

Loved your perspective Pixie ❤️
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Posted: 3 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

For the first time shiva and raavi are talking about their issues and not running away from it.and yeh baat to unke beech aana hi tha kabhi na kabhi because till they are clear about where they stand and what is their importance in each others lives they cannot move forward.raavi is clearly saying that it's not the loan paper kaand she is upset about but the fact that she will always be left out like this in the future,that she is not one of them.a hint about her abandonment issues.she in her anger disrespected dhara, but raavi being raavi immediately realised what she said and clarified that she Didn't mean it that way.

Shiva is confused by her behaviour.if he loves and respects dhara to bits, raavi is no different.he has also seen raavi do the same from childhood.no matter what dhara did, raavi always stood by her, understood her and loved her. So what changed now? Is someone manipulating her? Is someone taking advantage of her innocence to break the family apart.he doubts anita and motiben.someone who has seen relatives taking advantage of his father's goodness and the whole family bearing the brunt of it, it's natural.

He was in a different zone.new year, new beginnings, Romance. Where did this mess come from? Why is raavi not seeing his efforts and surprise? Why is she stuck on dhoka?He was in that rosy phase of naya naya pyaar where you can't stop staring at your girl, can't stop thinking about her, but suddenly the reality check of samaj and compatibility comes crashing down.

Are they dignified in their fight ? Definitely not.but it's real.when have shivi not hit each other where it hurts the most? Dhara has always been there in their marriage since the beginning and it's time raavi shows him the Mirror.of course shiva can't accept that dhara is wrong this time.he refuses to think that and is searching for any other reason that justifies raavi's behaviour.its a really interesting track because it's a real conflict between shivi, between family.its not a misunderstanding.everyone is feeling hurt and they have reasons to feel so.

At last shiva is frustrated. He says raavi he is trying, he is really trying. But it would be difficult for him to take their relationship forward if their tuning doesn't match.

It would be interesting to see if this leads to another separation or shiva really understands how raavi feels or raavi lets this matter go gradually by some efforts from the family and maybe shiva too.

I hope may be after this track no one will come in their relationship like Dhara , Anita or Mami or Suman
Edited by VaishnaviG - 3 years ago

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