Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi
For the first time shiva and raavi are talking about their issues and not running away from it.and yeh baat to unke beech aana hi tha kabhi na kabhi because till they are clear about where they stand and what is their importance in each others lives they cannot move forward.raavi is clearly saying that it's not the loan paper kaand she is upset about but the fact that she will always be left out like this in the future,that she is not one of them.a hint about her abandonment issues.she in her anger disrespected dhara, but raavi being raavi immediately realised what she said and clarified that she Didn't mean it that way.
Shiva is confused by her behaviour.if he loves and respects dhara to bits, raavi is no different.he has also seen raavi do the same from childhood.no matter what dhara did, raavi always stood by her, understood her and loved her. So what changed now? Is someone manipulating her? Is someone taking advantage of her innocence to break the family apart.he doubts anita and motiben.someone who has seen relatives taking advantage of his father's goodness and the whole family bearing the brunt of it, it's natural.
He was in a different zone.new year, new beginnings, Romance. Where did this mess come from? Why is raavi not seeing his efforts and surprise? Why is she stuck on dhoka?He was in that rosy phase of naya naya pyaar where you can't stop staring at your girl, can't stop thinking about her, but suddenly the reality check of samaj and compatibility comes crashing down.
Are they dignified in their fight ? Definitely not.but it's real.when have shivi not hit each other where it hurts the most? Dhara has always been there in their marriage since the beginning and it's time raavi shows him the Mirror.of course shiva can't accept that dhara is wrong this time.he refuses to think that and is searching for any other reason that justifies raavi's behaviour.its a really interesting track because it's a real conflict between shivi, between family.its not a misunderstanding.everyone is feeling hurt and they have reasons to feel so.
At last shiva is frustrated. He says raavi he is trying, he is really trying. But it would be difficult for him to take their relationship forward if their tuning doesn't match.
It would be interesting to see if this leads to another separation or shiva really understands how raavi feels or raavi lets this matter go gradually by some efforts from the family and maybe shiva too.