Leela had a valid point - Page 2

Originally posted by: vivacious

Will keep it short..

Dolly doesn’t see Bapuji as a Master.. to her, he is a father..

As of now, He needs a servant who can take better care of him than a family..

So, Bapuji prefers Anupama over Dolly .. LOL

Perfect answer ⭐️

Muje nahi lagta dolly Bapuji ko bottle mai dudh pilayegi 🤣🤣🤣

Dolly medicine + glass of water unke hath mai nahi degi ! Yeh sab sirf mooh boli beti ka tendency hai so better to go with her ! 😆

Originally posted by: Rein123

P.S.

I am very happy that Anupamaa has finally moved out of the house and truly appreciate her for that, coming to Baa she was completely wrong to barge into the kaarkhaana and create a scene before the entire family and Bapuji or hasmukh was right to tell her off.

However the language he used with her where he was claiming sole ownership over the property and treating Baa like she is a freeloader of some kind, that was wrong. And I can understand why she reacted and ranted before everyone in the harshest manner regarding his economic status and ability.

Yes Vanraj was wrong, he is a chauvinist and what not, but he was always a good son, brother and father. He too has made a lot of sacrifices which are indeed being overlooked while Anupamaa's are being put on a pedestal.

They can go and celebrate Diwali or any festival they want with Anupamaa, but is it right to neglect Vanraj, Baa, Kavya and Leela in this process? Like spending the entire day with her but leaving the Shah house empty? That is also wrong.

Heat of the moment reaction me one would insult every single person in a room? Such people need medical attention and a rehab. Whatever be the case, one doesn't simply insult their husband the way Leela did. With the way she has been behaving ever since Anuj entered the show is horrendous to say the list and baa had it coming. Bapuji tried everything to make her understand but did she listen? If u can understand Baa then I hope u can understand Bapuji's telling off too.

And now regarding my fav MCP in the world Vanraj. He might be a good son and was a good brother but he is pathetic father.
What kid of a GOOD father insults the mother of his children day in day out when he himself respects his mother? What kind of a father differentiates between his children? What kind of encourages his two children to make fun of the third one? What kind of father insults his son for his different life choices? He is pathetic father and a pathetic human being

Also on festivals everybody wants positivity in their lives and nobody wants the likes of baa Kavya and Vanraj

Originally posted by: vivacious

@ Bold and Underlined..

I totally agree with your point..

Vanraj is a chauvinist and he did behave very badly with Anupama BUT he is such a good son and brother.. he never ever disrespected his dad even though he was the bread earner of the family.. 14 is pretty young age..

In this aspect, he is better than Anupama..

Why didn’t she ask her mother to stay with her?

Why don’t she misses her mother like she misses Baa?

Why don’t she think to cook and care for her mother? I see Anuj more at her home than her mother..

With what rights, Bapuji got ready to stay at Anupama’s place?

What if Anupama is staying at her Mayka, Will Bapuji go and stay at Anupama’s Mayka?

Why didn’t he shift to Dolly’s Place ( His Own Daughter )?

He never corrected Baa or Vanraj and took stand for Anupama when she needed it badly and dependent on Family.. Now when she is independent and needs no one, he is taking her side? Why?

At the end of the day, one should stay with their family and mend things..
Its a shame to stay at Ex-Bahu’s place just bcos your wife insulted you.. Didn’t he snap fingers at her and asked her to leave? Was that a respectful way to ask some to leave? Bapuji started it all..

Why can’t he just leave to his Village or Stay in his room at his home?

Forget once that Vanraj is a bad husband and think..

Vanraj shared his responsibilities and Burdens at a very young age.. got dolly married, built home and always respected him, listened to him..

In comparison with Vanraj, What did Anupama do for Bapuji? How can he leave his son’s home?

I won’t say money is more important than love in life but the fact is.. money is equally important to live a happy life..

The one and only character whom I consistently dislike is Bapuji..

Forget about retiring early, passing all his burdens to his son..

According to me, he never ever corrected Baa and Vanraj when needed.. He is the root cause for this broken family.. Everybody respects him, all he need to do is speak which he didn’t earlier and even now he is the reason for building more gap.. why can’t they visit Anupama, greet her and get back to their home and celebrate?

Why didn’t he wants to spend time with his wife?

Had he told them, let’s go back and celebrate at home after spending some time at Anupama’s place.. he could have avoided this mess..

Anupama can celebrate with her mom, bro, nephew , Devika, Anuj and GK.. It’s not that she is alone..

Why can’t he see, the young couple Toshu and Kinjal are celebrating separately?

He didn’t correct Vanraj and Baa back then cos he needed someone to take care of him.. He is speaking against of them now cos Anupama is financially independent and can take care of him well.. Simple!

I have always feel Bapuji is mithi churi and cunning like lomdi ! Inka mooh kabhi bhi sahi waqt par nahi khulta hai that is the main problem!

Regarding his earnings, may be Bapuji was never talented and skillful person ! I can see his career graph was always below average and vanraj was definitely skillful so he took over house responsibility since the age of 14! He never had basic knowledge of filing tax etc for Ancestor property! He must be school dropped out ! Neither education nor skill set ! Leela was well aware with his financial condition /education/career graph etc during their wedding and still she went ahead with marriage by her choice ! Now it was too much that she was accusing him for his limited earning after years of marriage life! That was wrong on Leela’s part !

Leela can demand equal rights on ancestor property but should not called out her husband for his limited income in front of so many people.

Regarding Bapuji went to anupama’s house for Diwali , may be he doesn’t enjoy his wife’s company anymore because of Leela’s all time aggressive drama on Anuj/Anupama/society blah blah blah and because of that he wanted to stay away from Leela and Kavya duo! Nothing wrong in this ! Jab biwi ko peace se zyada aggressive drama karne ki habit padd jati hai tab aise he hota hai and husband bhi durr bhagte hai !

Toshu and Kinjal characters have 0 importance in the show ! Toshu character is there to cheer vanraj and kinjal character is there to cheer anupama ! That’s it! Isse zyada inka koi value nahi hai entire show mai ! That’s why na he inka koi character growth dikhate hai aur na he unke sath koi logical scenes dikhate hai !

Bapuji the cunning lomdi ko pata hai ki anupama ke allawa unko koi babysit nahi karega that’s why dolly ke ghar jane ka sapne mai bhi nahi soch sakte ! Lol ex-bahu ke ghar kaun jata hai aise ?! 🤢

Shah house land is of hasmukh shah bapuji not vanraj shah as originally house was of bapuji vanraj just developed it further . Zameen ke kuch value nhi hoti , is zameen ki registry bapuji ke naam hogi .

Leela devi ranted rubbish utter rubbish she just performed her duty koi ehsaan nhi kiya jhooladevi ne , sacrifice bapuji ne bhi kiye lekin he don't keep ranting like jhooladevi & vanraj . This house was managed by Anupama jhooladevi has no work other sitting on her jhoola whole day .

Regarding vacanting d house on diwali uska reason jhooladevi khud hai first of all no one really likes her kids just tolerate her coz of anu-raj . Toshu ke outburst se pata chalta kitna respect karte hai bache jhooladevi ki , vaise jhooladevi ke saath kon rehna pasand karega jo din raat anu ko galiya or curse karti rehti hai will samar or pakhi celebrate diwali with someone who keep talking nonsense about their mother , bapuji many times asked jhooladevi to stop her nonsense but she didn't stopped it still they perform Diwali arti in home only .

No one would like to celebrate festival with people who r fill of negativity & keep cursing other person for getting their inner peace . Jhooladevi wished Anu to be alone on diwali but now she herself is alone on diwali.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

Heat of the moment reaction me one would insult every single person in a room? Such people need medical attention and a rehab. Whatever be the case, one doesn't simply insult their husband the way Leela did. With the way she has been behaving ever since Anuj entered the show is horrendous to say the list and baa had it coming. Bapuji tried everything to make her understand but did she listen? If u can understand Baa then I hope u can understand Bapuji's telling off too.

And now regarding my fav MCP in the world Vanraj. He might be a good son and was a good brother but he is pathetic father.
What kid of a GOOD father insults the mother of his children day in day out when he himself respects his mother? What kind of a father differentiates between his children? What kind of encourages his two children to make fun of the third one? What kind of father insults his son for his different life choices? He is pathetic father and a pathetic human being

Also on festivals everybody wants positivity in their lives and nobody wants the likes of baa Kavya and Vanraj

People with a sharp tongue can do that, the lady who insults each and every person around her, you really think she'd shut up if her husband raised his voice against her? I have seen a lot of women who insult their husbands over money every now and then, Baa is not the first one because yes money matters and that is what feeds you at the end of the day. Baa can't insult bapuji but he can insult her to support his so called daughter?

She wasn't behaving like this since Anuj entered the show, she was always like this from the beginning itself, people just forgot about it ever since Vanraj's affair got exposed.

Kids who see their fathers insult their mom's day and night do the same back in return to their mothers and wives, it's normal. In Vanraj's case it's paritosh who took after him. Vanraj picked up the same from Leela who treated Anupamaa like trash just because she wasn't his choice thereby making Vanraj feel justified in his behaviour since he too didn't want to marry her either. Parents do differentiate between children be it a father or mother, all parents do it whether they accept it or not, for Vanraj Paritosh is the ideal son while Samar is a loser who takes after his illiterate wife, while Pakhi is his laadli but she still turned out fine now didn't she? Sometimes genes play a role too. Irrespective of that, he has always made sure to provide for them and that is what counts more at the end of the day, ask the children who literally starve and cry for a decent lifestyle and you'll see what i'm talking about, it's very easy to say that he did not give them the right upbringing and all that, but what you have forgotten was he never took the responsibility of his children's upbringing, for him providing as the breadwinner was his main duty.

Whatever a person wants be it positivity or negativity, there is a basic sense of responsibility towards one's family, when you neglect that you will end up seeing outbursts and reactions like that of baa. They can celebrate with Anupamaa but ignoring their own home for her was kind of wrong according to me.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Shah house land is of hasmukh shah bapuji not vanraj shah as originally house was of bapuji vanraj just developed it further . Zameen ke kuch value nhi hoti , is zameen ki registry bapuji ke naam hogi .

Leela devi ranted rubbish utter rubbish she just performed her duty koi ehsaan nhi kiya jhooladevi ne , sacrifice bapuji ne bhi kiye lekin he don't keep ranting like jhooladevi & vanraj . This house was managed by Anupama jhooladevi has no work other sitting on her jhoola whole day .

Regarding vacanting d house on diwali uska reason jhooladevi khud hai first of all no one really likes her kids just tolerate her coz of anu-raj . Toshu ke outburst se pata chalta kitna respect karte hai bache jhooladevi ki , vaise jhooladevi ke saath kon rehna pasand karega jo din raat anu ko galiya or curse karti rehti hai will samar or pakhi celebrate diwali with someone who keep talking nonsense about their mother , bapuji many times asked jhooladevi to stop her nonsense but she didn't stopped it still they perform Diwali arti in home only .

No one would like to celebrate festival with people who r fill of negativity & keep cursing other person for getting their inner peace . Jhooladevi wished Anu to be alone on diwali but now she herself is alone on diwali.

No it's not, he inherited it from his father, If Vanraj Shah is not the owner yet he developed it then will Hasmukh be ready to pay Vanraj for developing it? No right? Thereby Vanraj becomes the owner by that aspect.

Bapuji gave the house to Vanraj post his marriage to Kavya, then he got Anupama's share as well and made dolly hand over hers as well to him. So technically he is only the owner of the house. Thereby Leela was not wrong.

Jhoolan devi jaisi bhi hai, she is still their Baa at the end of the day, you don't abandon your parents over something like that, I can understand Samar, Kinjal and Pakhi wanting to go visit Anupama because she is their mother, but the rest could have stayed back or just visited for a while and then returned later. And Festival ke din people try to mend relationships not worsen them further for a few seonds or moments of positivity.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I have always feel Bapuji is mithi churi and cunning like lomdi ! Inka mooh kabhi bhi sahi waqt par nahi khulta hai that is the main problem!

Regarding his earnings, may be Bapuji was never talented and skillful person ! I can see his career graph was always below average and vanraj was definitely skillful so he took over house responsibility since the age of 14! He never had basic knowledge of filing tax etc for Ancestor property! He must be school dropped out ! Neither education nor skill set ! Leela was well aware with his financial condition /education/career graph etc during their wedding and still she went ahead with marriage by her choice ! Now it was too much that she was accusing him for his limited earning after years of marriage life! That was wrong on Leela’s part !

Leela can demand equal rights on ancestor property but should not called out her husband for his limited income in front of so many people.

Regarding Bapuji went to anupama’s house for Diwali , may be he doesn’t enjoy his wife’s company anymore because of Leela’s all time aggressive drama on Anuj/Anupama/society blah blah blah and because of that he wanted to stay away from Leela and Kavya duo! Nothing wrong in this ! Jab biwi ko peace se zyada aggressive drama karne ki habit padd jati hai tab aise he hota hai and husband bhi durr bhagte hai !

Toshu and Kinjal characters have 0 importance in the show ! Toshu character is there to cheer vanraj and kinjal character is there to cheer anupama ! That’s it! Isse zyada inka koi value nahi hai entire show mai ! That’s why na he inka koi character growth dikhate hai aur na he unke sath koi logical scenes dikhate hai !

Bapuji the cunning lomdi ko pata hai ki anupama ke allawa unko koi babysit nahi karega that’s why dolly ke ghar jane ka sapne mai bhi nahi soch sakte ! Lol ex-bahu ke ghar kaun jata hai aise ?! 🤢

But this is not their first diwali now is it? Before this he celebrated all his diwali's with her only that time he did not find her aggressive? He cares more about Anupamaa then his wife. Why did he have to go to Anupamaa during Diwali knowing how she'd react to it?

It's not about demanding equal rights on the ancestral property, it was the tone he used with her when he asked to leave the factory. To her that was insulting given it came from her husband out of all people. When he didn't think twice before insulting her then given her nature it was obvious she would react that way, so I don't get why people are so shocked by that?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Baa vanraj already know the day anupama left . Bapuji is upset with baa vanraj so how they can expect hasmukh to celebrate diwali with them

And also Even after bapuji getting upset leela stil did not keep quite. First she snatch right of anupama snatching her share then she keep saying dekhna is baar anupama ki diwali kaali hogi

Leela ko agar family ke saath diwali manani to khub manaye but why she was saying anupama jki diwali kaali hogi

Jub bapuji ko yeh sub nahin pasand hai to aisi baat keh kar bapuji ko aur kyon upset kar rahi hai leela . Jub itna upset karegi leela to bapuji ka kahan se man karega vanraj aur leela ke saath diwali mananeka

Aaj tuk leela ne kya kuya bapuji ko khush rakhne ko?

Leela ne yeh bola tha ki anupama ki diwali kaali hogi. To jo doosre ka bura sochte hain unhi pe bat aa jaata hai

Who is supposed to be Bapuji's priority at the moment, Anupama or his family? Anupama has divorced and left that household, he should allow her to live her life. Visiting her for a few hours during the festival is fine but spending the entire day was no different from inviting leela's wrath. He knows what sort of a person his wife is yet he went ahead to piss her off?

Why is he only upset about Anupamaa leaving? Because she has made a lot of sacrifices? Then what about Leela and Vanraj? Their sacrifices don't count at all? People say Vanraj discriminates between his children, but I guess he learnt that from his own bapuji only, who has placed Anupama alone on a pedestal while ignoring what others went through because of him.

@red she hates anupamaa toh woh uske liye acchaa kyun sochegi? And it's not like she said that infront of everyone.

Bapuji usko get out of my kaarkhana keh ke insult kar sakte hai aur leela usse palat ke bhi jawaab na de? Leela eent ka jawaab patthar se dene waalo mein se hai and you are still asking "Jub bapuji ko yeh sub nahin pasand hai to aisi baat keh kar bapuji ko aur kyon upset kar rahi hai leela ."??

Don’t agree with a lot written except yes Baapuji is at fault.

Does that mean Baa has the right to talk like that. On that premise Baapuji was right to talk to Baa like that because it was because of Baa that his daughter (Anupama) had to leave the house - which is not Baas either.

Also yes money is important but does that mean all rich kids have it easy? A lot struggle to get the attention of their parents. So I can’t agree with that. And if we want to talk about money Anu wanted to work Vanraj stopped her. My husband and I work and look after our child our house and parents. So vanraj is a crappy parent he gave things but not moral education.

Secondly iv said it before if Leela hated their financial situation then she too could have worked. I knw a lot of women her age who have worked and supported their husbands.

Lastly vanraj is a not grey. He is a nan who has subjected his Wife to abuse - emotional, mental and physical. That does not make him grey that makes him an abusive husband who is a bad man. Kindly stop romanticising abuse as grey. It is not.

Baa has never acted like the elder of the family. She’s being a self centred narcissist with major anger management issues.

And I think a lot of us have spoken about this - just because they are your parents does not mean it is ok to tolerate the crap that went down the last few episodes. Just because they are your parents does not mean you have to celebrate your festivals with them if being around them makes you unhappy. We do not have to celebrate with the elders if they have not earned the respect. Age does not equal respect. Please. Vanraj loves his mother why did he leave the ?!?! I reckon if Vanraaj had not gone this would not have happened because BaaVya worship the ground he walks on and would be ok. So please blame him.

Saaf Matlab baa can say anithing any where. Kisi ke bare mein bura kyo sochna. Anupama ne kya bigaada hai baa.that she keep cursing anupama

Aur waise bhi aaj tuk leela kisi baat se khush hui hai? usko kisi na kisi cheez problem rahi hai. Aise log to bus bahana dhundte hai ghar mein jhagda kar neeche liye