Leela had a valid point - Page 4

loved your point.there are woman who crac've to look after their mother after marriage.anupama ko chance mila hey,why fon she be a gud daughter to her own mother?

Anupama doesn’t care enough about her mother or Mayka and that’s a fact..

Serial ki heroine hai na.. so Saath Khoon Maaf!

My point here will be that God helps those who helps themselves.

Anupamaa could have chosen to "forgive" Vanraj and the charade would have continued, probably Vanraj would have been more open about his affair and continued it under Anupamaa's knowledge.

Her window of opportunities opened only when she took a stand for herself. She is alone and thinks that her sacrifices of 26 years went waste, but also not liable to anyone.

Same goes with Hasmukh. He tried to take the easy way out by staying silent when Anupamaa tolerated everything and supported her by just giving her a share of the house when she was doing everything the hard way, but not objecting to Leela's taunts actively. He even stayed mum when Leela used her "kaan pe sitaar" taunt on anyone and everyone. As long as that happened, his marital life went fine.

Once he started caring less about family unity and more about his own opinions, this charade burned itself to the ground as well.

Now he doesn't have a pedestal to stand upon, has been told that he did absolutely nothing substantial for the family he stayed mum for and realizes that his efforts for 50+ years were a waste too. But atleast now he sees the true face of his wife.

The only good that can come out of this is that he should not go back to the house and value his self-respect over anything else.

Leela will atleast be taunted by the entire society that she cared so much about, that she was not able to save her own marriage, exactly how she taunted Anupamaa so many times.

Vanraj build the house at the cost of Anupama's respect. He was able to do so since he didn't have to worry about anything else besides leaving the house and earn. Why are we not able to see that it was all possible with the support of Anupama. Anupama should have equal right over the house. If the factory doesn't belong soley to Bapuji then the house also doesn't only belong to Vee. It is double standard at Baa's end too to claim owership of the factory and throw Anupama out of all the rights over the house!!! Vee was given all the responsibilities of the house at the age of 14!!! How he grew up till then? Neighbours took care of the family till he turned 14? He went for education and worked at the same time. Everyone does that. Older generation didn't have that opportunities when they were young. It is their fault to be not able to earn as much as younger generation do? I do not belong to the older generation but can think of the situation from both angles. Leela is wrong and have the most double standard out of all!!! Why was she completly mute when Vee threw Anupama out of the house very first time for spending an evening with her friends!!!

I just want to answer something yes Anu is a good daughter to her mother coz she was very much present with her mother when needed her in b/w she was ill Anu was looking after her when Kinjal & baa kand happened , in Anu grahpravesh also she was present . In one episode she & baa went to meet her when Bhavesh was setting stall of pickle outside his house , her mother brother were present in dance academy opening also , she has contacted her on phone also.

Anu shares a good relationship with her own mother , yes she is obsessed with baa bhakti that doesn't mean she don't care for her own mother.

Thou I also hold bapuji responsible for anu's condition & not happy with him shifting with anu but i don't want him to return also infact not see jhooladevi face ever.

I want to see what vanraj do when he learn about jhooladevi kand.

Baa deserves what’s happening with her. Dolly was absolutely right! Baa is accepting when it comes to her son’s EMA but she has an issue with Anu being friends with a guy who did so much for her family. It takes years to earn respect and a moment to wash it down the drain and that’s what happened with both Baa and Vanraj. Vanraj had no rights to even point his finger at Anu when his own mistakes will overshadow that of the entire family’s put together. Anu did so much for that family for years and despite ending her relationship with Vanraj she continued to serve them. I am happy she got out coz it was high time. It’s madness to stay in the same house as ur ex husband and his new wife. Anu gave up her share of the property. Baa could have allowed her to keep the factory. That belonged to Bapuji and he gave it to Anupama and let’s not forget it was she who saved it at the end of the day along with Anuj. Else they would have lost it a long time ago. That woman is a thankless piece of s**t. I would love to see her crumble once Kavya shows her her true colours.

Originally posted by: Rein123

But this is not their first diwali now is it? Before this he celebrated all his diwali's with her only that time he did not find her aggressive? He cares more about Anupamaa then his wife. Why did he have to go to Anupamaa during Diwali knowing how she'd react to it?

It's not about demanding equal rights on the ancestral property, it was the tone he used with her when he asked to leave the factory. To her that was insulting given it came from her husband out of all people. When he didn't think twice before insulting her then given her nature it was obvious she would react that way, so I don't get why people are so shocked by that?

Pehle ki Diwali ke time par anuj , anupama and society drama nahi tha na! Iss bar toh Leela kitne dino se yeh taunts and Tamashe kar rahi hai 🤢

Bapuji cares more for anupama because the way anupama babysits him , Leela doesn’t! Anupama bapuji ke hath mai glass of water + medicine deti hai jo Leela kabhi nahi karti hai ! Bapuji is habitual of such a Royal treatment that’s why ek mauka milte hai unki babysitter ke pass bhag ke jate hai ! Bapuji kabhi yeh nahi sochta ki babysitter ki bhi apni personal life hoti hai ! And baby sitter is no less , she is having suicidal attitude so all time ready to babysit him !

Yes Bapuji’s tone was extremely bad and he had told Leela get out so agar Leela ko gussa aya toh bhi aise 3rd class level ki baate nahi sunani chahiye thi 10 logo ke bich mai !

Leela itne saal kaisi third class biwi thi uss direction mai Bapuji ne Leela ko target nahi kiya tha! Leela ko dekh kar lagta nahi hai ki woh bhi koi Acchi biwi yah bahu rahi hogi fir bhi Bapuji ne sabse samne leela ki weaknesses/shortcomings ko expose nahi kiya !

Leela is wrong by exposing her spouse’s weaknesses/shortcomings about their marriage life ! Get out and bad tone ke uper aise apne spouse ke weaknesses ko expose nahi karna chahiye tha woh bhi sab ke samne mature age par ! Immature nayi nayi shaddi wale aisa pagalpan apne spouse ke sath sab ke samne kare toh fir bhi samaj aata hai but itne mature age par yeh zyada galat laga!

Originally posted by: vivacious

Will keep it short..

Dolly doesn’t see Bapuji as a Master.. to her, he is a father..

As of now, He needs a servant who can take better care of him than a family..

So, Bapuji prefers Anupama over Dolly .. LOL

the thing that irked me the most was when anu was giving all mahaan bhashan about beti being their for her father, she was saying all of it in front of dolly and yet she conveniently chose to leave her own father with anupama.

I was like...what the hell! is ghar mein sab anupama ke bharose kyu hain? Dolly sympathize kar sakti hai apne bapuji ke sath lekin unko apne ghar lekar nahi ja sakti....agar aisa hai to bahut hi nalayak beti hai wo.

“Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret” - Ambrose Bierce