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What fear? His mother is a divorcee. Even if she has an affair it is NOT equivalent to his father whose was an extra marital!!!!

It seems baa vanraj and toshu are still living in the past, they dont want to accept that the divorce has happened or rather selectively accept it when it suits their agendas.

An educated twenty first century male who himself ran away with his bride is not accepted to sling mud on any divorced woman leave alone his own mother who has always done good for him.

He totally deserves that slap!

Originally posted by: 07RB

Why he didn’t say the same words to his not so lovely cheater father?

Toshu did say to Vanraj.. If ANUPAMA is Unpadh then BAA is also Unpadh.. When he doesn’t have a problem with Baa then he shouldnt have a problem with Anupama too..

Toshu did question Vanraj and expressed his frustration over his EMA with Kavya

Originally posted by: vivacious

Even though I know, Most of the Forum Members will disagree with me.. I wanted to put forward my opinion after reading so many comments about Toshu getting slapped..

I agree Toshu is wrong, very wrong still he doesn’t deserve a slap..

Toshu always thought highly about Vanraj and he never doubted his friendship with Kavya but it turned out Extra Marital Affair..

He is thoroughly upset and also frustrated with the every day drama after the revelation of EMA..

His wife Kinjal never once tried to understand him.. She is pretty interested in Anupama and his Family than Toshu.. His newly wed life isn’t really something one wishes to have..

And one day..

His Mom came up with a Friend suddenly when he is still trying to cope up with the situations at home..

If he fears, his mom too will someday marry this friend just like Vanraj married Kavya then I must say, his fear is justified..

He did crossed the line and spoke very badly about his mom which is definitely wrong but I can understand his fears..

I don’t encourage physical violence still if slapping someone is a MUST..

Dare to slap Baa

Dare to slap Vanraj

How sad that parents think they can slap their kids just bcos they are younger to them.. and can’t speak against adults like Baa as they are older to them..

Toshu is the least among Shah Family who deserves the Slap..

AM NOT HAPPY

Wow, I mean Wow. Respect everyone’s opinion. But never thought some people also come in support of Toshu!!!! And he has the audacity to talk trash about his mother , when in reality she did no wrong . But he never use the same words for his father who had EMA and hide it for 9 yrs. just wow. He is not having a good married life , that does not give him right to talk trash to his mother .
yes one thing I want to say. Anupama should have abandoned this creep long back . That was her mistake for sure .

Yes if you say talking trash about your mother and then getting slap is physically abuse, then he always does verbal abuse towards everyone and the most selfish person . So yes , no slap is not right , but yes throwing and abandoning him from your life forever is the best decision.
I completely agree with you. Slap is wrong . Just throw him out of your house and life .
One thing he proved , he has 100% Vanraj’a DNA. A complete selfish and creep . One good quality Vanraj had that is live and respect towards parents, that also this creep does not have.

So yes these type of people does not deserve anything. So just keep them away from you as much as possible.

Originally posted by: vivacious

Toshu did say to Vanraj.. If ANUPAMA is Unpadh then BAA is also Unpadh.. When he doesn’t have a problem with Baa then he shouldnt have a problem with Anupama too..

Toshu did question Vanraj and expressed his frustration over his EMA with Kavya

He never used these type of words as rangraliyan for his father, who indeed did rangraliyan. But Anupama is soft target for him always .

There is a saying . If your last Janam karma is very bad , you get a creep like Toshi as a son .

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Very good point .. Indian parents think kids are beneath them even when they are adults and those older are above them forever.

This age related inferiority/superiority complex is ingrained in Indians and needs to go. Slap Baa please before slapping toshu. Why is she only slapping toshu.

In Western countries every one is a “you” theres aap. Hardly anyone does sir sir or maam maam. All dhakoslabaaji in india. Andar se respect aani chahiye logo ko daba kar nai.

Thanks for understanding my point..

I still think, he doesn’t deserve the slap..

All his life, he saw Anupama getting insulted by Baa, Vanraj and Bapuji ( as he never corrected Baa and Vanraj and kept mum.. it’s nothing but a way of supporting them)

Pakhi and he himself too insulted her many a times and nobody back then said, it’s wrong not even Bapuji or Anupama.

Why blame the kids now, when your upbringing is worse?

Slap Baa

Slap Vanraj

Lecture Bapuji too for allowing his wife and son to abuse her all these years even when he holds an authority to control them..

Slap yourself for being a bad parent..

Yes, she is a bad mother.. Parvarish is not all about giving your kids what they want but more than that.. for example, teaching them how to respect others..

Anupama loves to touch Baa’s feet immediately after her Character Assassination but wants to slap Toshu? Why?

When she can control herself from slapping Baa and finds it wrong.. then it’s wrong to slap Toshu too..

To me..

Bapuji

Baa

Vanraj

and Anupama herself are the main culprits and villains of her life and others life..

Slapping is not at all right under any circumstances..

I completely agree that Toshu is wrong.. still he doesn’t deserve the slap.

Blame the parenting..

Anupama, Vanraj, Baa and Bapuji.. Everybody failed in raising the kids in a right way.

Why blame the kids?

Insulting his mother is NOT NEW to him., and he was encouraged to do so from the past 25yrs..
Insulting your Mom is definitely wrong but at Shah home, he was taught it is fine to insult Anupama.. So, don’t blame the kid.

Anupama herself never corrected him, and seedha slap?

Did she slapped Baa, Vanraj or Kavya for saying the same?

Did she once confronted Bapuji for not correcting Baa, Vanraj all these 25years even when he holds the authority?

Pakhi and Toshu insulted her many a times and nobody back then said, it’s wrong not even Bapuji or Anupama.

Why blame the kids now, when your upbringing is worse?

Slap Baa

Slap Vanraj

Lecture Bapuji too for allowing his wife and son to abuse her all these years even when he holds an authority to control them..

Slap yourself for being a bad parent..

Yes, she is a bad mother.. Parvarish is not all about giving your kids what they want but to teach some manners and many more..

Anupama loves to touch Baa’s feet immediately after her Character Assassination but wants to slap Toshu? Why?

When she can control herself from slapping Baa and finds it wrong to do so.. then it’s wrong to slap Toshu too..

To me..

Bapuji

Baa

Vanraj

and Anupama herself are the main culprits and villains of her life and others life..

Slapping is not at all right under any circumstances..

Not just in the serial.. every human being commits mistakes, so nobody has a right to slap others..

Slapping doesn’t correct a person or his Soch.. It just hurts them more..

AM AGAINST SLAPPING

There is a build up being toshu's outburst as baa gang know Toshu is against maan so they definitely fueled him more , maybe he came home to celebrate diwali but finding no one at home baa gang might had feeded him with their nonsense as Toshu still don't know about anu's new home. Baa already wanted to break anu's relationship with others & vanraj do manipulate his kids 4 his own purpose.

Yes 4 me anu is definitely not a good mother as 5 pages ka mother pe essay bolne se koi acchi ma nhi ban jata .

lekin jo Toshu ne kiya vo bilkul galat hai coz he has no right to question Anu & anuj's characters specially when they r not cheating anyone like Vanya .

So yes he definitely deserve d slap.

Iske baap ne shadi shuda hoke affair chalaya and his divorced mom can't have "affair"? Why does that make her characterless?!

Ye C hai like his dad and deserves nothing.

Originally posted by: vivacious

I completely agree that Toshu is wrong.. still he doesn’t deserve the slap.

Blame the parenting..

Anupama, Vanraj, Baa and Bapuji.. Everybody failed in raising the kids in a right way.

Why blame the kids?

Insulting his mother is NOT NEW to him., and he was encouraged to do so from the past 25yrs..
Insulting your Mom is definitely wrong but at Shah home, he was taught it is fine to insult Anupama.. So, don’t blame the kid.

Anupama herself never corrected him, an seedha slap?

Did she slapped Baa, Vanraj or Kavya for saying the same?

Did she once confronted Bapuji for not correcting Baa, Vanraj all these 25years even when he holds the authority?

Pakhi and Toshu insulted her many a times and nobody back then said, it’s wrong not even Bapuji or Anupama.

Why blame the kids now, when your upbringing is worse?

Slap Baa

Slap Vanraj

Lecture Bapuji too for allowing his wife and son to abuse her all these years even when he holds an authority to control them..

Slap yourself for being a bad parent..

Yes, she is a bad mother.. Parvarish is not all about giving your kids what they want but to teach some manners and many more..

Anupama loves to touch Baa’s feet immediately after her Character Assassination but wants to slap Toshu? Why?

When she can control herself from slapping Baa and finds it wrong to do so.. then it’s wrong to slap Toshu too..

To me..

Bapuji

Baa

Vanraj

and Anupama herself are the main culprits and villains of her life and others life..

Slapping is not at all right under any circumstances..

Yes here I agree. As I said before. No slap. Why to make your hand dirty . Throw people like Vanraj, baba, Toshu out of your life for sanity. Doing wrong is bad, my not correcting it bad. Bapuji at least correcting his mistake now. But the other 4 going down the drain .

And yes again as I said , Anupama is wrong by accepting all dirt from beginning. You have to stand for your win dignity first .

but sorry I have seen in real life also, sometimes how good you try to do parenting , some creeps just come out to be rotten .

Dear,

Everybody here is saying Toshu deserves slap bcos he bad mouthed his mother.

I feel, he doesn’t deserve the slap even though he is wrong bcos I’m seeing the root cause of his nasty behaviour which is undoubtedly his worst upbringing.. Simple!